what would u do if u are in love with a person that doesn't love u?

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    diamonds69posted 9 years ago

    what would u do if u are in love with a person that doesn't love u?

    I'm in love with this guy that was in a relationship with  married woman for a year. he feel in love wih her now he's hurt. I love him with all my heart but he says that he doesn't know how he feels about me. P.S im havin his baby.

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    srinivasan_1961posted 9 years ago

    i am saling in the same boat can anyone answer but i love her very honestly and my love is sincere one

  3. dabeaner profile image60
    dabeanerposted 9 years ago

    My first reaction was: Find someone else.  Then I saw the detail of your question.  I'm not sure, but are there two idiots or three, there?

    BTW -- GET A FRICKING ABORTION!! We do not need more future gang-bangers or crack ho idiots roaming the streets.

  4. Marlene mBP profile image60
    Marlene mBPposted 9 years ago

    If you really love him, let the child live.

    It is easier to let go of someone if you are certain that he will be in good hands and for sure will be taken cared of.

    And it is hard to let go of someone you love.... especially if you are aware that he is not happy.

    Especially that he is in pain, we want to make sure that we are there for him.

    Unconditional love is an ability not everyone is able to do. But people with unconditional love will only be rewarded if she has been given with the same level of love.

    For me, on my own opinion... it's better to take the risk... of feeling the pain... after all... you wouldn't want to live asking yourself... "what if..." who knows... it's a happy ending in the end...


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    tinkerbell09posted 9 years ago

    This is a hard question to answer.  1st to dabeaner, that's harsh!!!

    Now, if you haven't told him your pregnant, tell him and see how he reacts.  Tell him how you feel, don't be scared as to how he will react.  I told a man that I was in love with him once knowing that he wouldn't say it back, but I felt better knowing that he knew how I felt and it was up to him to respond.

    If you don't want to tell him, decide whether you want to have a  baby by a man that you're not sure loves you and wants to have a child with you.  Be sensitive to his situation as well.  He is a married man and he will have to choose who he wants to be with.  At the same time, you have to be ready if he happens to make the choice to stay with his wife.

    I believe it is a woman's choice to have a baby, but if this is your 1st child, the decision will be hard to make.  Are you keeping the baby hoping to get the man who helped you make it?  Or are you going to have the baby to raise for yourself, with or without his help?  Will you be able to live with deciding to get an abortion?  The choice is yours.

  6. Queen_Kevyn95 profile image59
    Queen_Kevyn95posted 9 years ago

    if he doesn't love you back, you can always try. i am so sorry to hear that you are having to have a child under these circumstances, during pregnancy however is a difficult time to show your affections towards someone, since you're having a lot more emotions yourself.
    i recommend moving on.  you will be able to find a man who will love you and your child, you deserve way more than what he is giving you smile
    besides, if you can prove that he is the father, child support is a given.

  7. jennifergolden profile image62
    jennifergoldenposted 9 years ago

    Have you seen The Secret? You can get it on You Tube. Use the Law of Attraction and visualize his loving you and picture what you want (NOT what you dont want). It works...

    my hub is pending review so please check it out in a day or so~


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