ArtsAutosBooksBusinessEducationEntertainmentFamilyFashionFoodGamesGenderHealthHolidaysHomeHubPagesPersonal FinancePetsPoliticsReligionSportsTechnologyTravel

Is There Such A Thing As A Second Chance For Love?

Updated on May 2, 2011

Getting A Second Chance At Love.

Yes there is! There's such a thing as getting a second chance for love and it happens a lot more often than most of us think. Why is that? For even if the 2 of you split up for any reason and a lot of the times they're silly reasons, if your love was genuine it doesn't just disappear. Yet, getting your lover back into your arms again has a lot to do with timing, and particularly communicating.

Once you are in this state of affairs of having just split up, you need to communicate, foremost with yourself. Before you'll be able to look at getting your love back again...You need to discover how come your relationship went this way. You must look past all the arguments, the unkind words and search the underlying problems or problems that caused the split up.

Frequently it's the collection of a lot of little incidents that have snowballed into a perceived big problem, and if asked, neither one of you knows where it all started. Without addressing these issues in an open and caring way, they are certain to build a wall between the 2 of you, and you start to move apart a little more each day...

Until you no longer feel joined and appear to be miles apart. It's then real easy for the flimsy framework of your relationship to fall apart over some insignificant issue that should never come between you at all. It had nothing to do with your love simply how you communicated with one another.

Once you have set apart the actual causes for your relationship failure, you need to get hold of your ex. Tell them that you'd love to get meet over a cup coffee [pick somewhere neutral] and that you'd like to calmly discuss with them the problems in your relationship, that you would like to get them out in the open and find a common answer to them jointly. You want to impart to them that you would like to fix things so that these little matters don't become big issues ever again.

One very crucial point is you must [calmly talk] about these issues means just that. If you can't behave as mature grownups and center on the problem and not who's to blame, and find some solution jointly, then how can you have a loving long relationship that will flourish and mature?

Once you'll be able to meet, you both need to share what you believe caused the falling out in your relationship. This is crucial to know so that you've a starting point to start working from.

If you're both ready at this point to rebuild your relationship together then you both must commit to making the required changes one by one to making the relationship work. It's crucial at some point to acknowledge to them your own share of the problems so that you'll be able to forgive one another and have resolution over the matter. Then it's just a matter of discovering a resolution that both of you are able to live with and offering what each of you is willing to do to fix your relationship.

Communicating is the base for any relationship and is specially crucial in building up a loving permanent intimate relationship. The major cause of relationship break ups is because there are problems in communicating. In order to rebuild your relationship you both must agree to talk about things and find resolutions jointly, and to be open and truthful about things.

By reconstructing your relationship by better communicating you will unquestionably have a 2nd chance for love, and you as well build into your relationship a resiliency that will assist it to last forever.

Comments

    0 of 8192 characters used
    Post Comment

    • profile image

      anonymous 

      5 years ago

      i was just to give up ... but this article gave me hope

    • profile image

      cheniel 

      7 years ago

      h8 it

    working

    This website uses cookies

    As a user in the EEA, your approval is needed on a few things. To provide a better website experience, hubpages.com uses cookies (and other similar technologies) and may collect, process, and share personal data. Please choose which areas of our service you consent to our doing so.

    For more information on managing or withdrawing consents and how we handle data, visit our Privacy Policy at: https://hubpages.com/privacy-policy#gdpr

    Show Details
    Necessary
    HubPages Device IDThis is used to identify particular browsers or devices when the access the service, and is used for security reasons.
    LoginThis is necessary to sign in to the HubPages Service.
    Google RecaptchaThis is used to prevent bots and spam. (Privacy Policy)
    AkismetThis is used to detect comment spam. (Privacy Policy)
    HubPages Google AnalyticsThis is used to provide data on traffic to our website, all personally identifyable data is anonymized. (Privacy Policy)
    HubPages Traffic PixelThis is used to collect data on traffic to articles and other pages on our site. Unless you are signed in to a HubPages account, all personally identifiable information is anonymized.
    Amazon Web ServicesThis is a cloud services platform that we used to host our service. (Privacy Policy)
    CloudflareThis is a cloud CDN service that we use to efficiently deliver files required for our service to operate such as javascript, cascading style sheets, images, and videos. (Privacy Policy)
    Google Hosted LibrariesJavascript software libraries such as jQuery are loaded at endpoints on the googleapis.com or gstatic.com domains, for performance and efficiency reasons. (Privacy Policy)
    Features
    Google Custom SearchThis is feature allows you to search the site. (Privacy Policy)
    Google MapsSome articles have Google Maps embedded in them. (Privacy Policy)
    Google ChartsThis is used to display charts and graphs on articles and the author center. (Privacy Policy)
    Google AdSense Host APIThis service allows you to sign up for or associate a Google AdSense account with HubPages, so that you can earn money from ads on your articles. No data is shared unless you engage with this feature. (Privacy Policy)
    Google YouTubeSome articles have YouTube videos embedded in them. (Privacy Policy)
    VimeoSome articles have Vimeo videos embedded in them. (Privacy Policy)
    PaypalThis is used for a registered author who enrolls in the HubPages Earnings program and requests to be paid via PayPal. No data is shared with Paypal unless you engage with this feature. (Privacy Policy)
    Facebook LoginYou can use this to streamline signing up for, or signing in to your Hubpages account. No data is shared with Facebook unless you engage with this feature. (Privacy Policy)
    MavenThis supports the Maven widget and search functionality. (Privacy Policy)
    Marketing
    Google AdSenseThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    Google DoubleClickGoogle provides ad serving technology and runs an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    Index ExchangeThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    SovrnThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    Facebook AdsThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    Amazon Unified Ad MarketplaceThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    AppNexusThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    OpenxThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    Rubicon ProjectThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    TripleLiftThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    Say MediaWe partner with Say Media to deliver ad campaigns on our sites. (Privacy Policy)
    Remarketing PixelsWe may use remarketing pixels from advertising networks such as Google AdWords, Bing Ads, and Facebook in order to advertise the HubPages Service to people that have visited our sites.
    Conversion Tracking PixelsWe may use conversion tracking pixels from advertising networks such as Google AdWords, Bing Ads, and Facebook in order to identify when an advertisement has successfully resulted in the desired action, such as signing up for the HubPages Service or publishing an article on the HubPages Service.
    Statistics
    Author Google AnalyticsThis is used to provide traffic data and reports to the authors of articles on the HubPages Service. (Privacy Policy)
    ComscoreComScore is a media measurement and analytics company providing marketing data and analytics to enterprises, media and advertising agencies, and publishers. Non-consent will result in ComScore only processing obfuscated personal data. (Privacy Policy)
    Amazon Tracking PixelSome articles display amazon products as part of the Amazon Affiliate program, this pixel provides traffic statistics for those products (Privacy Policy)