What did you find attractive about your spouse?

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   DDEposted 10 years ago

   What did you find attractive about your spouse?
   
   The person you chose to marry must have  then had something that made you pop the question  what made you go that far?

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   Lori P.posted 10 years ago

   When we met, we both felt an irresistible attraction that was cosmic. It was spiritual and physical. As we got to know each other more and more, the psychological attraction was immense, too. He fascinated me. All we knew was that we couldn't bear to be apart from the day we met. He proposed 13 days later. We've been married for 28 years. It hasn't always been easy despite that magical start but our love keeps us together.

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      DDEposted 10 years agoin reply to this

      Sounds like all went well to be married for so many years thanky ou for taking part in this question. Well said.

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   dashingscorpioposted 10 years ago

   Naturally physical attraction and chemistry played a major role. However that is common with just about anyone you decide to date or have a relationship with. I believe it's the level of comfort that comes with having so many things in common, shared values & desires,  and similar sense of humor that elevated things to a new level. It didn't hurt that each of our families instantly approved of us as a couple.
   However I do believe age, wisdom, maturity, and life experience plays a key role in leaning how to select the (right) mate for oneself. If I had met my wife when I was age 22 it's unlikely I would have viewed her as being "the one". Some of us need a few storms in our lives to appreciate the sun.
   I've often said: "The majority of us fail our way to success when it comes to relationships". If we didn't I suppose most of us would be married to our Jr. high school sweethearts! :-)

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      DDEposted 10 years agoin reply to this

      You are right  about the way one can be attracted to another well said and thought of about his question. thank you.

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   Sundeep Katariaposted 10 years ago

   Her simplicity and honesty just bowled me over!
   
   I am so glad and thankful that till date these qualities are inseparable part of her personality.

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      DDEposted 10 years agoin reply to this

      Great  think about simplicity and honesty bringing two people together good luck!

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   ChitrangadaSharanposted 10 years ago

   His charm, his sense of humour, his intelligence and his respectful behaviour towards my parents and of course his overall personality.

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      DDEposted 10 years agoin reply to this

      Thank you for the helpful answer.

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   MargaritaEdenposted 10 years ago

   His character, stability, intellect, personality, looks, and goals in life that matched mine.

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      DDEposted 10 years agoin reply to this

      Nicely put together thank you

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