Not at all. We joke about how he flirts with food service providers in order to get better service and bigger portions. He comments about women who pass us who have big booties or nice legs. I either agree or not. As long as he doesn't follow one home, I'm not worried.
First off, I don't believe anybody ever "innocently" looks at an attractive anybody else. If they are looking, it's because they think there is something worth seeing. And that's perfectly OK with me, because I don't miss a trick when it comes to eye candy. If I catch my partner looking at an attractive girl, you can bet I probably saw her before he did, and the attractive guy who was with her too.
My partner doesn't really have a wandering eye, so when she does take the time to look at someone I definitely notice...but I don't really dwell on it. We've been together long enough that I trust her completely, and I know she would never be unfaithful.
No I don't. I just remember that physical attraction to a stranger is completely different to what we have as a couple. How does a six pack outweigh years of commitment, support, conversations and shared experiences ?.
If your partner is happy with you physically and you have a good quality relationship I don' think there is anything to worry about.
not at all... he sometimes even share to me some things she noticed as well as how pretty or nasty a woman as he've seen it. It's just an appreciation actually like a beautiful flower or a car. What matters is.. you knew who he loves and chooses to spend the rest of his life with.
It is perfectly normal for people to look at the opposite sex. It is better for the relationship if you don't make a big deal about it. A look is innocent and should be treated as such. You might just learn something about your partner is you are open with the subject.
I am a little insecure as I don't find myself that attractive; though my boyfriend has never given me any reason to be so. He is very loyal to me I know, and it is only natural for boys to look at pretty girls. But I've never seen him taking such chances. Even if he did, I think I am capable enough not to judge every little glance. So yeah, it's OK with me as long as he's not cheating in our relationship.
Not at all. My husband has never given me any reason to distrust him and I'm sure he looks at times. He doesn't gawk or make it too obvious. Our relationship is based on trust and a deep friendship also.
I find it rather hypocritical that the girl can look at this blonde's lovely body and ass,as she is very noticeably undressing her with her eyes,and a filthy good look-over as the photo CLEARLY shows,and wants to prevent a clearly straight ,healthy young man not too admire her,she's not a fat sloath or overweight like atleast 60% of women in that age group,hands off beeatch! Pschologist would suggest thatThis is not jealousy,this is a sexually confused young bird. Is the bird covering that guys eyes a lesbeing or what,I think so for show!
No, it has never bothered me, but the feeling when an attractive lady is near you and your guy is not looking at her and all the attention he has on you makes me feel amazing. But anyway it doesn't bothers me, as you can always find so attractive girls that even I look at them :p
Catherine: The sexy young thing strutting her stuff in that short black dress doesn't want to be seen as a person...she wants men to notice two luscious legs. She is advertising what she believes is her finest qualities...her finest assets.
Catherine: This young sexy thang wants to be seen as a sex object...she would be totally disappointed if she was not noticed. Almost all men suffer from "hungry eye syndrom" and this little philly wants them to feast their eyes on her beautiful bod.
Catherine: When a woman exposes body parts and wears sexy, revealing clothing, she is trying to draw men in through sexual attraction. What is unrealistic, is to think that once she has them focussed on her body, that they must now focus on her mind.
CJ You're not getting it. Girls are taught that dressing sexy means that they're "looking good" for themselves not just that they're trying to attract sex partners, and that dressing modestly is dressing funny or ugly. It's not always about sex
Catherine: I'm sure short skirts, high heels, and thong panties are not meant for one's comfort, but they are meant to get attention using sex as the bait. We are all walking billboards that are advertising something. Women often advertise sexuality.
I would deny and say no but I'm just human with some uncontrollable emotions so I would say, yes, it does make me feel insecure sometimes. But I'm learning how to get over it. There will always be more attractive people than me so there's no point in getting insecure or jealous everytime my guy looks at one; it will just turn me into a negative person (which I like to think I'm not). As long as it's just an innocent look of course. ;-)
No, not at all. If you truly loving each other and serious in relationship than insecure feeling never come. On the other hand, seeing an opposite sex is normal and it will not effect a relationship anymore if there is good understanding between them. Be positive, have faith, trust each other and give freedom to each other.
I don't mind if he doesn't mind! I do believe it is natural for beautiful people to turn heads. The danger arises when one's relationship is not receiving the attention it needs, that's when it can fall apart. It takes more than a look to ruin a long term relationship.
I think it might partly depend upon the stage that the relationship has reached. Where the comfort level is, how much trust has been built & the security or insecurity levels of each party. If I just start dating someone and am trying to enjoy the time I spend with them, I'm not going to be too happy & in fact, would feel disrespected if he was turning his head for another woman. After 11 yrs of marriage, I still didn't appreciate too long of a look. For Goodness Sake - be discreet if you must do it! A man should always make his lady feel like the most beautiful woman on earth & that goes both ways! Far too much basic respect has been left out of the modern day relationship, in my opinion. I think that it's the small things like this over time that can erode the connection between two people. Take care of one another, show the utmost respect for your partner and you're sure to be paired for a very long time.
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