What did you find attractive about your spouse?
The person you chose to marry must have then had something that made you pop the question what made you go that far?
When we met, we both felt an irresistible attraction that was cosmic. It was spiritual and physical. As we got to know each other more and more, the psychological attraction was immense, too. He fascinated me. All we knew was that we couldn't bear to be apart from the day we met. He proposed 13 days later. We've been married for 28 years. It hasn't always been easy despite that magical start but our love keeps us together.
Naturally physical attraction and chemistry played a major role. However that is common with just about anyone you decide to date or have a relationship with. I believe it's the level of comfort that comes with having so many things in common, shared values & desires, and similar sense of humor that elevated things to a new level. It didn't hurt that each of our families instantly approved of us as a couple.
However I do believe age, wisdom, maturity, and life experience plays a key role in leaning how to select the (right) mate for oneself. If I had met my wife when I was age 22 it's unlikely I would have viewed her as being "the one". Some of us need a few storms in our lives to appreciate the sun.
I've often said: "The majority of us fail our way to success when it comes to relationships". If we didn't I suppose most of us would be married to our Jr. high school sweethearts! :-)
Her simplicity and honesty just bowled me over!
I am so glad and thankful that till date these qualities are inseparable part of her personality.
His charm, his sense of humour, his intelligence and his respectful behaviour towards my parents and of course his overall personality.
His character, stability, intellect, personality, looks, and goals in life that matched mine.
by Ms.Lavae 14 years ago
How Do you start talking to someone you find attractive, but dont know?Ok so i've always wondered what techinques others use to get that hot guy/girl that they've been eyeing for a while.
by FelineFrance 13 years ago
I am curious as to why it is wrong. I do agree that is there is much more to a relationship than looks. What if you are 5 ft 11 woman and do not feel comfortable dating a 5 ft 2 man? Why is it shallow? Isn't a waste of time going out with a guy who honestly do not find attractive?
by lisasuniquevoice 11 years ago
What qualities do you find attractive in a friend?
by Susan Reid 15 years ago
SweetiePie wrote a really interesting hub on Celebrity Crushes. In the comment thread we started talking about singers we think are good looking.I'd like to hear others' thoughts...
by AdsenseStrategies 14 years ago
What do women find attractive?Do I need to clarify this question? :-)
by Sharp Points 9 years ago
Would you date someone you weren't attracted to at all if they had most other qualities you desire?Would you start a relationship with a person who you weren't physically attracted to at all but they displayed almost all of the other qualities you desire in a partner?
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