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   Eaglekiwiposted 14 years ago

   Sidney welcome to Hubpages btw.
   I guess you dont know too many people yet ( if we ever do)
   
   But look forward to reading your hubs

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   CabinGirlposted 14 years ago

   My Captain only had a laugh one night with Kmackey and Fortunerep got jealous, in those words lies the story to this topic.
   
   I am now stating that the Captain BadCompany has now left Hubs because of this and if you want to leave sympathy with Fortunerep feel free to do so.
   
   I am gutted that my Captain BadCompany has decided to quit Hubs over this, but he just cant get over how such a silly thing has got so much notice, he thanks all that has read his hubs and before he goes he wants to say something. One sec I cant hear him....
   
   Ok he said " Dont always believe what you hear ", ok you happy now Fortunerep, hes left !

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      fortunerepposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      no i am not i am quite taken back, and this sydney chick needs to know her role,

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         Sidney Rayneposted 14 years agoin reply to this

         "Know your role"...who are you? The Rock? Let me guess...you are going to give me the "People's elbow" next?

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            fortunerepposted 14 years agoin reply to this

            likr i damn said you don't know me or the situation so your input is irrevelant.  mind your own business or better yet email bc I am sure he would love you, for at least a day

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      beautyroseposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      Are you sure he left Hubpages? I think not. I'm sure he will miss his revenues so I think he will be back.

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   Uninvited Writerposted 14 years ago

   Try and talk him out of leaving again. It's ridiculous to leave because of something that happens on a forum.

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      Nelle Hoxieposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      Are you serious? This is a typical weekend for him. He'll be back on Monday or perhaps tomorrow) with a hangover. If he isn't the center of attention, he's very unhappy.
      
      And CabinGirl is still here. So "He" hasn't gone anywhere.

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   jenblacksheepposted 14 years ago

   What the hell??? What's the matter with you? You're not serious, right? There is absolutely no link between mental stability and value of opinions and I can only assume you are joking because that is a completely ignorant thing to say. Thus far I had been just reading this thread, I have no intention of getting involved in Dori and BadCo's issues. But you can't just say something like that. I have known a few bi-polar people and they all are extremely intelligent and have valid worthwhile opinions and extremely worthwhile speaking to and getting to know.
   
   You are obviously extremely lucky never to have felt extremely depressed or irrationally angry, because if you had ever felt either of those then you might have the slightest idea what it is like to suffer with this illness.
   
   I hope this is the nicest response to your discriminatory post. I can't believe noone else has picked up on this.

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      Sidney Rayneposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      Well I assumed that people would sense my sarcasm....by the way I am extremely sarcastic...damn glad to meet ya.
      
      In a sense I was being honest as far as my statement is concerned... against SOCIOPATHS....being bi-polar or schizophrenic does not make you a sociopath...it is an illness and is rather unfortunate.
      
      However...with that being said...I have met people in my lifetime that were bi-polar or schizophrenic...a few have remained acquaintances to this day..  and while they have their ups and downs with their illness...they never used it as an excuse or a crutch for their behavior.
      
      And yes I have my demons as well....don't we all?

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   Mighty Momposted 14 years ago

   Of all the ridiculous, petty, mean-spirited exchanges I've seen in my 11 months on Hub Pages, this takes the prize.
   Are you people smoking crack??? (oh wait -- don't want to be accused of libeling anyone). I swear, if you come into this thread late and try to follow it from ANY point forward, it is just wack.
   
   It really dismays me to see otherwise intelligent people, good writers with good fan followings, degenerate to this level of name calling. It really, really pains me to see such derogatory comments about people who suffer from bipolar. Not funny.
   
   *Scoops up sand from sandbox into pail* -- here, why not throw this at each other since you seem to have exhausted the English language and are now down to grunts and groans anyway. MM

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   jenblacksheepposted 14 years ago

   Well other people seem to be saying the same thing but in a serious manner ... I'm sorry I didnt realise it was sarcasm ... a little inappropriate though perhaps?
   
   My comments still stand though to the people that genuinely seem to have some kind of mental illness intolerance.

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   Star Witnessposted 14 years ago

   i actually think certain parties involved should get laid more often in real life.  problems then solved.

