Dishonesty Within the Ranks of Christians

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  1. Cgenaea profile image60
    Cgenaeaposted 10 years ago

    PhoenixV
    Is there a desire to win souls in these conversations?
    I ask because it seems to me that I am viewed as pushing my view and/or proselytizing.
    It's not my purpose at all. I wonder if it is a goal for some of us. It is not apparent, truth is truth.
    I really cannot see any "urgency" or "goading" from you (which is-edit- *also, my style, in my opinion). But truth.
    I guess i do wonder if it SHOULD be my goal. Just wondering about your (and any one else's) thoughts about it.

  2. wckdstepmother30 profile image61
    wckdstepmother30posted 10 years ago

    Follow Christ, friend, not other imperfect Christians. We don't have it all figured out, but Thanks be to God, Jesus Christ is our intercessor and friend.

    1. oceansnsunsets profile image81
      oceansnsunsetsposted 10 years agoin reply to this

      Exactly, very wise words indeed.  Thank you!

  3. Sed-me profile image81
    Sed-meposted 10 years ago

    Holy cow! There are over 1200 replies on this sucker and it can't be more than a month old.
    Shows you what a good controversial title will do, eh?

  4. Cgenaea profile image60
    Cgenaeaposted 10 years ago

    Hey God!!! Get'cho self together!!!... etc.

    Not "straight" enough??? I think you DID get it.
    God CAN do whatever he wants, simply because he's more powerful; AND we just have to deal with it, as it is... without adding to or subtracting from...
    You got it!... you just don't want to... there IS a difference.
    You have shown yourself to be a GREAT decipherer. smile

    1. janesix profile image60
      janesixposted 10 years agoin reply to this

      So, your God is a bully. And you're ok with that.

      Why do you think I dislike the Bible so much?

      1. Cgenaea profile image60
        Cgenaeaposted 10 years agoin reply to this

        I know why you don't like the bible...
        And God is not a bully. He is the grown-up. He left us in charge with instructions on the fridge...

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          jonnycomelatelyposted 10 years agoin reply to this

          And the children he left in charge let him down?

          Hi everyone wink

          1. Cgenaea profile image60
            Cgenaeaposted 10 years agoin reply to this

            Hi Jonny! smile
            It's not that easy. We each are in charge of ourselves. No one to blame.

          2. Chris Neal profile image76
            Chris Nealposted 10 years agoin reply to this

            On a pretty depressingly consistent basis, yes...

          3. oceansnsunsets profile image81
            oceansnsunsetsposted 10 years agoin reply to this

            Hi Jonny, smile

            I don't know about the children in charge example, but I agree God is in charge in that example, lol.  I see what Genaea is saying.  The rest isn't pointed at you, but in general for all here that care to read it.

            I think there is a misunderstanding on the part of some here that to respond to a possible god and in this case Jesus and his Father God, that we need to look elsewhere than Jesus as the "standard".  Even in the Lords prayer Jesus spoke of "forgiving us our debts, as we forgive our debtors..."  This and a lot of other passages allude to our now "imperfect" nature.  No one is perfect, though we are to try and be like Jesus.  I only mention it because when people forget or ignore this part, it becomes far too easy to blame the already imperfect people for being imperfect and sometimes really bad even (the fringe supposedly being spoken of, like Westboro Baptists, etc...) as the REASON for rejecting God or ignoring Jesus' message, etc.  This means those that engage in that thinking, might REALLY be missing out on something big and good, for the imperfections we knew we would see.  (No, this is not an attempt to excuse the bad, and people also need to remember Christians stand before God as well, and that there are tares, and wolves, etc.)  Not everyone that says "God, God, didn't we do this and that in your name...." will even be recognized as one of his.  So my point is, we KNOW there will be some really hypocritical and evil people parading around calling themselves Christians, and hurting the cause of Christ. 

            So the "standard" matters....  Its super easy to reject God by looking at the imperfect on earth, the created, instead of the creator in this case.  Its just a trick to hurt people, so its why I bring it up.

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    Pennyforyourthotsposted 10 years ago

    How sad that you would let those negative examples dictate your thoughts on Christians as a whole. I say you should not generalize when speaking of any one group of people or another because every group is comprised of individuals who are very different from one another even though they may share the same label to you.

