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How to increase duratiion of intercourse ? Male here.

  1. weblog profile image49
    weblogposted 9 years ago

    Creating multiple threads on same topic can't help you lol

  2. Misha profile image73
    Mishaposted 9 years ago

    LOL 10-9-8-7-...

  3. Inspirepub profile image81
    Inspirepubposted 9 years ago

    ROFLMAO!!!!!!

    I feel a hub coming on ...

    *snerk*

    *giggle*

    Jenny

    P.S. Mishenka, it usually works better if you count forwards. You have more scope for extended duration that way.

    1. Misha profile image73
      Mishaposted 9 years ago in reply to this

      LOL I meant seconds before ban... smile

  4. Mark Knowles profile image60
    Mark Knowlesposted 9 years ago

    lol

    Have you ever even had sex?

    For all you know - he was asking about social intercourse. lol

    "take ur meat out and wait a few seconds"  lol lol

  5. Inspirepub profile image81
    Inspirepubposted 9 years ago

    LOL

    I am in a bad state of mind to be replying to a thread like this tonight.

    trupti 123, the number 1 problem males have with duration of sexual intercourse is pure physical fitness. If you can't do 100 push-ups and/or jog for half an hour, then working on your PC muscle is a complete waste of time.

    GET FIT.

    Based purely on my personal observations of this variable in men, I recommend martial arts and yoga over pure cardio fitness activities like jogging, but my sample is not large enough to be truly representative, so by all means swing out and take up rowing or something.

    When will he drop in the viagra ad, I wonder?

    Jenny

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    tbscmcposted 9 years ago

    mark, i guess u never studied anything about ED. any sex therapist would suggest these. if dont believe me,go consult one. and just to let u know, i have a career in psychiatry

    1. Mark Knowles profile image60
      Mark Knowlesposted 9 years ago in reply to this

      lol

      You certainly have no clue how to comport yourself online, so I very much doubt I will be asking you to look after my mental health. Starting a thread and pretending to be another person so you can offer advice like,

      "take ur meat out and wait a few seconds," (lol - I had to quote it again it is so funny.)

      is amusing to me. I have a feeling any sex therapist might couch it in more sophisticated terms - don't you?

      And I am with Jenny on the  workouts. I am a martial arts fan myself - and I can go for hours if I choose to.

      And as to the question - Beer - works every time lol

    2. darkside profile image80
      darksideposted 9 years ago in reply to this

      I'm just curious if your IP is the same as the IP of the person who started this thread.

      1. profile image0
        tbscmcposted 9 years ago in reply to this

        lol,no:D

    3. topstuff profile image59
      topstuffposted 9 years ago in reply to this

      Your career is bright.Go for it.

  7. Uninvited Writer profile image80
    Uninvited Writerposted 9 years ago

    Also...this question does not belong in this forum...

  8. Shirley Anderson profile image83
    Shirley Andersonposted 9 years ago

    This thread is hilarious!

    I think Drs. Jenny and Mark have given the right answers for all those who are secretly reading this thread in hopes of an answer they can use.

    Exercise and beer....all natural.

  9. Stacie Naczelnik profile image75
    Stacie Naczelnikposted 9 years ago

    fruitful

  10. topstuff profile image59
    topstuffposted 9 years ago

    No here all are females.

  11. Earl S. Wynn profile image83
    Earl S. Wynnposted 9 years ago

    I lol'd at this whole thread. It's called self discipline, lol.

  12. G-Ma Johnson profile image54
    G-Ma Johnsonposted 9 years ago

    Loving and caring..what else is there...if you Love you care about when it happens for each other...dahhh???

  13. weblog profile image49
    weblogposted 9 years ago

    Now, it shows like I started the thread!!! lol

  14. Inspirepub profile image81
    Inspirepubposted 9 years ago

    Don't worry, Weblog, we know you better than that ... wink

    Jenny

    1. weblog profile image49
      weblogposted 9 years ago in reply to this

      smile

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      meralunposted 8 years ago in reply to this

      The best way for premature ejaculation is oral sex and have sex 3-4 times in the day

      1. Nickny79 profile image72
        Nickny79posted 8 years ago in reply to this

        I suggest you learn how to exercise your PC muscles and learn how to orgasm WITHOUT ejaculating.  Your PC muscles are the muscles that stop you from peeing.  These muscles can be strengthened to such a degree that you can stop them from contracting involuntarily when you have an orgasm. I encourage you to have sex as much as you like, but I would ejaculate as infrequently as possible as this will dissipate your energetic body among other things.

