My boyfriend says he loves me but every week ending our relationship

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    Tracyeaposted 6 years ago

    My boyfriend says he loves me but every week ending our relationship

    My boyfriend says he loves me but every other week he seems to go in this mood where he acts like a spoilt child, he becomes very abusive in texts and over the phone and ends our relationship and deletes me on Facebook , then the next day he gets in touch like nothing has happened, I know he has had bad previous relationships but iv done nothing wrong is there anything I can do

  2. NiaG profile image91
    NiaGposted 6 years ago

    Get out now. He's bipolar. It won't last.

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    MP50posted 6 years ago

    Yes there is something you can do, talk to your boyfriend about his outbursts of abuse to you, ask him if he has any issues that he would like to talk over with you peacefully? Perhaps he has a low self esteem? Try your best and talk it out, if the abuse and moods continue move on and get on with your life, no one deserves to be treated that way.

    Hope this helps

    Kind Regards


  4. Toni Miller profile image59
    Toni Millerposted 6 years ago

    Well, some guys do this in order to get a break from you. They don't wish to break up permanently, because apparently you have something that keeps him coming back(if you know what I mean). He may be looking around, or just checking things out elsewhere. Listen, these are the moments when women need to start thinking like a man. And because you choose to stay there while he is going through his stuff, it's time for you to man up. Treat him the same way, and see what response you will get. I bet he stops acting that way anymore. Smooches!

  5. dashingscorpio profile image88
    dashingscorpioposted 6 years ago

    "he acts like a spoilt child, he becomes very abusive in texts and over the phone and ends our relationship and deletes me on Facebook..."
    It sounds to me like your real question should be, "Why do I want to date a guy who treats me like crap?"

    We have no control over what others may say or do. However we can control whether or not we spend time with them. Nobody is "stuck" with anyone. There are almost 7 Billion people on this planet. Surly you must believe you can do better than this guy! Love yourself enough to find someone who will treat you right!

  6. DDE profile image26
    DDEposted 5 years ago

    This sounds weird to me I would try speak to him and see what is troubling him  but please if it goes on without an explanation staying with someone like that would only ruin you


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