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Best way to win you ex back?

  1. AntoinettePatters profile image60
    AntoinettePattersposted 5 years ago

    Best way to win you ex back?

  2. windygreen profile image60
    windygreenposted 5 years ago

    In general, if teo people part ways - there was a reason and that reason probably still exists...  so be sure you want to get your ex back

    However, to get your ex back..

    show your dedication ... be there for them and interested in them ... but dont drive them crazy or look too desperate.

    express your desire to make things better the next time around and willingness to change or compromise but dont make promises you are unwilling to really keep

  3. duffsmom profile image60
    duffsmomposted 5 years ago

    First and foremost remember he/she is an ex for a reason and likely that reason has not changed. People rarely undergo huge changes.

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  4. dashingscorpio profile image86
    dashingscorpioposted 5 years ago

    Your future lies ahead of you and not behind you.
    The underlying definition of "soul-mates" is (two people) who share the same values, want the same things for the relationship, naturally agree on how to obtain them, and last but not least have a MUTUAL level of love/desire/respect and appreciation for each other.
    If someone has chosen not to be with someone then it's clear they aren't "soul-mates".  In order for him or her to be "the one" they would have to see you as being "the one" and vice versa.

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    Justsilvieposted 5 years ago

    Walk away!

    Go on with your own life and think about you.  Space and time can be very useful and gives both parties time to think. They may find they miss you as much as you do them. Absence often does make the heart grow fonder or opens your eyes to the problems that made you exes, those do not magically disappear. Face them with open eyes or you may just be putting off the inevitable.

  6. stricktlydating profile image82
    stricktlydatingposted 5 years ago

    I've written a Hub on this topic, but to put it simply to win your ex back you simply need to tell them how you feel in person or over the phone, lay it on the line and be honest about it.  Then you have opened the door to letting them change their way of thinking about you.  You then need to leave that person alone, completely, and allow them time to make up their own mind if they want you back in their life.

  7. mathira profile image83
    mathiraposted 5 years ago

    If your love for your spouse is genuine, you should be able to forget the bitterness you felt and concentrate on building up your relationship from the scratch. Do not bring up the past and show lots of care, love and appreciation.