  15. eswar profile image72
    eswarposted 9 years ago

    Is duration is so important?

    1. weblog profile image49
      weblogposted 9 years ago in reply to this

      Depends on your and your partner's... big_smile

  16. TravelMonkey profile image61
    TravelMonkeyposted 9 years ago

    a few beers help all the time : )

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    WhataboutBobposted 8 years ago

    Holding back ejaculate is actually very bad for you. It causes Cancer in the testes. Interfering with any of the circulatory systems in the body leads to trouble.

    When I was younger, single and sowing my wild oats as they say, I learned that the best thing to do was to "give a donation" an hour to an hour and a half prior to getting busy. This gets rid of the nervous orgasm and gets you down to a more mature, controlled and desensitized ejaculation when you want it. You also have the added benifit of a swollen girth for penetration.

    1. Nickny79 profile image72
      Nickny79posted 8 years ago in reply to this

      I've never seen any studies on this matter with regard to cancer in the testes.  I would appreciate if you forward this to me.  My source is tantra with its basic premise of ejaculation control.

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    WhataboutBobposted 8 years ago

    Many urologists believe that extended tumescence without orgasm can cause congestive prostatitis, an extremely painful condition of the prostate gland. Among other things, the prostate gland secretes the clear fluid which is the vehicle for the sperm in male ejaculate. When not in a state of sexual excitement, a normal male's prostate will cook up about one-tenth to four-tenths of a teaspoon of prostatic fluid a day. This ordinarily drains into the urinary tract and gets excreted. During periods of sexual arousal, however, the prostate kicks into overdrive, churning out 4 to 10 times as much fluid as usual--far too much, some say, to pass into the urine quickly. If the man fails to have an orgasm, the stuff backs up in the prostate and causes congestion. In younger men this is often characterized by pain in the pelvic area and painful and swollen testicles. The usual treatment is continence, perhaps accompanied by ice-packs and/or an anti-inflammatory drug.

    In severe cases the congestion can block the urinary tract, which passes through the prostate, meaning you can't relieve yourself and you fill up like a water balloon. Symptoms may include pain in the lower back or rectum (the prostate is located next to the rectal wall), burning sensation during urination, unusually frequent urge to urinate, and sometimes pain and minor bleeding after ejaculation.  Porn stars that practice frequent ejaculatin restriction often develop problems getting erect. Hope this helps.  Google the subject for more information.

    1. Nickny79 profile image72
      Nickny79posted 8 years ago in reply to this

      This has not been my experience.  The clear fluid that you are referring to is still secreted during arousal.  What's not immediately secreted during arousal passes out of this system when you urinate.  By stopping the ejaculatory reflex, you prevent the white fluid of testes from mixing with the clear fluid of the prostate.  As I mentioned earlier tantra is premised on ejaculation control and when done properly one does not develop the symptoms you describe.

  19. LegendaryN8 profile image61
    LegendaryN8posted 8 years ago

    I'll keep this brief:

    Pregame before you play.

    It has been said before, but it still remains a good idea.

  20. ocbill profile image69
    ocbillposted 8 years ago

    great replies...LOL.
    social intersection maybe.

  21. profile image0
    WhataboutBobposted 8 years ago

    Oh, O.K.

  22. TravelMonkey profile image61
    TravelMonkeyposted 8 years ago

    Think of non sex related things such as chair legs, curtain rails and grandparents.

    1. Shil1978 profile image86
      Shil1978posted 8 years ago in reply to this

      Eeeks - sure don't want to be thinking of them!!

      1. TravelMonkey profile image61
        TravelMonkeyposted 8 years ago in reply to this

        Fair enough.. I sometimes think of my funny Avatar lol

        1. Shil1978 profile image86
          Shil1978posted 8 years ago in reply to this

          Lol - much better than grandparents for sure!!

  23. desantis profile image55
    desantisposted 8 years ago

    The grandparents would work but to even think about them while having sex, not my first choice. I would just slow down, it has always worked for me.

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