What women really mean

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   Wonder_Womanposted 14 years ago

   This is just a topic for amusement. I know most men dont understand women so here women can rant/explain what men should know like:
   
   When he says whats wrong, girl says "nothing"
   
   What that really means is, yea something is wrong dumb a$$ but you should know, no im not going to tell you, if you dont know then go to hell lmao

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      Eaglekiwiposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      
      They seriously are not mindreaders??
      
      Why should they know ?
      
      But I take your point ,specially if they just said a smartarse comment to be sarcastic and then wonder why you quit smiling n go quiet ...

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         Wonder_Womanposted 14 years agoin reply to this

         no men arent mind readers , but i notice men are simple and most times women might think too deeply into things, so they both view things from a different point of view.

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            Eaglekiwiposted 14 years agoin reply to this

            Men like to solve problems , analytical minds , A fits B etc
            Women tend to discuss options ,balance options, plan ahead, A could fit C better later on ...( just know females are gonna understand that part)

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               Wonder_Womanposted 14 years agoin reply to this

               true we are very... very over observant. men (not to insult) are very simple minded, put these 2 minds in the same room...who knows what might happen

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                  Eaglekiwiposted 14 years agoin reply to this

                  Guess which one would ask 'wheres the remote' ?

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      prettydarkhorseposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      Mean what you say and say what you mean, that should be the motto of everybody, specially in a relationship. (well we are all in a relationship whether you are a mother, father, friend, teacher or anybody, you are expected to say what you really mean, men are not soothsayer they cant guess what you mean....

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         bloodnlatexposted 14 years agoin reply to this

         Well said!  Now tell that to my wife..

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            Wonder_Womanposted 14 years agoin reply to this

            lmao obviously but when your in a relatioship its not so simple. my bf does the same thing, says nothing is wrong, when something is wrong

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               bloodnlatexposted 14 years agoin reply to this

               I hear ya there.  When she says it, I'm supposed to know what is bothering her, but when I say there is nothing wrong, I get yelled at for not telling her if something is actually bothering me.

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                  Wendi Mposted 14 years agoin reply to this

                  Is that you talking Larry?

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                  Wonder_Womanposted 14 years agoin reply to this

                  I think next time you should explain, i know guys dont think things need to be explained but im sure she will appreciate that you attemtping to tell her something - anything. sometimes women freak out when their is no need to, i hate it but it happens. next time just tell her something, she like "im okay just tired, had a bad day, something" . see man to man, all you need to do is say dude im cool, end of convo. with girls, shell say im okay, other girl will say are you sure, then the other girl will comfirt her with everythings fine. but you see a difference?

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                     bloodnlatexposted 14 years agoin reply to this

                     Thanks, I'll give it a shot.

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                        Wonder_Womanposted 14 years agoin reply to this

                        which translates to... roles eye "yea okay" :p lol

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                           bloodnlatexposted 14 years agoin reply to this

                           Nope, I really meant that I'll give it a shot.

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                              Wonder_Womanposted 14 years agoin reply to this

                              bloodnlatex
                              Just picking on you ^_^ dont forget to tell her how sexy she is, that always works

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         Wonder_Womanposted 14 years agoin reply to this

         should be the motto but usually isnt

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            Eaglekiwiposted 14 years agoin reply to this

            Yea but that dont work either cuz then Im being too direct , and my man feels like its a challenge????
            
            Oh Peter Pan  is alive an well

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      Benjimesterposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      Do you know what that's called.  Lying

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         Wonder_Womanposted 14 years agoin reply to this

         lol yea he probaby is also lying to himself when he doesnt know whats wrong :p lol

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   bloodnlatexposted 14 years ago

   I am a man that knows nothing...Teach me!

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      Wonder_Womanposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      lmao like what?

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         bloodnlatexposted 14 years agoin reply to this

         Everything that I am expected to know but have no clue about because I am a man.

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   Crazdwriterposted 14 years ago

   Oh I got one...when I get annoyed my husband keeps saying that I am mad. Yet I am not and am jsut annoyed. I'm like you keep telling me that I am mad I will get mad there is a differnece between mad and annoyed LMAO

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   Ivorwenposted 14 years ago

   When she says to put something by the front door, she means set it near the door, on the opening side, where it will be seen when leaving the house! 
   
   She does not mean in front of the door...

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   A Texanposted 14 years ago

   If a woman does not say what she wants she does not get what she wants! I am on my 5th marriage, so don't go by me

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      Eaglekiwiposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      You must like it alot then ( marriage)

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         A Texanposted 14 years agoin reply to this

         I like it this time

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   Eaglekiwiposted 14 years ago

   Wonder woman
   
   Its called selective hearing ...

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      Wonder_Womanposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      lmao! yea i notice that trend, but put blow and job in the same sentence and they are all ears arent they

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         A Texanposted 14 years agoin reply to this

         Somebody say blow job?

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   Eaglekiwiposted 14 years ago

   Yea maybe we could change our language delivery like
   
   
   Honey I was thinkin about ripping your jeans off , then I remembered the trash needs putting out
   
   Yep they hear what they wanna hear ...

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      bloodnlatexposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      See, now that's not fair.  That's like him telling you that he was about to give you a full body massage, but he noticed that the dinner dishes need to be done.

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         Wonder_Womanposted 14 years agoin reply to this

         -_- my bf pulled a stunt on me like that, i almost threw my heal at him, lol

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            bloodnlatexposted 14 years agoin reply to this

            It goes both ways

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               Wonder_Womanposted 14 years agoin reply to this

               hense i just stick to bribes

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                  bloodnlatexposted 14 years agoin reply to this

                  Well Played!  I'm outta here.  Have a great night!

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      Wonder_Womanposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      lmao i like it, it doesnt count as a bribe (which is my tactic)

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   Wendi Mposted 14 years ago

   What women really want is to always have it their way!
   
   We are moody creatures, by nature, which makes us a little on the needy side (some more than others.)
   
   But my opinion is that both men and women want it their way...and both men and women tend to hold back when it comes to relaying the true feelings.

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   Jonathan Jancoposted 14 years ago

   The casual acceptance of stereotypes on this site is quite shocking. To assume that all men/women move with this monolithic conscience is to prevent questions concerning gender issues from being answered.

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