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Ladies, this is the forum for you.

  1. Stevennix2001 profile image91
    Stevennix2001posted 7 years ago

    Ladies, we all know men can be sexual deviants at times, so I'd like to ask you all to name everything you can think of to recommend to all men that you would like to see changed.  big_smile

    1. prettydarkhorse profile image65
      prettydarkhorseposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      you dont change a man, they are born that way HEHE

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      Brenda Durhamposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      They should stop joking about their "sexual deviance" and control it.
      They should take responsibility for their actions.
      They should BE the proper leader of their households and in government!   So many are NOT, that both sexes are led astray, and many women end up being the head of the household when it should be the man.


      On a lighter note, if this thread is meant to be more light-hearted........
      ---they should wear a button-recording that prompts them to lift the toilet seat before they take a leak.  haha sure enough it MIGHT work!  Although the odds aren't favorable....

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    pinkyleeposted 7 years ago

    haha this could get us women in trouble lol

  3. tantrum profile image60
    tantrumposted 7 years ago

    I wouldn't like to change any man . The ones that have been by my side, I choose them because I like how they were !

    Hi Steve !!

    Where's Beth ? big_smile

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      pinkyleeposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      can i second that?

      1. tantrum profile image60
        tantrumposted 7 years agoin reply to this

        Hi pinky !
        Be my guest ! lol

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          pinkyleeposted 7 years agoin reply to this

          cool cool lol

    2. Stevennix2001 profile image91
      Stevennix2001posted 7 years agoin reply to this

      oh she's around.  wink lol

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        pinkyleeposted 7 years agoin reply to this

        hey steven

        1. Stevennix2001 profile image91
          Stevennix2001posted 7 years agoin reply to this

          hi, ladies,  hows it going?

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    Lecieposted 7 years ago

    i agree with tantrum.
    you never pick a guy and say now how do i change him. you look for the one that matches your every need to start with.

    1. tantrum profile image60
      tantrumposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      Just so ! big_smile

    2. H.C Porter profile image79
      H.C Porterposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      I have never met one of those guys-Do they exist?
      My husband does a whole lot that irritates me, but he also does a whole lot to help me improve myself. I dont believe there is a guy out there that can meet your every expectation- I think there are some that compliment your personality better than others. I need the differences my husband possesses, but some silly things, I would prefer he would change to make daily life more productive.

  5. mega1 profile image81
    mega1posted 7 years ago

    I won't be coy like all the rest of you and pretend that I only associate with the men who are perfect for me and I will just dive right in (as usual) - So, generally speaking, I would like to see men do more housework (now that women also work outside the home more often than not) is that too much to ask?

    1. Lupin Kasumi profile image59
      Lupin Kasumiposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      I don't think it's too much to ask that a guy does more housework. Being a guy I take care of myself. I clean up after myself and wash my own clothes.  I don't see why other guys don't do the same. It would help alot if everyone just cleaned up after themselves.

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        klarawieckposted 7 years agoin reply to this

        Marry me? lol

        1. Cagsil profile image60
          Cagsilposted 7 years agoin reply to this

          Proposing to someone, while you're being married....

          WOW Klara! Never thought I would see that from you. tongue

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            klarawieckposted 7 years agoin reply to this

            I propose to Greek One and Beelzedad all the time! Might as well! lol lol lol

            1. Cagsil profile image60
              Cagsilposted 7 years agoin reply to this

              Oh okay. Good to know. lol

  6. H.C Porter profile image79
    H.C Porterposted 7 years ago

    Wow...there is so much that I will sound like a bitter wench if I list them all, lol...
    If you dont want to be spoken down to-why would you speak down to a woman you say you love?
    If you want to be a real man, admit when you have been a bad one-and say you are sorry.
    Loving someone is not the same thing as controlling them.
    If you see the hamper, and you have the dirty clothes in your hand-PUT THEM IN THE DAMN HAMPER, rather than on the floor.
    Don't turn off the light because you are ready for bed if the other person is still doing something.
    Dont say I something like "I made you breakfast this morning" when in fact you made yourself breakfast and made extra for her.
    If you are going to be late call, and let her know you are running behind-dont have a new excuse for not calling and being late every night of the week---just tell her, I dont feel like coming home.
    Dont lie, Dont cheat, Dont Steal...if you dont want your children to learn and imply those lessons to their lives.
    Okay-that is enough... I sound like I think men cant do a thing right, which is not true- Woman are not perfect either- I mean hell, I always leave the tops off of everything...LOL  big_smile

    1. Disturbia profile image60
      Disturbiaposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      I'm right there with you, HC and no, you are most certainly not a bitter wench.  I'd like to change all of the above and a whole lot more...

