what will you do to your wife or husband?

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  1. seyiari profile image61
    seyiariposted 14 years ago

    i want you to tell fellow hubbers what you will do if you find out that your wife or husband is having a secrete love affair or an extra marital affair  with your best friend.

    1. AEvans profile image73
      AEvansposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      I would talk about it and figure out where the communication failed emotionally, mentally or physically. Because I love my spouse I would forgive him and work on healing the relationship, there is always something that causes the breakdown in the relationship the thing is, is that person willing to fix it? smile

    2. DeeJay Prime profile image59
      DeeJay Primeposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      Thats a tough thing to think about. The ultimate betrail. I would feel anger 1st. Not just regular anger, I mean pissed to high heaven mad. I would damage many of there things..i.e. cars, cloths, reputation. I would not be able to stop. After probly the first year or so I could get over it with lots of counciling and long nights drinking.

    3. Rangerwife profile image60
      Rangerwifeposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      Easy answer:  I would leave.  Our marriage could never last after that even if we tried to make it.  And I'm better than that.  I don't need a man who doesn't appreciate what he has.

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        lyricsingrayposted 14 years agoin reply to this

        i'm with you girl.  But I'd make him leave. With nothing lol

    4. profile image0
      Poppa Bluesposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      Move on. That's the simple answer, regardless of whether you stay together or not this will have to become a issue of the past.

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      sandra rinckposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      Hope for understanding and move on.

    6. pylos26 profile image70
      pylos26posted 14 years agoin reply to this

      I would learn to chose better friends.

    7. Himitsu Shugisha profile image73
      Himitsu Shugishaposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      Ask her if she would like her personal effects forwarded to his house, or if she would just like to pack them now.

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      Brenda Durhamposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      Shoot them both.  I'm kidding.  But not so much.

  2. Dale Mazurek profile image62
    Dale Mazurekposted 14 years ago

    In all honesty I doubt anyone could really answer this with out it really happening.

    Here is what I think i would do.

    I believe I would walk away heart broken.  It would obviously mean that what we had wasnt good enough.

    Some might ask if I would fight for her.  I really dont think that would be for me because trust would always be an issue.

    I am so glad my wife and I are so much in love even after 21 years.  I would never even entertain thoughts of such a thing



  3. readytoescape profile image59
    readytoescapeposted 14 years ago

    I think a portion of it would depend upon the length of the relationship. There would seem to be a lot of questions to be answered. Was there a lack of love? Did attraction perhaps fall off? Is the affair purely sexual? What changes have developed in the marriage, economic, child loss, empty nest?

    To just say adios….. I’m not so sure that is the answer for everyone.

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    sneakorocksolidposted 14 years ago

    I would be devastated. I would forgive but I doubt I would stay. It would be so confusing.

    1. tantrum profile image60
      tantrumposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      I can't imagine something like that. Must be terrible !! sad

  5. Ron Montgomery profile image60
    Ron Montgomeryposted 14 years ago

    Stone them both as the bible instructs.

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    sneakorocksolidposted 14 years ago

    There's noway I'll share my pot with them!

    1. Ron Montgomery profile image60
      Ron Montgomeryposted 14 years agoin reply to this


  7. Dolores Monet profile image93
    Dolores Monetposted 14 years ago

    Empty the bank account. Move the money.

  8. caravalhophoto profile image60
    caravalhophotoposted 14 years ago

    Move On...

  9. Colebabie profile image60
    Colebabieposted 14 years ago

    My best friend is a guy. So we would have a major situation smile
    So I would definitely be heart broken, confused, and leave... fo sho!

  10. Dolores Monet profile image93
    Dolores Monetposted 14 years ago

    Oh wait! I know what I would do! I'd punch the rear window of his SUV out with a pair of golf clubs!

  11. carolina muscle profile image66
    carolina muscleposted 14 years ago

    I can tell you from experience, that you won't know how you'll really react until it happens.

  12. profile image53
    POOPSIEGIRL69posted 14 years ago

    It depends on the relationship sometimes things just happen .Do you leave or do you stay only you can answer that question .Can you still be with that person after such betrayel.You have to ask yourself can you really forgive this person for what they have done and live with them for the rest of your life think about it.

  13. Flightkeeper profile image67
    Flightkeeperposted 14 years ago

    I'd sue him till his teeth hurt.  That way it'll be public and she'll be exposed for a skank and he'll be ruined.

  14. IntimatEvolution profile image67
    IntimatEvolutionposted 14 years ago

    I would screw her lover, and then his best friend.  Two can tango, I would refuse to be appeared upon as the victim.  I'd just get even.


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