HELP MY I CAUGHT MY BOYFRIEND WATCHING GAY PORN, WHAT DO I DO, HE'S DENYING IT?

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   shouston535posted 14 years ago

   HELP MY I CAUGHT MY BOYFRIEND WATCHING GAY PORN, WHAT DO I DO, HE'S DENYING IT?
   
   I AM IN A SUPPOSED STRAIGHT RELATIONSHIP AND THIS FREAKS ME OUT.  ITS FREAKING WIERD!

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   stricktlydatingposted 14 years ago

   Well, he can't deny that you caught him watching it when you obviously saw him watching it with your own eyes. Oh my, considering he's in a relationship with you, of course he'll be denying it - as much as possible! You are straight, but you've just discovered he has (at the least) some gay curiousity. He can deny that black and blue, but you still caught him watching it, so it's no wonder you feel freaked out! It seems like he's not eager to discuss it with you since he is denying it, so unless he opens up and admits to it, it's up to you to make your own decision about what you want to do about it.

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   Bobby Hendryposted 4 years ago

   Don't be too alarmed, believe it or not ( although most won't publicly admit it) it is extremely common for heterosexual males to watch gay porn, at least on occasion.
   
   I recently read an article published by the New York Post stating that their recent study so that one in four heterosexual males would confidentially admit to it:
   
   https://nypost.com/2018/03/01/1-in-4-st … rn-survey/
   
   A study by Cosmopolitan magazine yielded strikingly similar results.
   
   I'm aware of this advice is counter-intuitive, certainly not what your instincts tell you to do the try not to allow this to make you in any way insecure and definitely don't berate him or interrogate him any further where am I Alice, as it may diminish his capacity to trust you in other areas down the road. I'm sure if you decided to look at something out of curiosity one day that a portion of society stigmatized or otherwise judged harshly Kane you wouldn't want to be met with harsh judgement criticism and defensiveness from him would you? Of course not, you would want him to be supported who knows? It may just lead to A+ adventurous experience for both of you plus one more someday.
   
   More will be revealed

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   FatFreddysCatposted 4 years ago

   This thread is ten years old! How deep did you go to dig this one up?

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      Randy Godwinposted 4 years agoin reply to this

      Indeed, I wonder how it came out? Or if he came out?

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   Bobby Hendryposted 4 years ago

   Whoops - oddly, it was only maybe the 12th or 15th result when I did a search for "porn" looking for postings related to sites that I operate... my mistake I took it for granted that it was much newer considering how early it appeared in the results. Live and learn

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