when you love him, but he doesn't love you what do you do?

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  1. DJ Chinita profile image60
    DJ Chinitaposted 9 years ago

    when you love him, but he doesn't love you what do you do?

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    Sam Tatumposted 9 years ago

    By the question, I can't tell if you're married or not. If not, the answer is simple..Love yourself enough to walk away. Love is given but is not always accepted. The love you have for yourself should be complete and whole and uncompromised when shared. Would you loan your car to someone who steals out the stereo, cuts the seats and so on? No. It's the same with our hearts. If the other person is not cherishing you, tuning you to be better, making you happy, cleansing your soul, then walk away. If I bought a stereo that didn't make beautiful music pleasing to my ear, then I would return it. Now, if you are married, the question of unreciprocated love extends into, is there abuse? If not, then love yourself regardless of your partner and they will see this and eventually come around. But, it there is abuse, refer to answer one.

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    reeltaulkposted 9 years ago

    you do what your heart is telling you to.  You know what actions you must take.  The face that you are asking this question shows that you know, but you are seeking confirmation from strangers.  Your heart has already confirmed it gyrl......

  4. stricktlydating profile image83
    stricktlydatingposted 9 years ago

    You can't do anything - other than try to find someone else to love, who will love you in return.

  5. Jersey Jess profile image60
    Jersey Jessposted 9 years ago

    I'm in the same exact situation... You can either try to stay with him and impress him while getting your heart broken, or forget all about him while you get your heart broken and hope you did the right thing. Hope it works out okay!

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    precious angelsamposted 8 years ago

    all i can say to you DJ chinita , if someone you love can't love you back all you have to do is to let go of him. Because, at the other hand, there maybe someone loving you  but you just don't care what i'm trying to say is that not only you experiencing this and try to seek the better from the other people that love you and who cares a lot for you.???

  7. LovesAparadise23 profile image61
    LovesAparadise23posted 8 years ago

    You're hoping someone pops up in this post and tells you to pursue it with all your might until this guy falls so hard for you that he can't breath without you being by his side, but I won't be the person telling you that.... sorry sad
    But I will tell you this, don't waste your precious time or energy with someone who will not invest in you as much as you have or want to invest in them. There are plenty and there will always be plenty of men out there to satisfy your hunger and thirst for love and being wanted. Believe me it's not easy to let go but like the saying goes, set him free If he comes back he wants you and it was meant to be If he doesn't then he was not the one and did not deserve you in the first place.
    Always keep in mind that there is no one else in the world like you, therefore someone is bound to want someone like you. Sooner or later you will meet the one who will love you in return hence it wont be a one way thing, all give and no receive no good!

  8. kmartel profile image55
    kmartelposted 8 years ago

    Leave and find someone who does, why waste your precious time on a person like this when there is one waiting for you out there that will love you?

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    dracaslairposted 8 years ago

    well tell him how you feel and just move on. you need some who will love you back.

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    sherrilynn123posted 8 years ago

    Walk  away..I know thats easier said than done..But you can't make someone love you..if they don't..And to keep trying only causes you agony.

  11. KewlWriter profile image64
    KewlWriterposted 8 years ago

    Get over him. Thats what I did. May be he was not the one for you.

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