  7. blondepoet profile image75
    blondepoetposted 7 years ago

    I love men. As long as they keep giving us sweet loving it is all good with me.

  8. AEvans profile image79
    AEvansposted 7 years ago

    mmmmmmm..... I can only speak for my husband and there isn't a single thing I would change. I love and admire him for any imperfections he may have. smile

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    pinkyleeposted 7 years ago

    i actually do have one or two i would change lol


    like when a man stands around looking lost because he cant find what hes looking for so he just stands there ... ask for it if you cant find it on the same note when a man knows where something is but looks everywhere but that place lol

    1. elayne001 profile image57
      elayne001posted 7 years agoin reply to this

      I've witnessed this one many times - don't make them really look - too much effort. Pretty funny actually.

  10. Beth100 profile image76
    Beth100posted 7 years ago

    lol  Ah Steven, you're causing trouble again!  But where are you????  It's no fun without ya here!  smile

    1. Stevennix2001 profile image91
      Stevennix2001posted 7 years agoin reply to this

      lol.  maybe...maybe not.  thanks for noticing.  it's certainly isn't the same when your not around either. wink lol

  11. Beth100 profile image76
    Beth100posted 7 years ago

    Ask for directions...nothing worse than driving in circles for hours pretending you know where you're going when us girls know that you're lost!!!!  lol

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      pinkyleeposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      lmao thats a good one for sure or they need a gps system lol

    2. earnestshub profile image89
      earnestshubposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      Oooooooh! That one is way to close to the truth! That really hurt! Ouch! smile

      1. Beth100 profile image76
        Beth100posted 7 years agoin reply to this

        But for you Earnest, I'll let you drive in circles all day if that makes you happy.  I won't say a peep about it (nor will I tell)  big_smile

        1. srwnson profile image58
          srwnsonposted 7 years agoin reply to this

          "I...never mind."  Sam turns and walks out of the room.

          1. Beth100 profile image76
            Beth100posted 7 years agoin reply to this

            Oh, come back Sam!!! I'll let you off the hook too, afterall, you accepted my blinky thingy!  big_smile

        2. earnestshub profile image89
          earnestshubposted 7 years agoin reply to this

          Unfortunately I will do precisely that! Drive in circles all day! When my Nat Sav is not working I can't leave the driveway! lol lol

    3. Paradise7 profile image84
      Paradise7posted 7 years agoin reply to this

      The man's ego is too big to fit thru the car window to ask for directions!  Ego, ego ego... men, men, men...

      1. Beth100 profile image76
        Beth100posted 7 years agoin reply to this

        Maybe a larger map and stronger reading glasses would help!  lol  lol

        (sorry, Earnest, couldn't help that one!!!)

        1. earnestshub profile image89
          earnestshubposted 7 years agoin reply to this

          I reckon a smaller ego might help! lol But over and above that, I have no sense of direction at all it seems. smile

          1. Paradise7 profile image84
            Paradise7posted 7 years agoin reply to this

            YOWZA!

            1. earnestshub profile image89
              earnestshubposted 7 years agoin reply to this

              Yep! I got lost coming home from the local store the other day and wound up on a freeway I couldn't leave for 10 miles!
              Bloody hell! I only went out for a packet of cigarette papers!

          2. Disturbia profile image60
            Disturbiaposted 7 years agoin reply to this

            We have GPS now, does anybody ask for directions anymore?

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    lynnechandlerposted 7 years ago

    I just need a man, lol

    1. Paradise7 profile image84
      Paradise7posted 7 years agoin reply to this

      Honey, there's millions of them....dime a dozen, all watching porn channels on the net right now, sure you want one?

