Ok, so I have this friend who used to be my girlfriend. And besides me, she hasn

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   HBRposted 13 years ago

   Ok, so I have this friend who used to be my girlfriend. And besides me, she hasn't really had any...
   
   good relationships lately. We're like best friends now, and I sorta like her, but I'm not sure if she likes me or not. I would ask her out, but one problem-- I have a girlfriend who I really like and she loves me too. D: Any help??

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   efwebmposted 13 years ago

   Are you sure you aren't just looking to sleep with your ex?
   
   I'm sure it's tempting. But is that enough reason to bail on your current relationship that sounds good, to turn to something that didn't work out in the past?
   
   Sometimes we forget why things didn't out, and just remember the things we miss about someone.

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   ultracutebotposted 13 years ago

   Dude, the ex-girlfriend ship has sailed. Enjoy the voyage with your current girlfriend and just cherish the good friendship you have with your ex.

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   swapna123posted 13 years ago

   Does your girlfriend know that your best friend was your ex ? If she does, that means she completely trusts you guys to be just friends, and you are taking advantage of that.
   If you love your girlfriend, you should try to maintain a distance from your ex and get over those silly feelings. If you don't, then, well.. i think u should leave your girlfriend as she deserves someone who loves her and then u can get back to your ex.

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   FduToitposted 13 years ago

   Sounds to me like you still have feelings for your previous girlfriend that goes beyond friendship... You say that you're like best friends and that you like her but that you are not sure if she likes you. I assume you mean if she likes you more than just a friend, right?
   
   On the other hand, you have a current girlfriend that loves you.
   
   Well buddy, you have to make a hard decision. You have to choose between your ex girlfriend and your current girlfriend. And, you know it. Which one? Go with your heart.
   
   Good luck!

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   stricktlydatingposted 13 years ago

   If you're happy with your girlfriend, and she with you, it's probably not a good idea to try to see if there's something worth pursuing with your ex - If you were single it would be different, but you're in a relationship and it's going to cause drama if you pursue your ex - consider that you're also unsure whether your ex has romantic feelings for you.

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