adult to be overachiever, always setting and superseding their goals, living to their utmost human potential and then some? Do you respect your overachieving child more than your underachieving child who never seem to hit the mark, never having no ounce of initiative, and just being content ?
I expect my child to be a true human being , someone who has faith in humanity, who is kind to others, who respect religion and faith of each and every person , who is not money-oriented and last of all, who is not selfish serving his own interest only. I wish him to achieve his goal but he must not be a robot set to supersede his goal. I will never disrespect my underachiever child and consider my overachiever child as someone superior to the other, because achievement in life has nothing to do with humanity. .