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What to do when your boyfriend is really rude and blames you?

  1. schoolgirlforreal profile image87
    schoolgirlforrealposted 7 years ago

    It's maddening, and you almost feel it is your fault.
    What do you do?

    1. Susana S profile image96
      Susana Sposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      Go out and have fun and let him stew in his own misery until he's ready to have a grown up discussion about the problem.

      1. saleheensblog profile image61
        saleheensblogposted 7 years agoin reply to this

        agreed

    2. shazwellyn profile image43
      shazwellynposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      It's called vasectomy|! lol lol

    3. Stories Inc. profile image75
      Stories Inc.posted 7 years agoin reply to this

      You dump him. End of discussion...
      Good luck

    4. Paul Wingert profile image76
      Paul Wingertposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      Dump him! It'll only get worse.

    5. tritrain profile image81
      tritrainposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      Talk to him about what is bothering you.  If he doesn't respond positively and act to change his behavior then move on.

      It's not worth it if your boyfriend is rude and blames you.

    6. Uninvited Writer profile image83
      Uninvited Writerposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      He would become an ex-boyfriend.

  2. CMHypno profile image97
    CMHypnoposted 7 years ago

    Upgrade to a politer more responsible model!

    1. travelespresso profile image80
      travelespressoposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      Agreed.  Get out quick!

  3. Pearldiver profile image81
    Pearldiverposted 7 years ago

    If Self Respect is important to you........... hmm

    Ditch The Bitch!

    1. Pearldiver profile image81
      Pearldiverposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      Correct!  smile

    2. schoolgirlforreal profile image87
      schoolgirlforrealposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      smile

  4. Beth100 profile image76
    Beth100posted 7 years ago

    First, end the relationship.

    Second, reflect whether this has happened in previous relationships with other partners or friends.

    If you see a pattern of behaviors, and you are the common factor, then you must look at yourself truthfully and decide what is causing their reactions.  A question to ask yourself:  what am I doing each time to receive this response.

    If you do not see a pattern, then you are not the cause of the problem and ending the relationship was a good decision. 

    From what I have seen of your writings in your hubs and in the forums, I would have to say that this is not your fault.  Let him go.  He has issues and must resolve them with his own will without hurting others around him.  You will feel all the better once you have cut the ties with him.  Be strong and take a step towards a future which holds a happier relationship for you.  Best of luck!

    1. Stevennix2001 profile image91
      Stevennix2001posted 7 years agoin reply to this

      yeah, i think after reading everyone's responses here, i would say that beth has offered the best advice thus far. it sounds like the guy is just a straight up jerk, to me, and if i were you, i'd dump him immediately.  sure, breaking up with someone is never easy, but it'll only get harder the longer you wait though...

  5. profile image46
    sd98posted 7 years ago

    Know it will only get worse...trust me!

  6. Anna Evanswood profile image79
    Anna Evanswoodposted 7 years ago

    Get a new one... no one deserves being treated like that!!

  7. KCC Big Country profile image89
    KCC Big Countryposted 7 years ago

    Life is too short to waste your time with someone like that.  Move on.  NEXT!

 
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