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Forty and Twenty?

  1. freedomringz profile image56
    freedomringzposted 7 years ago

    "Should a 40 year old female
    take her chances on a firey
    hot 20 year old?" "What's the
    biggest risks"

    1. prettydarkhorse profile image64
      prettydarkhorseposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      she might not cope up with the younger man, she needs more vitamins and red bull for women

    2. Bikash jha profile image54
      Bikash jhaposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      guys like elder women, there is no problem mam

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      Contriceposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      Sure if you're just looking to have a good time.  I wouldn't make any long term plans.  (The biggest risk...umm) There's alot of stuff out there, don't forget to use protection. big_smile

  2. Ladybird33 profile image61
    Ladybird33posted 7 years ago

    If you are just having fun and not committed to another (and he isn't), heck yeah!  Have fun!  Risks:  use protection smile

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    Kathryn LJposted 7 years ago

    Well one risk is that you've already 'done' his dad.  More likely though, is the danger that you will have absolutely nothing to talk about. You can combat this by making it a rule that sex is fine but no post coital chat.  That way, he will never make you feel old and you will never make him feel like a kid.  Unless of course this is both what your after, cause it takes all sorts after all.

    1. SomewayOuttaHere profile image60
      SomewayOuttaHereposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      LOL! ...re 'done his dad'....

    2. annaliza profile image61
      annalizaposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      20 and 40 having desires on same man- already done his dad...
      did u mean a mother in law and dont want to lose him to a beautiful 20 girl? then thr will be diff course of dangers i guess.

  4. thisisoli profile image73
    thisisoliposted 7 years ago

    I mistakenly took this post to be about 4:20, oops!

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    ralwusposted 7 years ago

    ya only live once. make it count.

  6. Misha profile image76
    Mishaposted 7 years ago

    It's just about right age difference smile

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    s52fpdoposted 7 years ago

    Oh my god, I can't believe I stumbled on this topic today...I just entered into a relationship I've been seeing on/off for about a month now who is about 20 years older than me (I am in my 20s he his 40s).  Normally I find it creepy when older guys get together with younger women but in our case it feels very natural, and he doesn't seem like he's in his 40s at all (mid to late 30s I originally put him).  However, I'm very hesitant to talk about him to anyone because I'm very aware of the stigma and unorthodoxy of our relationship, so I'll be very interested to follow this topic as it progresses.

  8. Kyriana profile image73
    Kyrianaposted 7 years ago

    The only real question is: Do you make each other happy? Nothing else really matters.
    If you truly care about each other, I don't see where you would have more problems than any other couple.

    Follow your heart and trust your instincts. Good luck to both of you.

  9. socialworker24 profile image58
    socialworker24posted 7 years ago

    i think that it will go one of three ways, one: the guy gets board with the 40 yr old, for whatever reasons.  this would be because they are at different points in thier life and want different things...(atleast hes legal)..two: the women reinvents herself because of the younger man, but realizes that he is just a fling and leaves the 20 something....three: its a pre-mid life crisis...and things will end badly..one way or another...

    my advice, even though the  something is smoking hott, thats prob all he is.  he doesnt know who he is or what he wants in life, besides plenty of sex...which might work for the yr old, but eventually sex cant hold up a relationship..there has to be sustance to them (both persons) for it to last.

    1. swapna123 profile image66
      swapna123posted 7 years agoin reply to this

      agree... don't make any long term plans. Besides, there are  lots of nice guys out there of ur age with the same maturity level as you..  why settle for a kid ?

  10. Jemmy-T profile image56
    Jemmy-Tposted 7 years ago

    Just go for it, and then share with us smile

  11. mega1 profile image78
    mega1posted 7 years ago

    a whole lot of things come to mind reading this thread:

    1) It is all so complicated?  single, consenting, adult, of similar minds, with similar values - what does it matter who is what age? 
    2) as long as no one is married to somebody else
    3) gee, it would be nice if there was a spellcheck tool in the forums!
    4) am I the only one who thinks freedomringz may be using the forums to look for a younger (or older) man smile  because - you go girl!  as long as you're not charging for it!  (joke joke joke!!)
    5) does anybody bother to read these huge posts I write all the time or am I lost in space?  probably should be.

    and I forgot all the other things already.  smile

    1. earnestshub profile image89
      earnestshubposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      You are in good form mega! smile