Several times I did a lot to stop it, but was not able to reach state when this person will become nothing for me. Year after year I love him even stronger. Well...we are best friends...and never had sex.
Well feelings are natural for anybody and cannot be controlled. Atleast your lover is your best friend.
Also, Being a boy, i can tell, i will love a girl more if i had sex with her.
well i think its normal...dont worry you are not nuts...
You should have told him your feelings nine years ago.
Sometimes I understand it, sometimes I thought that I`m crazy, but there are time when I think - I`m blessed.
I really want to hear more what people think, because I feel lost...I do not understand myself. This is not normal, I think, for person at 36.
....but not good for person with a quite life experience...
i am still pretty young but Ive learned that there is always a person that we yearn for and as head over heels for that person you are there is a reason why they don't feel the same way. Like children they are our safety blanket something that is warm and comfortable and puts us at ease but eventually we outgrow that blanket and can stand on our own without it and the blanket becomes a found memory. you arent nuts and maybe one day youll get over this guy or maybe he'll realize that the feelings are mutual. but until then just be happy with where you are in life if you are happy then great things will happen for you.
I don't think it's normal. You sacrifice your own life, best years. You give them to someone who does not even intend to give something back, you don't have a relationship here.
I guess it really hurts to let it al go, but... what would you think of your life when you're 60+?
o my ..... hard isnt it to walk away when your not getting what you want....but yes sweet u are mad as you deserve to be adored
Get over it, there is no point in digging what you lost. You're not nuts, it's just that things didn't work out in this relationship and you didn't paid attention to it as well.
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