What did you find attractive about your spouse?
The person you chose to marry must have then had something that made you pop the question what made you go that far?
When we met, we both felt an irresistible attraction that was cosmic. It was spiritual and physical. As we got to know each other more and more, the psychological attraction was immense, too. He fascinated me. All we knew was that we couldn't bear to be apart from the day we met. He proposed 13 days later. We've been married for 28 years. It hasn't always been easy despite that magical start but our love keeps us together.
Naturally physical attraction and chemistry played a major role. However that is common with just about anyone you decide to date or have a relationship with. I believe it's the level of comfort that comes with having so many things in common, shared values & desires, and similar sense of humor that elevated things to a new level. It didn't hurt that each of our families instantly approved of us as a couple.
However I do believe age, wisdom, maturity, and life experience plays a key role in leaning how to select the (right) mate for oneself. If I had met my wife when I was age 22 it's unlikely I would have viewed her as being "the one". Some of us need a few storms in our lives to appreciate the sun.
I've often said: "The majority of us fail our way to success when it comes to relationships". If we didn't I suppose most of us would be married to our Jr. high school sweethearts! :-)
Her simplicity and honesty just bowled me over!
I am so glad and thankful that till date these qualities are inseparable part of her personality.
His charm, his sense of humour, his intelligence and his respectful behaviour towards my parents and of course his overall personality.
His character, stability, intellect, personality, looks, and goals in life that matched mine.
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