      1. earnestshub profile image89
        earnestshubposted 7 years agoin reply to this

        Look, we are smelly odd creatures, and we scratch our balls like baboons but ya gotta luv us! smile

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    lynnechandlerposted 7 years ago

    Just for a little while you know like tied up for just a day or two, lol

    1. srwnson profile image58
      srwnsonposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      You girls are just plain bad!!!!

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    lynnechandlerposted 7 years ago

    Nope, just honest, lol

  15. GoGranny profile image75
    GoGrannyposted 7 years ago

    I would like (for those men that this applies to) for them to learn to be satisfied when they have women who love them and do their best to be good partners. But these guys cheat or take advantage and just can't be happy no matter what. Then when they get caught or the women decide to leave they end up boo hoo-ing and begging for forgiveness to get the women back...because they realize that their woman is the real deal!

  16. calicoaster profile image79
    calicoasterposted 7 years ago

    I feel, men should be more honest and should keep their promises. Also, they should fix their problem of being late everytime they have to go for an informal meeting or date!! neutral

  17. Stevennix2001 profile image91
    Stevennix2001posted 7 years ago

    wow, i would've thought this forum would've been busier than the guys thread.  i guess i was wrong.  lol.

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      pinkyleeposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      haha we are more curious what you men think about us i do believe lol

      1. Stevennix2001 profile image91
        Stevennix2001posted 7 years agoin reply to this

        lol.  i do believe you are right!  lol.

    2. Beth100 profile image76
      Beth100posted 7 years agoin reply to this

      Or perhaps us girls have accepted the fact that you guys can't be fixed.  lol

      1. tantrum profile image60
        tantrumposted 7 years agoin reply to this

        lol lol lol lol lol

    3. ThoughtfulSpot profile image71
      ThoughtfulSpotposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      Nope... it'll be busier over there because, as you've surely noticed, we won't be content to stay on our own thread! lol

  18. Beth100 profile image76
    Beth100posted 7 years ago

    OH, that didn't come out right either.  "fixed" as in guys are just the way they are:  imperfect and us girls have the ability to accept that.  big_smile

    1. srwnson profile image58
      srwnsonposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      Thanks for clearing that up!

      1. Beth100 profile image76
        Beth100posted 7 years agoin reply to this

        lol  Not here to cause bodily harm!!!  lol

    2. Stevennix2001 profile image91
      Stevennix2001posted 7 years agoin reply to this

      lol yeah, that's true. of course we all can't be perfect like you ladies out there. wink lol

  19. Stevennix2001 profile image91
    Stevennix2001posted 7 years ago

    come on any other ladies care to comment.  big_smile

  20. donotfear profile image88
    donotfearposted 7 years ago

    You've asked for more comments, so here you go.
    Women can be sexual deviants just like men...right?  Remember Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus?  Well, I have a little saying I picked up from another male hubber one time:
    Men are from Mars
    Women are from Venus
    Women think with their emotions
    Men think with their peni--!!
    Now, that being said, it's the way we are wired. Men to pro-create, women to produce. If women are supplied the emotional love needed, men will get all the sex they want. Vice versa....we give men all the sex they want, they are happier and more willing to give us the emotional fuzzies we desire.

    Yeah, yeah...I know, it's not always balanced, but that's the way we are made.

    1. srwnson profile image58
      srwnsonposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      I try not to think with my peni- but sometimes they have a mind of their own. You girls need to understand this fact.

      1. Beth100 profile image76
        Beth100posted 7 years agoin reply to this

        ahhh, two heads better than one?  lol

  21. donotfear profile image88
    donotfearposted 7 years ago

    Personally, I would prefer more 'words of affirmation' from my mate. When I recieve it, I want to give more.

  22. Stevennix2001 profile image91
    Stevennix2001posted 7 years ago

    very good answers. thanks donotfear for sharing. big_smile

  23. Stevennix2001 profile image91
    Stevennix2001posted 7 years ago

    i guess we're all out of replies. big_smile

    1. Beth100 profile image76
      Beth100posted 7 years agoin reply to this

      a woman without words??  are you kidding?!?  lol  I'm busting myself laughing!!!

