Be consistant and reliable, and make her feel important despite her game playing ways, show her you are genuine and sincere, but allow her the freedom to make her own choices.
Rule #1: Stop trying to have a relationship with someone who does not want one with you!
Today we call that being a "stalker" or a "fatal attraction".
The old days of sending flowers, leaving romantic notes/poems, and showing up wherever you think she may be are no longer considered "courting or a romantic pursuit". Most people call it SCARY! Sexual Harassment isn't something you want to be known for.
The best approach is to tell someone you find them attractive and would like to get to know them better. Follow that by asking if they would like to get together to go out......etc
Based upon their response you will know if the interest is mutual. Always keep in mind there are more than 6 billion people on this planet and the odds are in your favor that more than one is attracted to you and would like to get to know you better. If she is not one of them then move on!
How do you know she's 'playin'? Could be she's totally not into you, but too polite to say so. Why don't you leave her alone for a while? If she's only playing, she'll make sure you find that out. And if you don't hear anything, then you'll know to go find someone else to play with.
by Steven Escareno 7 years ago
I always wondered why those little words effected people so much, so i ask my fellow hubbers out there to tell me and try to answer the question, "why is saying i love you so hard?"
by afrykanqwin 2 years ago
Why is it so easy for people to judge others and so hard for them to love others??just a thot, would love to hear from others...
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