    1. oceansnsunsets profile image81
      oceansnsunsetsposted 10 years agoin reply to this

      I think I agree with you on these thoughts.  The problem in this case is that we aren't even really clear on what negative examples are being talked about, which fringe examples are the reason given for demeaning the whole.  Since its not clear, the best I can assume about it is that the OP is speaking of the fringe groups like the Westboro Baptist people, for example. 

      Even then though, this whole thread doesn't really make sense, but it could almost begin to make sense of a little of it to me.

  6. CrunchyMomma profile image58
    CrunchyMommaposted 10 years ago

    I refuse to believe a "god" exists that would accept a murderer in heaven because that murderer believes in him, but would send a do-gooder to hell simply because he does not believe. Sounds a little pompous to me. He tells us to make us stay in line and have good morals. Yet, his morals are pretty questionable.

    1. oceansnsunsets profile image81
      oceansnsunsetsposted 10 years agoin reply to this

      Hi Crunchymama,

      The understanding I have of the gospel is that anyone that has sinned or done wrong against God and or fellow man, and if they turn from that and ask for forgiveness, those are the ones that would be allowed to live an eternal life with their creator, in a new heaven and new earth.

      Those that don't turn and repent of their sin are left with what we were all left to contend with after getting to live this life.  God has offered up a way to be forgiven, and if it is ever suggested that it would be better to NOT forgive whatever the crime, of the truly repentant heart, then I see that as a sad idea, a worse idea than a forgiving God.

      So if it was just as you said, I could understand, but the god being spoken of here and Jesus didn't seem to reveal that message to people in quite that way.  Another way of putting it is that no one is asking you to believe in the god you describe there, including Jesus or the apostles.  So hopefully that might ease some thoughts to the contrary.  I know it is often portrayed as such by those that choose to believe that way, but its not in the gospels.  Think of the thief on the cross if you know that story.... He responded, and asked that Jesus remember him when he entered into his kingdom.  Jesus extended grace to that man, even as he was dying.  I would WANT to be with a God that DID forgive, as opposed to didn't forgive, is my point.

  7. CrunchyMomma profile image58
    CrunchyMommaposted 10 years ago

    I refuse to believe a "god" exists that would accept a murderer in heaven because that murderer believes in him, but would send a do-gooder to hell simply because he does not believe. Sounds a little pompous to me. He tells us to make us stay in line and have good morals. Yet, his morals are pretty questionable.

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    Emile Rposted 10 years ago

    Think about what you've just said. Single file with one leader. That's ridiculous since there are tens of thousand of sects within Christianity and who knows how many religions among all of humanity.  You seem to think you know some truth that has been denied billions of others. Do you even stop to think how silly that claim is?

    Butt in? What exactly do you mean by that? Humans are butting in simply because they don't agree with you?

    We get furious when one yells 'Get back in line"? Out of curiosity you think yelling at someone else is appropriate? You have the right to yell at others? You think that's indicative of a spiritual understanding?

    Someone says in their heart "No one tells ME wha-a-do!!! And I better get my candy STAT!!! Aren't you so very special that you can look into the heart of another human being and judge them. Forgive me if I don't think your philosophy is indicative of anything spiritual.

    1. Cgenaea profile image60
      Cgenaeaposted 10 years agoin reply to this

      It was a hypothetical scenario that you seem to have taken to heart... and become defensive... Do you think I wonder why?

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        Emile Rposted 10 years agoin reply to this

        What would make you bring up a hypothetical scenario such as that? Come on Genaea. Don't play coy. Stand behind your intent.

        1. Cgenaea profile image60
          Cgenaeaposted 10 years agoin reply to this

          Well, now that I have your attention... smile
          The kingdom of God is in actuality something of a dictatorship. We lowly humans get no vote. We were created. We cannot know all that our creator knows...
          He has left his parameters. He gave us a living image of his heart and he left it up to us to decide whether or not we'd like to participate in the "pizza party" at the end of the schoolyear. smile
          If you comply with the request to shrink yourself down to nothing and LISTEN... You will be ready when the "end of the year" comes. smile get it???
          No comply... it's you and the janitor in the detention room with homework.
          Can't see one pizza eater opting to ... well ya know.
          There is 1 rule maker who made the rules alone. I was nowhere around when he laid the foundation of the earth. I, personally, cannot pretend to know more than he. It actually sounds idiotic to me to think such a thought.
          We cannot gain enough signatures to win a grievance against God.
          My earlier scenario identified the thought pattern of one who is defiantly trying to obtain what they want, no matter how impossible. It was the mindset of a stubborn single-file line walker who wants to walk alongside the line and still get the same reward as them who simply walked in the line.