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   tantrumposted 14 years ago

   Oh ! I love this tantrums !   And dori, if you display your private life in public, you shouldn't complain if someone comes and leave a comment. Sorry ,but you looked for it

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   lrohnerposted 14 years ago

   Jesus people! Cut it out!
   
   BadCompany - I don't know what perceived injustice Dori inflicted on you and I don't really care. But from reading your posts on this thread, I am sure she is not the first (or the 2nd or the 3rd or the 4th...) woman to humiliate/embarass/make fun of you. So freaking get over it! If what I read is any indication, it's going to happen to you many more times in your life. If a "poem" about you -- whether good or bad -- is the worst thing that happens in your life, then you should be counting your blessings.
   
   Dori - I don't know you or the situation well enough to say that I am a supporter of what you did or didn't do, but I am very sorry that you're being ganged up on. And if posting this "Goodbye" thread helped to bolster you and keep you here, then I'm happy and I'm glad it worked out that way for you. We don't want to lose you.

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    Mighty Momposted 14 years ago

    I can't/don't speak for Dori or for anyone else but myself, but... I think what she might have been saying to you (Sydney) is being so new to Hub Pages, people do not yet know you. All we have is your comments, no historical context (nor do you have any historical context for the people involved in this exchange). Readers have no way of detecting your sarcasm and may easily misinterpret your comments.
    That's all.

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       Sidney Rayneposted 14 years agoin reply to this

       Yep yep...no harm done...we are all good. I am indeed a misunderstood creature...but that is my nature!
       
       As for the rest of this topic...you are right Dori...Don't know you ...you don't know me...this sounds like some sort of unfortunate event that has turned into a tedious debacle...it was not any of my business but at the same time it became public and apparently my sarcasm had an adverse reaction. With that...I respectfully bid this conversation ado.
       
       Badcompany seems like an entertaining fellow....and well..as I said I don't know you and most likely we will continue down that path. Hopefully distance can be maintained and you can both exist on this site without any further implications...it appears that both sides has their acquaintances and there is no reason for that to be nullified.

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          Eaglekiwiposted 14 years agoin reply to this

          It wont be , it hasnt so far.

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             fortunerepposted 14 years agoin reply to this

             OMG MM what did I just do, i really uked up didn't I?

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    fortunerepposted 14 years ago

    a hubber who left that was a friend of mine. a true friend, I don't know why he is relevant either, unless bc is jealous.

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       Anam Cara999posted 14 years agoin reply to this

       I am sympathetic to you...from what I read, Dori.  But don't you think it would be better to talk to those involved personally in some way, rather than publically on a forum?

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          fortunerepposted 14 years agoin reply to this

          I have tried I am just taking up for my mentlally ill self.

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    Star Witnessposted 14 years ago

    free dramatic entertainment

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    AsherKadeposted 14 years ago

    wow, this is such an insane thread. NO, white people DON't have it more. It may seem that way because white people generally have better access to medical care and/or education on the matter. There is such a huge following of ignorance and misguided truths/myths on this!

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    AsherKadeposted 14 years ago

    this is not a thread I would typically enjoy involving myself with because there are too many ppl yelling at each other and no one is listening to each other, but please refrain from using the word crazy.It's like using the word retard, another popular antecdote. It's very insensitive.It doesn' matter hether or not you like someone, like their views, or like them using a public forum to discuss very personal matters. It's just not polite.
    
    

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       beautyroseposted 14 years agoin reply to this

       oh sorry for the term crazy rather it would be better to say mentally disturb. Is it ok now?

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          AsherKadeposted 14 years agoin reply to this

          it depends on who would talk to. Most black people, for example, prefer African American, but others-Black is just fine.
          what you said is the equivilant to calling a black person a colored person or negro. It's just not socially sensitive.

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             beautyroseposted 14 years agoin reply to this

             I'm just wondering why black people afraid of being called black when you can visibly see them that they are black. They can't blame people cause in the first place it was God who made them so why not accept there true colors. Look why not chinese people not offended when you call them yellow? why not filipino not offended when they are called brown?  But why is it when its already black called Negro they are offended? Its like also complaining to God who made them black. Why not simply black people accept there color are race and not be offended.

