Just for the fun of it ... how many time have you been friend-zoned? :D

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   Randomovicposted 12 years ago

   Just for the fun of it ... how many time have you been friend-zoned?
   
   personally ... I lost count and almost claiming the friends zone throne.

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   kwade tweelingposted 12 years ago

   You mean when a girl tells you, "you're such a good friend," with a finality that makes it clear she will never date you?
   
   More times than I can count. And I can count pretty high.
   
   Sometimes it feels as though being nice is a flaw. You become too good as a friend to be anything more. But hang in there. Don't let bad experiences eat at you. Do your best to always become more than what you are. One day, you'll find the right person, if you so desire.
   
   Good day, my friend, the king.

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      Randomovicposted 12 years agoin reply to this

      Hahahahahahaaaaaa .. you know the thing is, a friend once told me "You always whine about how girls fall for jerks and leave out the nice guys, well, at least jerks have the guts to step it up and go for what they want" .....

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   LauraGTposted 12 years ago

   Don't worry about it - nice guys win in the end, it just might take them a little longer to get there!  Consider it a compliment and move on. The most important thing in a happy marriage/relationship is a strong base of friendship, so you're really ahead of the game. 

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      Randomovicposted 12 years agoin reply to this

      I swear i always think the same .. like for the long run friends-zone guys win ... but till we get there, the journey an't a piece of cake

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      Relationshipcposted 12 years agoin reply to this

      Nice guys do win. My husband was actually in MY friend-zone for years. Then one day, after all the jerks, I looked at him and realized that he was the guy for me all along. Happily married now! A woman just has to open her eyes.

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      dashingscorpioposted 12 years agoin reply to this

      Relationshipc: "Then one day, after all the jerks..." He got the left overs! LOL! It's too bad (nice guys) have to (wait) until women complete their "bad boy" phase in order to be appreciated. Then again some "jerks" eventually become nice guys! :-)

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   Darksageposted 12 years ago

   Hmmmmm...... Many times I guess, But I feel like its better that way, I mean it's not the end of the world. And with it you have the shelter of friendship with you. I don't know why people find it horrible to be friend-zoned, not all relationships mean that you will end up with that person, sometimes its better to actually be friends than making it rather serious.
   
   And hey, think of it as a safe way to get to the person's heart

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      Randomovicposted 12 years agoin reply to this

      it starts heading down to hell when you start falling for her and wanting actually more than just friends? .. plus the PAAAAAIN when she falls for someone else ... it is indeed horrible man

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   CharronsChatterposted 12 years ago

   once. but it mattered more than ANYthing.

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   dashingscorpioposted 12 years ago

   Honestly, (never). If I had romantic interest in a person and the feeling wasn't mutual I quickly moved on.
   I never bought into the "Lets be friends first" and develop a relationship overtime. People know early on who is dating material or who they are physcially attracted to. Those that end up in the "friend zone" spend too much time around people before making their intentions known.
   When I was single if I had romantic or (lustful) interest in a woman she knew it on day one! LOL! Anyone who says "Lets be friends (first)" is basically telling you, "I don't see you as being (the one)!"
   If someone thinks you are "hot" they aren't going to put you in the "friend zone" and risk having someone else snatch you up!

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