My high school sweetheart, fiancee, girlfriend, lover and friend.
My ex boyfriend of 4 years on and off, and I was I'd say 16
Surprisingly, the first person to break my heart was a girl when I was 16. Her name was Cherese and we were roommates for about a year. We weren't allowed to speak to boys so we decided to go out with each other. I don't think we were actually sexually attracted to each other, although we did kiss and do a few things... but it was mostly out of loneliness. We did love each other though. But as soon as we were both released, she ran off and had a baby with her ex-boyfriend. We tried talking on the phone a few times, but things were never the same between us after that. I still love her. Even though I consider myself 100% straight, Cherese is probably the one exception to that rule. I think I read somewhere that it's normal for girls to fall in love with their best friend, but I don't know. Maybe I'm just weird
I know what you means Steven; she broke my heart right afterward.
really? you knew her too? wow, it's a small world. did you used to live in texas or something if you don't mind me asking.
i see. not to sound too overly skeptical though, as im sure your telling the truth. however, what makes you think we're talking about the same girl though? i mean how would know unless she told you about me or something.
well that explains it. i like your style niteriter, but just a word of advice for ya from the immortal words of Rodney Dangerfield. "You don't lie to me. You lie to girls." (joke)
I'm not going to give a name, but I had a good friend in high school who went to the same college as I did. I attempted to turn our friendship into something more ... and he ended up turning into a big jerk.
His name was Angelo and I was about 13-14 years old. Both the first and last time. Then I became the heartbreaker
Lori van Buskirk when I was 14. I am still licking my wounds 35 years later !
Not remember yet due to memory loss problems.
But I remember one a DSA teacher of my college who made me to cry (not in front of anyone)without my mistake & I think she will be feeling very sorry for that mistake that he did with me.
my ex husband, he left me, he was my first bf too,,
there is always next...
I had BHS -- broken heart syndrome
ENS -- empty nest syndrome
EBS -- empty bed syndrome
I was not alone all along I have my children....
but I managed like all of you,
and I said NEXT TIME IT WILL BE FOREVER,,,, DREAMER>>.
I have to agree with you here. We're told our entire lives that parents HAVE to love their children, and people tend to believe it wholeheartedly until they're proven wrong. I know I did. There is no one who could ever hurt you quite as much as that first betrayal from family...after that you learn not to let anyone close enough to inflict that much hurt.
Zwade I ell in love...haven't been in love since, I fell for him HARD from 14-16. We were really good friends he knew, told everyone he felt the same but then told others he felt different...it was too many games with him.
His best friend had a thing for me as well but I felt nothing for him.
I've had crushes since but nothing like him.
My oldest daughter father, he meant the world to me. I thought we were going to married but that did not happen so now he is trying to make a comeback, but I have a shield up now.
My very first serious boyfriend... He broke my heart when he was killed in an accident. We were at an end of school party and he went as a passenger in a car to pick up 2 other party goers. The driver lost control and hit a lamp post.
I didn't find out till the next morning, I thought something else had happened.
It's been 33 years and I have moved on BUT never forget.
My Mom when i was 12 or 13...
she told me that the man I thought was my father was actually my adoptive father, and that my biological father had wanted nothing to do with me since birth.
the heartbreak was that she had lied to me for my whole life, and I lost the ability to trust and developed the habit of never accepting 'truths' at face value. (just because someone says it is true doesn't make it true....find out for yourself and make up your own mind.)
there have been many other women since then...but she was the first.
At first yes, I live by the philosophy that trust is earned.
I don't have a problem until you screw up once. Let me catch you in one lie, and were done. But I am (at first) always looking for the lie.
I'm still scratching my head on this one; too early in the morning I guess. Could you clarify?
replace the word women in your question with the word men...that help?
That's a very nice story, Alessia. Now my heart is broken again.
Every person I loved gave me a first disappointment. It waas me in class one when I could not hold myself from no 2. I had to wear my principal's son's cloth. That one also haunts me till date.
My first girlfriend she was wearing two vests............
Which time are we talking about? Thank god it eventually heals, the pain of a broken heart is shattering.
my first love,her name is Tina.
cant happen again cause am mature now
I actually have a Dear John letter that I got from a former partner....should I publish to show how cruel women can be....
I've always believed that women are capable of infinitely more cruelty than men...men tend to get upset, they lash out, and then they're done. A woman might act just fine if you hurt her, but she'll remember...for years, if need be...until the time is right for the perfect revenge.
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