what should i do if i really like a guy but i havent talked to him in weeks ?

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  1. the rachelder profile image53
    the rachelderposted 8 years ago

    what should i do if i really like a guy but i havent talked to him in weeks ?

    my best guy friend and boy friend hasn't talked to me in weeks i want to know what this means!

  2. profile image51
    Lithuania Infoposted 8 years ago

    If he hasn't contacted you in weeks, then quite simply he isn't really into you any more and doesn't know any other way to 'let you down' gently.

  3. NYKitten82 profile image61
    NYKitten82posted 8 years ago

    Ok it's 2010 my dear. If he is too busy,scared and or stupid to get ahold of you....Pull up your big girl pants and call him and say "Hey do you remember me...HI" and see where that gets you.
    If you don't find out how he feels it could haunt you for a long time. Just get it done

  4. profile image48
    Swolej1posted 8 years ago

    If he is your boyfriend, and haven't contacted you in weeks, there must be something else going on... I would have to assume that the relationship may be over, that is a pretty extreme length of time for him not to contact his girlfriend.  Try to get a hold of him and see what's going on.  Send a text, call him, email him, facebook him, whatever.

  5. gagig profile image58
    gagigposted 8 years ago

    someone said that if you love some one , let him go,if come back it will be your and if not, he wasn't yours...


  6. sir_tallest profile image61
    sir_tallestposted 8 years ago

    there is nothing worse than not knowing but the only way to know is by finding out and the easiest way to know is by asking.....try calling him to find out why he's been silence in weeks.....if you don't ask, and decide to wait, you might miss him and out of maybe a good thing

  7. The Wizz profile image62
    The Wizzposted 8 years ago

    He could be busy at work, tending a sick relative or trapped under a large object.  We all know how easy it is to come up with reasons why he hasn't called right? Even though this is painful for you you are better off not in a relationship with someone who will not think to call you. As the movie says - he's just not that in to you. Look for love where it will be reciprocated.

  8. sugz profile image71
    sugzposted 8 years ago

    i've been in the same situation lately..
    i asked.. i got shot down without a good enough reason.. for me, 'pass' does not signify an answer! so then i left him alone, and now, this guy contacts ME every day..  we're stil not as close as were, but, it's getting there. hasn't become a b/f yet.. am still workin on that one but he's running outa time... LOL

  9. possum lover profile image57
    possum loverposted 8 years ago

    If you really like him then pick up the phone and give him a call. Tell him that you have been thinking about him and asking how's he is doing, and see how the conversation goes from there.

  10. MayG profile image91
    MayGposted 8 years ago

    Have you tried calling him?  You don't have to wait for him, you know.  If you have called him and he's not calling you back, maybe he's not really your best guy friend! Forget him.  Could you have done something to offend him?  Otherwise, maybe he has started seeing someone and doesn't know how to tell you.  Who knows?  It could mean a million different things, but you'll only know if you get in touch with him and ask.


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