      We're just hijacking your other thread!  heh heh heh

      1. Stevennix2001 profile image91
        Stevennix2001posted 7 years agoin reply to this

        lol.  so i noticed.  big_smile lol.

  24. Stevennix2001 profile image91
    Stevennix2001posted 7 years ago

    i guess too many women want to see what the guys say in the other thread. lol

  25. Stevennix2001 profile image91
    Stevennix2001posted 7 years ago

    i guess they all left me.....lol

  26. Beth100 profile image76
    Beth100posted 7 years ago

    we're out shopping still....and I'm fixing my car.  lol

    1. Stevennix2001 profile image91
      Stevennix2001posted 7 years agoin reply to this

      need a hand me lady? wink

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    Chicka-Dposted 7 years ago

    I am so far from perfect I wouldn't dare answer this.

  28. donotfear profile image88
    donotfearposted 7 years ago

    I'd like to hear more 'words of affirmation'.

  29. Greek One profile image75
    Greek Oneposted 7 years ago

    This is the BEST Forum topic on PMS I have EVER come across!!

    http://images.paraorkut.com/img/funnypics/images/p/pms_lion-11961.jpg

  30. Ron Montgomery profile image59
    Ron Montgomeryposted 7 years ago

    http://naturesgraffiti.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/01/dont-piss-on-the-seat.jpg

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      Brenda Durhamposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      Drat.
      LOL

      I have GOT to learn how to post pix in threads....

    2. mythbuster profile image82
      mythbusterposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      Ah... I enjoyed the cartoon, especially the book by Ann Coulter.

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    Brenda Durhamposted 7 years ago

    And Ron------unless you're a lady you're not supposed to BE in this thread ya know!

    haha kidding.

    1. Ron Montgomery profile image59
      Ron Montgomeryposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      I am a former lady, so I just decided to come on in.

      To post pix, find one online that you like and copy (right click) the address of the picture from your browser's bar.

      Type and paste the address (right click) you copied then

      For instance, ronisapervert.com/photo/pig.017

      would show a picture of me down on the farm.

      PS this is not an actual link, but once my website is up and running the picture will post.

      1. Greek One profile image75
        Greek Oneposted 7 years agoin reply to this

        Ronda... is that really you, babe?

        I thought it might be!!!

        How have you been, sugar?

        xoxoxo

        1. Ron Montgomery profile image59
          Ron Montgomeryposted 7 years agoin reply to this

          Oh....

          Were we supposed to be keeping things on the down-low?

          My Bad

  32. profile image0
    Crazdwriterposted 7 years ago

    Change a man? asking for directions would be nice...and maybe having them think a little bit more than they do lol but other than that I love my man the way he is big_smile

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    Brenda Durhamposted 7 years ago

    Thanks.

  34. profile image0
    Brenda Durhamposted 7 years ago

    errrr... thanks for the info anyway.
    Your link didn't work.  Guess that's actually a GOOD thing....

  35. the pink umbrella profile image81
    the pink umbrellaposted 7 years ago

    i say stop being so defensive men! If we catch you in a lie, admit it. It we say "i asked you ten times, dont leave your dirty clothes on the bathroom floor" dont tell us you were just about to pick them up when you never get around to it any other day. Seriously, know when to admit defeat. dont go to the drive through before calling and asking us if maybe were hungry. Oh, and stop drinking out of shit in the fridge. We kiss you, yes, but we dont want your gingervitis in the milk. We dont want food particles on the openings of soda bottles. its gross. When you shave, wipe those little hairs off of the sink. Dont yell at us for waking you when you snore. Stop shoving your socks in the couch. If you make a mess in the kitchen...clean it. ugh i could go on forever.

  36. Diane Inside profile image81
    Diane Insideposted 7 years ago

    Just open up tell us what your really thinking, not what you think we want to hear. We don't like guessing games. And why lie about minor things. It just pointless really. When you do this it makes it hard to believe you about the important stuff. I mean really did'nt yout mom teach you anything.

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    sherrilynn123posted 7 years ago

    I would ask that he stop changing.. and give me time to catch up.

  38. xixi12 profile image72
    xixi12posted 7 years ago

    I really won't know what to change, because given the chance, i will change EVERYTHING. Men are such babies only you can't scold them like you would a child

 
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