Wow, lucky you! I sometimes think that having more than one relationship is what helps us figure out what we really don't want in a relationship; however, if you have found something that lasts than that's awesome!
Our priorities changed and she began to spend more time with family, friends, and co-workers. The last complete year we were together she "forgot" to buy me a simple Christmas card. I don't have enough space to go into all the details of how I helped her with her ailing mom at that time or broadend her horizons with "real vacations" to various destinations and romantic getaways. In the end I just felt like I was being "taken for granted". As her adult daughter begin having children they naturally became a major pritority and there would be multiple gatherings with her ex-husband and in-laws. I got along with them but I was becoming invisible. Passion and romance faded and the list goes on and on. I'm a firm believer that (you) are responsible for your own happiness. Anyone who is unhappy in a relationship and chooses to stay....is (choosing) to be unhappy. There is no amount of "communication" or "work" that can overcome being with someone who does not want what you want.
because he was incapable of truly loving me.... We traveled all over the place and had a great time, but we were just friends because he could not and would not open his heart and I found that even though I was with him, I was terribly lonely. I needed love in my life and so I walked away. The sad part about it was that when he was finally able to love me it was too late, I had already disconnected and moved on.
Yea, I think so, but I guess we have both gone on with our lives and so has he. Funny how you can look back at some things and smile even though it might have a bit of sadness attached to it. And I am with you, I can't deal with liars either!
Cheated when we were only months away from marriage -- discovered the week I got my wedding dress. That, and his inability to grow up and quit freeloading. We've both since moved on. He married the woman he cheated with, cheated on her and now they are divorced - but like they say, relationships built on deceit will end that way. I only hope they both are different now and have happier lives.
I'm much better off now and with the love of my life. Yay for finding the spouse you were meant to be with!
I was so in love with my second to the last girlfriend, The only reason why we got separated was the distance. I was based in the Metro while she is in the province. Good for me after all because I have met a girl , my wife now whom I also love very much and she is very supportive. I think distance really matters.
I do as well. I have seen two people madly in love get destroyed by distance. He had to go away and work for 8 months on the other side of the world, and they couldn't do it. I've seen people who have succeeded, but I wouldn't be able to do it..
My last relationship ended because of nothing i still don't no what is the reason behind it but my X lover while leaving she said that "your fighting with me a lot so lets break up" To be genuine in my side i usually don't fight with her. Thank you, Have a great day.
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