  9. oceansnsunsets profile image81
    oceansnsunsetsposted 10 years ago

    Being sorry for our wrongs and receiving forgiveness is what addresses the guilt issues we have as a human race, and accepting eternal life from the one that paid the price for it all, is turned around to be so awful.  Not everyone wants to be sorry or forgiven or wants life perhaps.  We want to judge God for it all.  We get what we choose and want, but if its not the ideal outcome, is that the fault of someone else?  It seems to not be a good argument, and illogical. 

    We expect to pull one over on God, when he already knows our hearts and minds. Its a good thing I think to point out where the arguments might fail, in case some might think they will work in the end, when they seem illogical at the outset.  Isn't it a good thing, since we are all talking about these ideas, to point out where these ideas/arguments might fail, so we can be thought out on it all?  This might be the most important thing in life, and it deserves a second thought at least.  Even if one doesn't agree with the ideas or believe them, there are some ideas floating around that even working within the idea, don't make sense.  Let us call an idea wrong, that is actually wrong for logical and reasonable reasons.  What we prefer, want, and like aren't good reasons for assessing something as reasonable or not.  Life doesn't work that way every day of our lives, and it makes no sense to expect it to be such at the end either.

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      Emile Rposted 10 years agoin reply to this

      The here and now is nothing compared to eternity. Choices we make, here and now, are not soul threatening because we have no concrete knowledge of anything but the here and now.

      I think, what many religious fail to understand is that they are not different. You claim everyone wants to judge God. Who could judge God? The judgment lies in viewing the concepts of God and determining of each concept could truly be representative of a being worthy of worship, worthy of hoping for an eternity in its presence, worthy of glory.

      If we begin with the assumption that such a being exists then we can determine which concepts are not representative of that being. You see people judging God. I don't. I see people simply stating that some concepts do not do justice to a supreme being.

      1. oceansnsunsets profile image81
        oceansnsunsetsposted 10 years agoin reply to this

        I think assuming the worst about God could be a form of judging him.  If hell is the main thing this is all about, then that is a good example of what I mean.  For instance, I know you have been here when many of us have spoken of not knowing absolutely 100% for sure of an everlasting, ongoing, perpetual burning of bodies for eternity.  Some have spoken of an eternal fire, and an eternal state.  Some believe it is annihilation of people. Not ongoing torment.  Perhaps, a form of going back to the non existence we had before we each came into existence.

        I am not overly committed to the idea of people judging god, but they sure seem to, and even more, his followers.  What I mean most often when I speak of people judging god, is they are judging his character or lack of, as is portrayed in the bible, for example.  They are judging this god.  If that is all you mean, that we can't judge that god but can judge the revelation of him through that means, then that is fine.  I don't really have issue with that, but it kind of misses my points to a degree.  I am speaking in ideas, as I so often go, and are the ideas themselves reasonable or not, more moral or not, and do we act like they are so strange when applied to god over how we each live in our societies today.  We expect god to be SOOOO entirely different than the authorities we accept in our societies.  I think this is unreasonable, just as an idea.  Its transparent, the contradictions I mean. 

        You bring up a fair point about eternity, if I am understanding you.  Yet you are asking I agree with you, over Jesus' teachings in this case, that our choices here and now aren't soul threatening.   Says who, you, and some others?  That seems fair.  Yet, I am being asked to consider the teachings of Jesus, from a long line of people asked to pass along the good news of an eternal life after being given the amazing gift of this life.  Then I am being asked to abandon those teachings for a mere human's ideas.  Yet that is myself also.  Thus the age old questions about literary criticisms and how truth comes down to us through history, etc.  People can totally reject it, but it may just be a fact that we all will literally face our maker, and that maybe it is God the Father.  If it is, he has made sure we have the knowledge of him, and that he has given us minds and our consciences to seek and learn more, then respond.  In the mean time, we are making choices our whole life long.  In the end, its not some human's courtroom we will be in but God's.  (if its all true, and I think it is, but I understand you do not.)  If its God's courtroom, this whole universe I mean, and he is the one responsible for each and everyone of us being in existence, he is very much in his right to judge us as he sees fit.