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                earnestshubposted 14 years agoin reply to this

                I suggest that languages meaning change as the word usage changes. If some words are used a lot with other words to mean someone is bad, then the meaning of that word changes. I find it is best to just follow local customs.

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                Star Witnessposted 14 years agoin reply to this

                what color are u?

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                   beautyroseposted 14 years agoin reply to this

                   oh before I answer you that I cordially suggest if you could spend your time now making at least one hub now instead of being in the forum. We want to see how you do your writing skills in hp. ok

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    tantrumposted 14 years ago

    Dori I think you should get some rest and get out of here    your post is becoming nuts!... Sweet dreams !... Tomorrow is another day 

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    Nelle Hoxieposted 14 years ago

    Dori, you just deleted a post that I was replying to. In it you sounded incredibly despressed. This is not about right or wrong right now. It's about you getting help to get stabilized. This forum isn't doing you any good right now.
    
    You need to get yourself to professionals and get a realistic perspective about what's happening to you. Men and women have fights all the time, they break up. They survive. But this reaction is way over the top. Professionals and meds will help you get a realistic grip on life. And that's what you need.

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       fortunerepposted 14 years agoin reply to this

       i was just angry just like anyone else, i am fine, i am taking the benzo's and that brings me down and i will stabilize soon, it's ok im ok why do i need prof. help becuase I got hurt.  threatened to sue me, called a bitch, a ghost and wrote me off like that. im over it, but i still miss him

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          beautyroseposted 14 years agoin reply to this

          See you also miss him and I think he has a special part in your heart too fortunerep. And don't you know that good friends relations are being tested through times. And who knows you will make a good partner in real life. That's in case if both of you are still available.  So now I'll call Badcompany come backkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkk now Fortunerep is getting ok now.

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             fortunerepposted 14 years agoin reply to this

             it will never ever happen, he's gone I am going to be just fine.

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                beautyroseposted 14 years agoin reply to this

                I know his not gone. I'm sure he just letting his emotion mellow rather than he be talking here hard. Maybe he just went to shopping or preparing to write new hubs about mending his offense. I hope he hear me now .

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          Nelle Hoxieposted 14 years agoin reply to this

          You need help because you are bi-polar. And you just said "i will stabilize soon." So you are not stable. And meds don't always work.
          
          In most relationships people sort out their relationship in private - not in hubs and not in a forum. This is way over the top, and that's why I'm concerned for you. This is not "like everyone else."
          
          But I've spent enough time worrying over which I guess isn't that big a deal. I hope you get through this.

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    Pearldiverposted 14 years ago

    Dori....... A Pearl for You..
    
    There are still Unicorns in this world! They are the ones that show their hearts; in the hope that their hearts are respected and as such; they as a Unicorn, will also be respected.
    
    There are also those in the world who enjoy capturing or killing the very trusting Unicorns. They do this to compensate for their own insecurities and inadequacies. They are only able to do this because of the Unicorn's need to show their heart.
    
    I don't know you Dori; but I know the vulnerability of Unicorns. As a Unicorn, I have learnt that there is never a vulnerable heart if you take the time to understand the power of a Unicorn's wisdom, over that of the hunter and accept that every Unicorn is unique. Conversely, those who would hunt a Unicorn for the purpose of self gratification; Are Too Common to ever be Unique!
    
    Stand on the high ground Unicorn... Use the view to gauge the value of the hunter who must climb to you; rather than being drawn to a lazy hunter with no stamina, or adequacy to reach the summit.  And if he does.... Kick his butt big time!!

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       beautyroseposted 14 years agoin reply to this

       I think badcompany isn't really bad. I think it was just that he is lonely and looking for love you see his separated and still hurting. So offer him love instead of hate.

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          Pearldiverposted 14 years agoin reply to this

          I am not offering BC anything... he is able to chose his own path in this life; if that path is one of publically playing the role of victim, spitting the dummy or being a good guy; it's up to him and how he wishes to be perceived. At the end of the day: His own opinion is as irrelevant as mine. How the opinion is delivered is what counts.

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