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Is Men always responsible for everything happens to be with women?

  1. Shehzadarby profile image60
    Shehzadarbyposted 3 years ago

    Is Men always responsible for everything happens to be with women?

    Seen most of time women blames men for everything, like Relationship,Shopping and More .So, I wonder get the answer from here why it happens 9 out of 10 times.


  2. profile image0
    sheilamyersposted 3 years ago

    As a woman, I don't always blame the guy for everything. Maybe some men cause a lot of problems for the woman, but I think the women who always blame the guy does so because she doesn't want to admit to making mistakes. That would go the other way with the guy always blaming the women.

    1. Shehzadarby profile image60
      Shehzadarbyposted 3 years agoin reply to this

      So,your the 1 out of ten but can you find out the cause why it happens.
      I've seen it many time mentally stable women blaming BF or husband for almost everything so, as a woman not your self but by the nature of woman why it happens?

  3. Aime F profile image85
    Aime Fposted 3 years ago

    I think saying that it's a woman's "nature" to blame a man is complete BS and I find the suggestion pretty offensive.

    Some PEOPLE (regardless of gender) have trouble taking responsibility and blame their problems on other PEOPLE (again, regardless of gender). Introspection can be hard. Admitting that we have our own problems that result in bigger problems is hard. So it's easier for many to put the blame somewhere else.

    1. ChristinS profile image95
      ChristinSposted 3 years agoin reply to this

      Absolutely correct - couldn't have said it better myself.

  4. dashingscorpio profile image87
    dashingscorpioposted 3 years ago

    A lot of people are quick to blame others for their unhappiness in life whether they be a woman or a man. I'm constantly reminding people; Each of us (chooses) our own friends, lovers, and spouse. At some point we have  to acknowledge we said "yes" to (this person) over all the others we came across.
    When we blame others for our unhappiness it makes us powerless! After all the only people we can "control" is ourselves. If your happiness is dependent on others you'll never feel empowered or secure in life. That's giving others way too much power over you.
    Ideally with experience and maturity we can learn to make better choices for our life. If for an example a woman is experiencing one bad relationship after another with the men she dates there should come a point where she would re-examine her mate selection criteria. The only thing all of our past relationships have in common is (us).
    If you go to the grocery store to purchase an apple but buy an onion instead, whose fault is that? Do you curse the onion for not being an apple? No! You learn to become a better shopper!
    Life is learning. Self-empowerment comes from taking responsibility for our own happiness in life. Forgive yourself and move on!

  5. Link10103 profile image75
    Link10103posted 3 years ago

    Well, when it comes to shopping, the guy is probably wrong 99% of the time.

    But in general, no one person is to blame for everything.

    1. dashingscorpio profile image87
      dashingscorpioposted 3 years agoin reply to this

      When it comes to love and relationships most of us fail our way to success. If this weren't true we'd all end up married to our high school sweethearts! smile

    2. ChristinS profile image95
      ChristinSposted 3 years agoin reply to this

      believe it or not there are some of us women who hate shopping.  I despise it.  I'd rather leave it all to my husband, except he doesn't like it either - so we struggle through it together lol smile

  6. Diana Lee profile image83
    Diana Leeposted 3 years ago

    Poor communication between mates often result in blaming each other for their problems. I really don't think gender has anything to do with it.  Both get restless with certain relationships and no matter whom if either are at fault the helpless one will take the responsibility for everything right or wrong.

  7. Lady Guinevere profile image61
    Lady Guinevereposted 3 years ago

    That is not gender specific.  Look around the world at how many and who are playing the blame game.  It is sickening.  For some reason people are taught that it is right to blame others for their own faults and problems...look at religion....isn't it always God's an/or Satan's fault?  Then go beyond that and it become a whole culture's fault.

  8. danicole profile image79
    danicoleposted 3 years ago

    I don't think women blame men for everything. They may feel frustrated and misunderstood but they don't blame men for everything. A woman do want men to listen (especially to what they are saying and the words that come out her mouth). Oftentimes I witness women constantly repeating things to men (who seem deaf  because they are not paying attention in the first place). A lot of times women can be indirect too and throw hints at men!!!! It's the gender difference in communication, men are much more direct in communication, and women like to guide people in conversation. If you really believe that, try paying attention to what a women is saying before jumping to conclusions.

    Even so a person who constantly blames others is immature and probably irresponsible. This is regardless of gender!!!! MEN AND WOMEN CAN BOTH BE IMMATURE AND IRRESPONSIBLE

  9. Shehzadarby profile image60
    Shehzadarbyposted 3 years ago

    I just asked what I have seen most of times.Nothing Offensive If someone thinks or believe I was I am Sorry ...

    Well , I believe women always tries to get everything from a man she wants his man to give her love, respect and everything she deserves. Here when there is something missed she feels her man is not giving her everything..so , that can be the reason.I might be wrong.

    The reason I asked because I noticed 9/10 times and want to understand ...Loved your answers please guide me ...

  10. chaitanyasaivb profile image76
    chaitanyasaivbposted 3 years ago

    It simple depends up on the situation. It was not women or men, who blames. But, it was people, who blames for everything. This is just to skip their mistakes. But, when things coming to shopping, Some people will misjudge that, Women blames men. But, It happens sometimes, but not every time. So, Never judge people, without knowing their situations.