        If its all wrong, or a severe distortion of the REAL truth of Jesus as he brought it, then that would mean that God was inept at that particular time in history, even after making sure Jesus came as a man, a baby, only to let his real revelation be SO screwed up as I think you are suggesting it would be.  That doesn't make sense to me, after ALL that.  Its having faith in something else, but not a very realistic, what else.  It would have to all just be a complete bunch of baloney, but then I still don't think it could be, because of history, and now, humanity, etc.  Far too much is explained by the way it is portrayed in the simple teachings of Jesus and the apostles, and the prophets, the more I learn and observe.  Its uncanny. 

        I guess the idea is, that God had a hand in the transmission, down to us.  It wasn't so fumbled all along, it was intentional.  Of course other teachings would come in, they always have, and still do!  Of course there would need to be a way to weed out those that added too or took away from the message.  Having contradictory teachings isn't a teaching at all, and it wouldn't be gods message to us.  I am always amazed, at the level of faith and belief used by non believers when they speak of how long it was after the time of Jesus, how it couldn't be the real truth for any number of reasons.......  I find there to be nothing even comparable, in an honest study of it all.  It is literally very impressive, just as it would be IF it were gods revelation to man, using humans along the way to record it.   My prayer is that those that might ever remotely want to seek a possible real god, would open their hearts and seek him and it says they will find him.  I truly believe not all want him, not all want the truth if he is included in it.  If its genuinely just a non issue, just one of another of thousands or more beliefs out there, then it would be treated as such.  People from all those other views also display dishonesty, and do bad things, and ALL beliefs/views have people that go against their own moral codes.  It could just be that while not pleasant, God could be making sure that everyone's questions ARE answered, and that all the excuses are not allowed to be given, because he knows our hearts anyway.... (if he exists, and Jesus is the way....)  Thats true in our lives too..... the truth is often not what we want, its not the way we would do it, but we listen to the experts or not, and go to the best sources.....not to the quacks that distort and practice bad medicine, using medicine/doctors as a metaphor, lol.  Pointing out how messed up the quacks are and the damage they cause, does nothing to help the conditions.  Pointing them out and rightly saying, "that can't be right!", is NO excuse to ignore the main physician's instructions for the condition.

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          Emile Rposted 10 years agoin reply to this

          It's difficult to address long posts, point for point. The gist I'm getting from you is that you want to be reasonable but you want to give quarter, in case they are right. I suppose I get that. You're unsure so err on the side of caution.

          But, one must not be surprised when assumed to be of like mind with those one publicly agrees with.

          1. oceansnsunsets profile image81
            oceansnsunsetsposted 10 years agoin reply to this

            Sorry so long.  Of course I want to be reasonable, as I think that is the best way for all of us to be about all things.  None of us can change whatever God has in store for those that reject the free gift of Christ by his payment on the cross.  By believing in Jesus' words, it won't make hell real or not, it just is or not.  We can disagree with God on this, on that idea of an eternal state or punishment, whatever it is. 

            Yes, I am always surprised when people lump people together into the wording like in the OP and ever since in the thread.  Or stop talking to people they say have attitude when they exhibit way more of the same, ongoing.  I am surprised because I think it is unreasonable, AND on the other hand, shows the deeper thoughts about people that really just believe differently from you and your friends.  Its strange is all, and I so I comment on it in case anyone might wonder about that being a clue to something more going on. 

            Its actually not so much about the people you are trying to talk about in the OP or not.  Its about Jesus himself, in what has come to us through the revelation God has allowed.  You don't have to disagree with the fringe, or the "not so fringe groups".  You DO seem to want to justify lumping or assuming about all of them I notice, as fringe, despite attempts to get you to be more fair.  Jesus would be this fringe element you speak of, yet you seem to have some hesitation with him, and I actually really get that. I think there are deeper reasons for that. 

