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I dumped my girlfriend for cheating on me two times with two different guys...no

  1. danielthorne profile image39
    danielthorneposted 8 years ago

    I dumped my girlfriend for cheating on me two times with two different guys...now she's begging...

    me to get back together... what should I do?

  2. RevLady profile image61
    RevLadyposted 8 years ago

    I suspect you already know what you should do. I guess I would ask myself, if I stuck my finger on a burner and got burned, would I put my finger on it again and not expect for it to burn again?

  3. TheWatchman profile image85
    TheWatchmanposted 8 years ago

    get the heck out of there! run for the hills! shes trouble

  4. pippap profile image85
    pippapposted 8 years ago

    Fool me once, shame on you.  Fool me twice, shame on me.

    This woman does not seem to be very faithful.  She has already cheated on you twice with two separate men; so, it's not as if she's caught up in a romance with just one guy and can't make up her mind. 

    If you take her back, prepare to be cheated on again.

  5. VampireAlice profile image55
    VampireAliceposted 8 years ago

    dont get back with her.
    if she cheated on you twice shell go for a third

  6. dabeaner profile image55
    dabeanerposted 8 years ago

    You don't need her for a girl-friend.  Demote her to an occasional booty-call or 2 am drunk-dialing call.

  7. profile image47
    Linkmakerposted 8 years ago

    It is all a matter of trust. Would you be able to trust her again and start a relationship again? if you wont trust her anymore than their is no good reason to keep the relationship on.

    We have to life with our own values and actions in life. if you believe that the best action to become happy would be by trying it another time than don't care what other people will say and just do what your feeling tells you to.

    It is easy to tell someone what to do but no one knows best what to do as good as you do.

    Good luck

  8. stricktlydating profile image83
    stricktlydatingposted 8 years ago

    Even though she may be begging - and it's almost Valentine's Day... She cheated on you with two different guys when she was in a relationship with you. I think you should seriously think twice before getting involved with her again - She seems unstable.

  9. profile image0
    dracaslairposted 7 years ago

    well she needs to learn cheating dont get you anywhere but heartache.iv done it to my ex hubby and wished i didnt.

  10. qtkeeks profile image53
    qtkeeksposted 7 years ago

    I think that the more we accept cheating the more our lovers will cheat. Cheating is being tolerated way too much and I know we are human and as humans we are gonna make mistakes but after making the same mistake over and over its just wrong and should be unforgiveable.

  11. THE LIP profile image61
    THE LIPposted 7 years ago

    If U don't read D writing on the wall then all I can say is wake up bro and smell D coffee else go to ur nearest optician.U say she has cheated you twice wid two different guys. I'd say how wud you possibly know.Just coz U caught her wid someone in her bed twice you peg it at two different men. She cud have been balling a dozen men but was plain unluck to get caught with her panties down..who knows least of all you?

    What makes U assume she has turned a new leaf after spreading love so liberally and what makes U think she will never do it again ever? Maybe she has simply promised herself that she isn't gonna get caught again. So if ur ready to swallow the (spanish)fly and accept her back with open arms its your choice absolutely.

    Who knows if she is able to say"NO"  the next time a local stud wags his jewels at her and lures her into your sack behind Ur back? If U love her soo deeply to turn a Nelson's eye then welcome her back and love her to death so she can no longer be inclined to spread her love..Wishful thinking bro!!