So we've answered the mens question let them answer ours..
You asked what makes a woman sexy....not what is an attractive woman.
Tantrum has it right...sexy stirs the testosterone in mens private parts!
Sexy to me is just legal, full, non jiggling ass, muscular legs no hips, tiny waist, small, firm boobs...I love "puffies!" Broad shoulders, big brown eyes, straight white teeth, full lips....and African American!
CAn't beat that combo!
p/s about 5'2"s and 100 lbs
well the qualities i look for a woman are fairly simple. she has to be kind, understanding, sweet, humorous, and pretty. at least that's what i look for in a girl. as far as looks go, im not really that picky as i usually choose to believe that its more about how beautiful a girl is on the inside that counts more.
Sorry, I'd love to participate, but there are simply too many things I love about women.
I could talk this topic all day and choose not to though.
I've two poems dedicated to beauty and one for women. My stance is that I am a sexist male with an extreme bias of loving women.
There are plenty of things that I wouldn't want to see, that list is shorter.
Oily hair, too mascara, extreme facial piercings, too many tattooes, unhealthy, disrespectful, dishonest, low self-esteem and too much ego.
Other than that. No problem.
An attractive woman is her genuine loving kindness. She must be full of charity and persistent in understanding and uplifting others without guile or pride. These are qualities that are key. They are key because, when recognized, they transcend the superficial beauty and give one a peak at the greater inner beauty that we all truly desire.
As a gay man, this is a challenge lol but i like challenges and to me a woman is sexy by her kind nature and her warm loving care and compassion. Her looks are nothing because its not whats outside, but whats inside that counts
I think you guys are joking ! LOL
A sexy woman is someone that makes both your heads blast ! That's all there is to sexiness.
What you're describing are virtues. Virtues don't have sex.
You wimin folk really shouldn't expect any serious responses about 'personality' and such. No matter what BS some may post here, we don't work that way (any lies posted here are intended to make the man look sensitive, and that is only done to get sex). What makes a woman sexy is very straight forward for us.
However you can't deny that sometimes all it takes to decide a sexy woman from one not so sexy can be as simple as her entrance.. The way she holds herself as she walks defined by her confidence or the grace portrayed by the movement in her dance.. So it's more than just big tits and a nice ass that makes you want her.
Medium sized brea$ts. Nice legs. Long hair. Tight stomach Nice tight a$$. Beautiful smile. Shaved p%@*y!
She does! I have pictures! Um..... No I don't!
I really do! ;P
But I'm not !
anyway, I'm very happy with myself !
Only closet pedophiles are concerned with a shaved whahooo
Looking for similarities huh? Looking in the wrong place. Sorry for the situation your in.
I'm 5/7, Hokey. That's not bad, right? Although may be 6/7, I just can't seem to see my a$$ so you'll have to tell me how tight it is some time
What men think is sexy on a woman is;
- A nice body/ decent face
- Intelligence that allows you to take her out in public to show off, without being embarrassed by nonsense she says without reason
- The willingness to clean up after you and prepare dinner without complaining about everything that you are not doing correct in this life or for her.
- And the moment you walk in the door she wants your pants off and to 'please you' however you want to be pleased
At least that is my perception of what men think is appealing and sexy on a woman... But I am a woman-I could be wrong?
haha, close enough Porter! Although, generalizing bites ya in the butt sometimes!
That's okay---I dont have much of an a** anyways-but my husband still thinks Im sexy---when I am not complaining about everything and anything I view as unimportant or wrong...LOL
Perhaps being a Geek-Dork-Nerd is a Sexy quality on some ladies... lol
Just kidding, loved your hub by the way. Very clever!
I think it's a sexy quality! Hell, that's my 'what makes a woman sexy' bit! If they are Geeky, Nerdy, and/or Dorky!
And thanks, Porter! Love your G-spot article as well.
...Hmm, if you cover "article as well" with one one of your hands, it could be taken way out of context!
I agree with the first two.. But 3 and 4..the 3 sounds too close to barefoot and pregnant for my taste and the last.. While pleasure is important men DO find it sexy to hear our pleasure, seem to get off knowing they've made us squirm. Definately a two way street.. I think that's the key that separates "men" and "boys".
Very true-men like to know THEY have done a GREAT job pleasing their ladies as well as wanting to be pleased themselves.
The cleaning up after them, and making them dinner is basically reverts back to them wanting to be cared for (you know-they want a wife that is their mother), cooking cleaning, rubbing their backs when they have a cold... Cause every guy I have ever met that has had a mother-always searches for a 'mother/nurturing' type personality when searching for a partner.
Im not saying this is every man---all guys are different. But in general I think every man wants a woman he can be proud of. What makes a man proud of his woman/ depends on the man...
