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Do you blame yourself or your partner first?

  1. lovelife08 profile image60
    lovelife08posted 6 years ago

    Do you blame yourself or your partner first?

    In a serious relationship, during a dispute, what do you try to analyze first:  What you have done wrong, or what your partner has done wrong?

  2. jacobkuttyta profile image75
    jacobkuttytaposted 6 years ago

    I blame my self as I am responsible for every situation. 

    You cannot blame your parents.  No parents would do things which will harm their children.  They always wanted the best for their children, as I wish for my children.

    We should blame ourself and correct the way of life will keep us away from trouble in the future.

    If you do not take responsibility and mending our way means we are not learning from our past mistakes.

  3. ii3rittles profile image83
    ii3rittlesposted 6 years ago

    I tend to look away from the mirror first. Usually I say things I don't mean and assume to much. Much like a sin, I realize it right away and ask for forgiveness. Both partners are to blame for any argument, not matter who's fault it is.

  4. lovelife08 profile image60
    lovelife08posted 6 years ago

    @ jacobkuttyta  I said "partner", not "parents".

 
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