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i have been in a relationship with this guy for 2 and a half years but he has ne

  1. profile image48
    sparkishposted 7 years ago

    i have been in a relationship with this guy for 2 and a half years but he has never given me a...

    gift except on my birthday.he says he has no money we dont even go out together. i usually give him money and gifts because i know he is from a less average home. so please i dont know what to do .should i stay or should i quit the relationship?

  2. MickS profile image73
    MickSposted 7 years ago

    So your relationship is not based upon love but on the ability, or not, of one give gifts to the other.  I wouldn't want to get tied up in any better or worse relationship with you.

  3. stricktlydating profile image82
    stricktlydatingposted 7 years ago

    If he's not taking you out anywhere or giving you gifts on occasions and you're giving gifts to him, it seems like your relationship is more one sided, or you're being taken for granted...  This could be a deal breaker, if he's constantly disappointing you.

  4. nightwork4 profile image61
    nightwork4posted 7 years ago

    try not giving him anything material for a while and see the results. you don't need money to go out, you can go to free theaters, parks etc.

  5. Loving_Life profile image57
    Loving_Lifeposted 7 years ago

    if I was you I wouldn't be giving him anything!
    How hard is it for him to go out and get a job so he can buy you things. I bet if you were to STOP buying him things he'd look for another woman who would.
    It sounds like he likes living off of you, because obviously you must be paying all the bills as well, right?

 
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