Well as a woman I can't answer this question for sure...but I think when a woman knows she's sexy everyone around her knows it and admires her assets...ass,eyes,stomach,hips and all.and of course beauty is in the eye of the beholder...MEN you may have some of your standards to high or to low..I'm a mother of six and I don't have the perfect body but I know I'm a sexy woman just ask my sister Summer
.........of course she got her sexy looks from me ;0
Standards? Every man has them and there is no denying that. Some only need a women to breathe and others want more.
So, since you put it the way you have.....I find it difficult to understand why you would bring up standards being to high or to bring them lower.
How much lower than having one woman who is breathing? It's illegal to be with dead. Otherwise, I'm sure some people might be into that sort of thing. I like mine to have a pulse at least.
However, as I said before there are things I would rather a women didn't have. It was fewer than what I like most about them.
You left one out. She has to know when to shut up. I know I am not a man, but as women are dominating in a forum that asked men what is sexy, she isn't sexy if she is a harpy, unless you've got duct tape handy
What, no duct tape? Aw poor Cagsil. It's cheap, just buy American, okay?
Why use duct tape, when silk ties work so much better.
As long as it shuts her up... and you can kiss the silk, duct tape, not so tasty.
I wouldn't know. I never thought of trying it. I use silk ties because it causes no marks or hurt trying to take off. I have more respect for a woman than that.
Well you must have other ways of getting them to shut up...
Or you are good at warding off harpies.
I am old Cagsil. Harpies and whiners just grate on my nerves.
My last three guys to ask me out wanted me to "teach them how to be honest and open up and share their feelings," like I do...
I was doing all that to ward them off!
Probably because you had to teach them.
If you have to teach them, what's the sense.
It almost sounds as if they didn't know what it was? I mean, how mentally inept is that?
Unfortunately the last two had the audacity to approach me when I was laid up from being hit by a truck... Come on... How lame is that? No pun intended... Really.
I am between surgeries and these guys are asking me for my help. Whine whine whine.
You have it so together, I wish I was like you, just speaking my mind...
I was on MORPHINE! Of course I was speaking my mind.
Hey Faybe, You do not need to be like me. You need to be yourself and some trying to be like others.
To me, you seem out spoken. You are all over the forums talking to everyone, on just about everything.
So, I do not see how different you and I are actually?
I guess the way I talk is what has everyone so surprised. I do not really know.
I was in another forum and a few people seem to be shocked at how I figured out what the thread piece was about, when everyone else was confused by it. Especially, since it was broken English with errors.
Everyone sees things differently because of many reasons. For some, their view is skewed by outside influences and others choose to be blindly ignorant.
I pay attention and learn what I can while my eyes are open.
Ah but you see, here in cyberspace I am not what I am in the real world. no one can see me. I do not have to deal with physical judgments. In the real world people do not approach me, I have a barrier wall built around myself. I reach out and help others, I do not let others help me because then they want something for their help.
I may sound jaded, even mean. But if you are kind to me that does not mean I have to kiss you or sleep with you. It has been that way all of my life, someone is kind and then I owe them my body. I am kind with no such requirements. I am crippled because I do not know how to fight this...garbage that permeates our society. Kindness should be freely given, not become a debt that I owe.
Well, if it matters....I do want something from you. I just want you to be you and a smile. That's all.
However, I've seen what you seen most of your life, as well, in mine, and can relate. But, I no longer see those people or let them have any affect on me, because I am me.
I don't control what they say or think, so I don't want them to do the same to me. I do plenty of things on a daily basis, without ever asking anything in return. I do much of it, just because I was asked to.
I don't ask people for anything which I cannot provide for myself. Therefore, I've no reason for someone to try and leverage anything against me.
That's how I look at it. Most people will tell you their intentions, but you have to be paying attention to all the signs to catch them.
Thanks Cagsil. I have to go see if my E-cigs came in the mail. I don't want to buy any more of the real ones.
I am sorry I got all trippy. I thought I was the only one, or that it was women, maybe. Never knew it happened to guys too. That's a comfort I guess.
I hate being unable to just go out to a bar and have a drink. I went to a wedding and didn't have a drink till I was leaving, because we all know what happens at weddings. I was terrified to have any fun. Maybe I do need medication.
silk is very effective.. and it's not always the woman who needs to shut up.
Men love a friendly smile! They love a woman who compliments THEM! ..and well-endowned, with an hour glass figure!
Ladies its never what you do or say its how you do it or how you say it and that is all that ever gets me to notice!
There are an awful lot of female opinions on this thread.
Cags that's the second time I've heard you refer to yourself as sexist. Never saw a hint of it myself.
Really, come here and you could find out.
But, then again, I am 41 years old and haven't had a serious relationship since 2004, so....who knows?
I do know one thing though....anything is possible.
With that said...I love women so much, I cannot stand men. I tolerate them.
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