why do some men/women still cheats even when they are happily married?

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  1. pharuk temmy t profile image37
    pharuk temmy tposted 6 years ago

    If there a particular or concrete excuse that could be accepted from anyone who cheats after being married?

    1. Disturbia profile image61
      Disturbiaposted 6 years agoin reply to this

      That's an excellent question.  I sincerely feel that people "cheat" because monogamy is just simply not a natural state.

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        setarehposted 6 years agoin reply to this

        I think it's possible but it's just a difficult concept to grasp - that one person can be all that another needs.

    2. Jynzly profile image70
      Jynzlyposted 6 years agoin reply to this

      I hate cheaters...cheaters are mentally sick...they should go to jail!!

  2. Felixedet2000 profile image57
    Felixedet2000posted 6 years ago

    It is simply by owning up to it. There is no explanation for evil.

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      injurylawfirmsposted 6 years agoin reply to this

      Lack of control over themselves

  3. pharuk temmy t profile image37
    pharuk temmy tposted 6 years ago

    Injurylawfirms, I agree with what you said. Lack of control over there feelings.

  4. pharuk temmy t profile image37
    pharuk temmy tposted 6 years ago

    Hi disturbia I  totally agree with you. Thanks for your contribution. Keep following the forum while other hubbers make their contributions.

  5. pharuk temmy t profile image37
    pharuk temmy tposted 6 years ago

    Thank you for your comment felix

  6. LeanMan profile image87
    LeanManposted 6 years ago

    Would a fisherman stop fishing after he caught his first fish or a hunter put up his rifle after he bagged his first piece of game? Most of us guys enjoy the hunt, although sometimes we are disappointed when we get the prey and realise that actually we should have just stayed with what we already had captured back home!

  7. pharuk temmy t profile image37
    pharuk temmy tposted 6 years ago

    You are right leanman, regrets follows the action most times. Thank you for contributing

  8. Cardisa profile image91
    Cardisaposted 6 years ago

    If they were completely happy they would not cheat. There must be something else they need or want why they do it, so in my book "happily married" and "cheating" just don't go together.

    1. sassysexybossy profile image60
      sassysexybossyposted 6 years agoin reply to this

      I think that some people get married for the wrong reasons.

    2. Marisa Wright profile image96
      Marisa Wrightposted 6 years agoin reply to this

      ditto

  9. blackdolls profile image58
    blackdollsposted 6 years ago

    Completely agree with Cardisa - something must be missing.

  10. pharuk temmy t profile image37
    pharuk temmy tposted 6 years ago

    I see you again Jynzly, I so much appreciate your contribution.

    1. Jynzly profile image70
      Jynzlyposted 6 years agoin reply to this

      I am just expressing my true feelings.

  11. pharuk temmy t profile image37
    pharuk temmy tposted 6 years ago

    Cardisa, thanks for your contribution. I appreciate your comment.

  12. pharuk temmy t profile image37
    pharuk temmy tposted 6 years ago

    Sassy, thank your for contributing.

  13. pharuk temmy t profile image37
    pharuk temmy tposted 6 years ago

    I appreciate your comment blackdoll

  14. pharuk temmy t profile image37
    pharuk temmy tposted 6 years ago

    Marisa what are you saying?I didn't understand your symbol there

  15. lovesexmoney profile image57
    lovesexmoneyposted 6 years ago

    I feel wives automatically create openings for mistresses. Humans are domesticated animals brainwashed/conditioned into strange unnatural behaviors that ultimately profit governments and religious institutions, pharmaceutical companies, therapists, counselors, home builders, craft stores, jewellers, attorneys, minivans, SUV's, toy stores, movie theaters, etc., etc. Most men and many, many women both cheat time and again...I think it is really a matter of opportunity really and coming clean about it. Women are hardwired to seek "better providing" mates (revenge sex) and men sexy, willing bed friends. Marriage feels to me like lots of power play while playing house and roof forever. I don't see the "love" in it. In many ways it feels as if we are still living in a Victorian Age but with the mainstream
    acceptance of porn and adult entertainment in a parallel realm as the norm. I don't know if this isn't true in parts of the world without vast media reach. Tribal societies have different ideals. Hmmmm.  Humans in the West would go far if they were  honest with themselves and each other.

  16. TinkerFairy profile image58
    TinkerFairyposted 6 years ago

    I think it's a matter of opinion. I believe in monogamy and am typically someone who would consider something more if I wasn't satisfied. However I am happy in the position I am in and would never risk losing it over other "relationships". I found the right balance; but it took years to find this person and never considered entering a marriage with someone who i knew I would eventually lose interest in. I think for each individual it takes someone out of this world to not only stay loyal but truly comitted mind, body and soul. I am filled with 1000 personalities so maybe that's why we're happy too haha! To each their own.

 
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