If you found out that your partner is bisexual what would you do?
can someone being bisexual still have a good relationship ??
I suppose that depends on whether or not he tried to hide it from me, and to what extent it affects our relationship. If he never lied about it or deliberately tried to deceive me and it didn't change how he felt about me, then no problem. If he did try to deceive me, for whatever reason, then we could have a trust and honesty issue. If he's saying it because he's finding himself more attracted to another person than to me (male or female), then we'd have a much bigger problem.
To answer the other bit...yes, I think bisexuals can have every bit as good of a relationship as heterosexuals or homosexuals. One's orientation matters much less than their commitment to their chosen partner.
I think that bisexuality does not compromise a good relationship. In the end there is nothing unusual and nothing to worry about. If this person loves you, what else is important?
I don't bisexuality should matter, fidelity should. Just like there is the weird Idea floating around that a gay guy will hit on every man he sees, and every lesbian just has yet to find the right guy, these irritating stigmas lead to mistrust and irritation for everyone. Believe in people, not their orientation.
As long as your partner is monogamous, I don't see how bisexuality fits into the picture here.
Personally, I would not care. I suppose it depends on whether or not you have a problem with her cavorting with other women. If you let her see women, it will probably be healthy for your relationship. She will get to feel adventurous and she will feel that you really trust her. Her fooling around with another woman is not the same thing as her cheating with a man. I would not worry about it.
I have been with a guy who found out and freaked and I have been with guys who don't care. It just depends on the person.
by Asahda Shavaja Poet of the New Age 6 years ago
I was often told that people who are "Bi" are being selfish, they are confused and just trying to be on both sides of the fence. Either you are all the way GAY or you are all the way straight..no in between. Isn't this look upon poorly by other gays and straight people?
by igotinked 17 months ago
Is it possible that bisexual man become a straight guy in the end?
by Metalhead936 7 years ago
Hey there,Might seem like an odd question to some (maybe all) of you, but seriously, how can a male not get confused by this stuff one sees and hears every day around him? I'm a guy who's really not into all the "bi-curious"/bisexual stuff women seem to have nowadays, I just want a truly...
by igotinked 8 years ago
Does guy's vanity defines the possibility of bisexuality?If not, then what makes a man a bisexual? If yes, how so?
by schoolgirlforreal 4 years ago
women:how would you react if your boyfriend/lover/husband? was bisexual and you just found out? Would you run away, freak out, think it's sexy, or demand why he didn't tell you, ask if he's cheating, or all?
by smlbizmatters 5 years ago
Can bad sex ruin a good relationship?If you're really in love with someone do you think it's possible for a relationship to work around bad sex (not intimacy)? With all other aspects of the relationship in working order can this type of relationship survive?
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