why is it so hard to move on after your ex broke your heart? it been two years a

Jump to Last Post 1-5 of 5 discussions (5 posts)
  1. missagyei profile image59
    missagyeiposted 8 years ago

    why is it so hard to move on after your ex broke your heart? it been two years and i feel like i...

    still love and care for him. he left me at a stage where i was not ready to let go of the relationship. As i said it been two years and everytime i see him with another woman it kills my soul. How do i get over him?

  2. danny-rose profile image60
    danny-roseposted 8 years ago

    Yes it is not easy when you love somebody so much. My advice is to go out with friends more often. Find something interesting to do, it can keep your busy. Usually time is the best medicine, but you probably live in the same city as him. If this is the case, try to move away from there. I know is very hard, and I am sorry this happened to you. Time heals, but you have to take control to help yourself. Good luck my friend, and I hope this helps.

  3. stricktlydating profile image83
    stricktlydatingposted 8 years ago

    You may always have some feelings for him, but the best thing you can do to is to get out there and start dating again, and hopefully in time you'll meet someone who you also grow feelings for, and hopefully he'll feel the same too!
    Also, when I've found myself daydreaming romantically about my ex boyfriend, I remember to also remind myself about what didn't work in our relationship, and the reason we split up, that stops me from thinking I'm missing him so much.
    Best wishes.

  4. Rhonda Waits profile image79
    Rhonda Waitsposted 7 years ago

    It has been two years. That is a shame,you have been upset over this loser who broke your heart. It is time to stop. You have had enough of time and tears wasted on him. Get rid of everything that he gave you like mementos,unless it is something expensive. Then try to get some money for it. He is not worth it. Remove him completely from your life. Don;t visit places he is use to going to. Start over and fresh. Meet someone new. Date again. Force yourself out of the house. You have one life don't waste it on a sack of garbage. That is it. move on. Good luck to you.

  5. 34th Bomb Group profile image60
    34th Bomb Groupposted 7 years ago

    Quit feeling sorry with yourself and be happy. Start with gardening or fixing up that old car you've been meaning to tackle. Your misery is his pride.
    Been there...


This website uses cookies

As a user in the EEA, your approval is needed on a few things. To provide a better website experience, hubpages.com uses cookies (and other similar technologies) and may collect, process, and share personal data. Please choose which areas of our service you consent to our doing so.

For more information on managing or withdrawing consents and how we handle data, visit our Privacy Policy at: https://hubpages.com/privacy-policy#gdpr

Show Details
HubPages Device IDThis is used to identify particular browsers or devices when the access the service, and is used for security reasons.
LoginThis is necessary to sign in to the HubPages Service.
Google RecaptchaThis is used to prevent bots and spam. (Privacy Policy)
AkismetThis is used to detect comment spam. (Privacy Policy)
HubPages Google AnalyticsThis is used to provide data on traffic to our website, all personally identifyable data is anonymized. (Privacy Policy)
HubPages Traffic PixelThis is used to collect data on traffic to articles and other pages on our site. Unless you are signed in to a HubPages account, all personally identifiable information is anonymized.
Amazon Web ServicesThis is a cloud services platform that we used to host our service. (Privacy Policy)
CloudflareThis is a cloud CDN service that we use to efficiently deliver files required for our service to operate such as javascript, cascading style sheets, images, and videos. (Privacy Policy)
Google Hosted LibrariesJavascript software libraries such as jQuery are loaded at endpoints on the googleapis.com or gstatic.com domains, for performance and efficiency reasons. (Privacy Policy)
Google Custom SearchThis is feature allows you to search the site. (Privacy Policy)
Google MapsSome articles have Google Maps embedded in them. (Privacy Policy)
Google ChartsThis is used to display charts and graphs on articles and the author center. (Privacy Policy)
Google AdSense Host APIThis service allows you to sign up for or associate a Google AdSense account with HubPages, so that you can earn money from ads on your articles. No data is shared unless you engage with this feature. (Privacy Policy)
Google YouTubeSome articles have YouTube videos embedded in them. (Privacy Policy)
VimeoSome articles have Vimeo videos embedded in them. (Privacy Policy)
PaypalThis is used for a registered author who enrolls in the HubPages Earnings program and requests to be paid via PayPal. No data is shared with Paypal unless you engage with this feature. (Privacy Policy)
Facebook LoginYou can use this to streamline signing up for, or signing in to your Hubpages account. No data is shared with Facebook unless you engage with this feature. (Privacy Policy)
MavenThis supports the Maven widget and search functionality. (Privacy Policy)
Google AdSenseThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
Google DoubleClickGoogle provides ad serving technology and runs an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
Index ExchangeThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
SovrnThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
Facebook AdsThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
Amazon Unified Ad MarketplaceThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
AppNexusThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
OpenxThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
Rubicon ProjectThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
TripleLiftThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
Say MediaWe partner with Say Media to deliver ad campaigns on our sites. (Privacy Policy)
Remarketing PixelsWe may use remarketing pixels from advertising networks such as Google AdWords, Bing Ads, and Facebook in order to advertise the HubPages Service to people that have visited our sites.
Conversion Tracking PixelsWe may use conversion tracking pixels from advertising networks such as Google AdWords, Bing Ads, and Facebook in order to identify when an advertisement has successfully resulted in the desired action, such as signing up for the HubPages Service or publishing an article on the HubPages Service.
Author Google AnalyticsThis is used to provide traffic data and reports to the authors of articles on the HubPages Service. (Privacy Policy)
ComscoreComScore is a media measurement and analytics company providing marketing data and analytics to enterprises, media and advertising agencies, and publishers. Non-consent will result in ComScore only processing obfuscated personal data. (Privacy Policy)
Amazon Tracking PixelSome articles display amazon products as part of the Amazon Affiliate program, this pixel provides traffic statistics for those products (Privacy Policy)