Do you think couples should stay together if they are 20 years apart?

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   HattieMattieMaeposted 13 years ago

   Where do you draw the line in relationships. Is it healthy to stay together when you are so far apart in age?

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      IntimatEvolutionposted 13 years agoin reply to this

      Of course it is.  I cannot imagine how anyone could make a logical argument against it.

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      recommend1posted 13 years agoin reply to this

      I seem to recall a similar thread like this some time ago - why do you think there is an issue, what has happened to you to make you think there is a problem ?

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         HattieMattieMaeposted 13 years agoin reply to this

         hmm, well just a mystery how many relationships really succeed, and what society sees as acceptable, or not acceptable. Just learning. I don't think I posted this thread before. But maybe I did, and forgot! lol I don't know! lol

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      Stevennix2001posted 13 years agoin reply to this

      It depends on the couple.  For some, twenty years might be too big of an age gap to overcome.  Whereas others, it might be just right because the younger of the two might be too mature for their age, and probably feel more drawn to more older and civilized people.  Plus, you know what they say about experience.... 

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      drdspervezposted 12 years agoin reply to this

      It depends upon the understanding and their IQ levels. sometimes the age really does not mater if you find happiness in each other's company. 
      
                                                     DR.DURRESHAHWAR PERVEZ

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   Sherlock221bposted 13 years ago

   I know someone who has got married to his partner of many years.  They are a gay couple, and there is 30 years difference in age between them, yet they are one of the happiest couples I know of.

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   Cagsilposted 13 years ago

   If the relationship adds value to their life, then I don't see any problem with it.

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   Ohmaposted 13 years ago

   My Husband is 18 Years my senior. We have been marries for over 30 Years. We have 2 children and 9 grand children andI cannot imagine my life with out him in it.

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   timonwellerposted 13 years ago

   Up to the couple if you ask me, not really my business lol.

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   LADYGIRLposted 13 years ago

   Its depend if the two party are mature enough to accept the age in difference.  Another thing is how long has the youngest one been out in the world? These are the question the older one has to ask self and the sufficent other. Because if she/he haven't been out there and tasted the fruit. And she/he is just out there and blind that when you need to evaulate the situation.

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