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When The Girl Wants To Be Just Friends

Updated on May 2, 2011

She Only Wants To Be Friends...

How to become much more than just friends with a girl...Break out of the friend zone and become a lover!

A lot of us have had outstanding friendships with the opposite sex, but occasionally life isn't that simple. Either we tend to become greedy or it's simply a natural instinct issue that we desire to be loved and become a lot more than simply friends. It's perfectly normal that you would like to seek a romantic relationship out of that deep friendship. Yet, the passage of crossing over between these 2 zones can be very difficult, and sometimes risky.

You need to realize that she may love you only as a friend, but might not desire to have those deeper feelings. Perhaps she's afraid that it might ruin the whole friendship if the romantic relationship ends, the friendly relationship also ceases. She might not wish to go through the pain of losing romance and possibly, just perhaps because you're not ambitious or man enough to intensify this relationship to the next level and turn her into more than just a friend.

If you've been thinking about this for quite a while, I suggest you mustard up some bravery and ask her about it. You must step up and show more sexual attention as a lover instead of remaining neutral as simply a friend. You might plan a trip jointly and let her see firsthand how much you guys have in common and allow  her to see your true feelings. The only means to break free of this [non-lover] zone and turn into more than just friends is to take gamble and tell her what's on your mind.

There's something that's essential you know about women. Every woman desires to be with a real man who takes take chances and who is not afraid to say what he wants. Even so, this might bring about 2 completely unlike results. You could potentially take your relationship from friend to lover or you may blow it and ruin your friendship. That's how come you must choose which is more important to you.

I spent almost 2 years of my life going crazy simply because I didn't know how to tell her my true feelings. If you are going through this situation right now...You don't want to be in that friend zone very much longer because it's so frustrating. She always called me to complaint about other jerks who hurt her feelings while neglecting the reality that I wanted to be her lover too. Fortunately, my best male friend of mine who's a true player with women instructed me in the methods he uses to help me become more than just a friend. It did take some time for me to soak up this knowledge but I can tell you it's worth it.

If I only knew these mysteries about women 2 years ago, I wouldn't have wasted my time being simply a 2nd option who never got any chance with her. Learning be more than just acquaintances with a girl isn't only fun, but as well changes my way of living altogether. I'm not downhearted and alone any longer, in fact, I can easily make a girl like me as a lover rather than being friend for years without any action.


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      Mathew 7 years ago

      I need a girl friend to love

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      QudsiaP1 7 years ago

      Hahaha, lovely read, great hub. Thumb's up!