we have live together wit my boyfriend for 4 yr ,and we have two baby.my boy fri

  1. tinadolly profile image53
    tinadollyposted 8 years ago

    we have live together wit my boyfriend for 4 yr ,and we have two baby.my boy friend he said he cant

    get married before finish school and he as to get nice job that he dream,after all marriage is nothing to him,he said he is happy they way we live.am not sure is he want to be wit me for long time

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    kimmyfavaposted 8 years ago

    well despite the fact that he doesn't want to marry you.. its possible he waiting until he is ready and prepared for that day to come.. since he at school and all.. am sure he wants the best for you and your kids and i strongly believe he wants to be with you forever. every woman loved to be married because she feels safe in that way to tie the knot with their lover.. but he feels that there is no need to married because you guys been together for 4 years and in his heart he married to you from you guys start living together, even tho there isn't a source showing you guys are married.
    my guess is he just want a simple life and be happy with you and his kids. its possible your relationship will last long. until that time comes.. hope you ready to say "yes i will". good luck.

  3. dabeaner profile image55
    dabeanerposted 8 years ago

    You have two kids you popped out, most likely with no more thought of consequences than a rabbit.  You probably never questioned your culture and religion that frowns on abortion, so you didn't even consider abortion.  You can't spell.  Your grammar is poor.  If you work at all, it's probably for minimum wage, as I would wager you have no skills.  No wonder you are insecure.

    You are "scrood".  And the bimbos that need to read and heed this Q&A will never come across it -- except possibly after it is too late for them, as it seems to be for you.

    Your only hope is to try and acquire some job skill.  You can't count on your boyfriend being around forever, especially if the kids are not his.  And good luck getting child support, since he was an idiot in the first place, if the kids are his.

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