            If you want to not think about how Jesus talked about hell way more than heaven, that is fine, but its in the texts that survived, and if not wanting to believe those, then what ARE you going by, for info on Jesus' teachings?  I mean what other texts, what better revelation that is more correct, clear, true and more agreeable?  I am saying, just call Jesus the fringe you seem to be, but not wanting to go there and just go after his followers and all the demeaning things you say about them. Do you see the disconnect? 

            Its a struggle, and I get that.   In the effort to see things clearly, we just need to be very honest because of the emotion that arises and our state. (and probably much more.)

            For wanting to be so much more moral than Jesus, his Father, and their followers in this possible regard that isn't even 100%,  one could just address the whole issue of morals as Jesus laid them out.  Yet don't want to.  Wanting to claim to be more moral than all of them, by sticking to one's own lack of morals when/if we have them (I do...).  Sticking to them being in an unforgiven state rather than forgiven by the one that matters in the greater court of the universe. 

            Its a bottom line thing.  We are all sinners on our way to our eternal death state at least, if Jesus was right.  Our sins, when we are raised after this first physical death, will either be considered covered, or uncovered.  Forgiven or unforgiven.  There are super simple terms laid out.  "Forgive us out debts, as we forgive our debtors." Some are sorry, some are not sorry, some will have repented, some have not.  We can't hold so tight to not being sorry nor repenting or confessing to the one true God, AND want to be in his eternal heaven and earth that he prepares for those that do respond.  It is what is being suggested though.  Entry for all, even for those that rejected and didn't want anything to do with God or his son and his payment for those sins.  Perhaps he will hear that argument at that late date, but wow what a huge wager when the odds aren't looking so good because it seems to be laid out. 

            So in effect, holding on to our right to sin against God as we please (and maybe against others)  Maybe being sorry to others but not to God and not wanting his forgiveness nor his terms, and then in effect judging him for having possible said terms and the consequences he laid out.  It would BE judging HIM, not his followers anyway, nothing else will matter then.  Judging his right to be in his position. Its not so burdensome, Jesus took all that on himself.  What is in the way are distortions and lies, to keep people from their life in eternity, from their ultimate potential.  That is where the crux lies.... in the lies vs the truth, and what is at stake.  Good vs evil, life vs death.

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              Emile Rposted 10 years agoin reply to this

              Just one point. I don't think anyone has rejected Christ. What they do is reject these ridiculous and egotistical interpretations. I'm not certain why this is such a difficult concept to follow.

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                oceansnsunsetsposted 10 years agoin reply to this

                You don't think anyone has rejected Christ? 

                If you are reading my posts, I am addressing that.  You need to share why a non biblical interpretation is BETTER than the biblical one, and what you are going off of.  I asked this.  I am asking also, what are you going off of, rather than the bible, that is to be more trusted and accurate, than the bible?  I have not seen an answer.  I don't know of one, if not one that is just a version of Jesus made up in our own heads, and based off of what?

                Also to be clear, when I speak of Jesus and the rejecting of him, this is what God will be looking at come judgement day, to see if the person has accepted the free gift of forgiveness and life that comes through him.  Since the topic is hell/salvation, that I see you having the biggest gripe with, I think it all ties in.  Its less egotistical I think, to drop our egos and be humble to gods plan over our own, as if our own plans could outdo his anyway.  Our egos DO get in the way of our focus I think, and confuse the very simple ideas being talked about.  I think for anyone going to the hell we are speaking about, they will have rejected Christ.  The opposite is to accept him as he laid out.  If we aren't making up new versions of Jesus and what he said, then what Jesus, what standard are you going by?  That is my biggest question to you.

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                  Emile Rposted 10 years agoin reply to this

                  Honestly, this insistence that an alternative interpretation is somehow non Biblical is troubling. How does someone interpret something if they are not using that something in order to interpret it?

                  Think about Christ when teaching. Think about the sayings of Christ. How many of them are quoting chapter and verse of the Old Testament? He didn't need to because he showed, by his actions, how righteous his understanding was. The example of Christ was the point. Not the words of the OT. Not the words of the gospels. Not Paul's ideas of what it means. Just the example of Christ. That, in my opinion, is why nothing was written down by him. Words can be misconstrued, reinterpreted, warped, etc. Actions speak volumes and are not so easily misunderstood.

                  1. oceansnsunsets profile image81
                    oceansnsunsetsposted 10 years agoin reply to this

                    Honestly, I thought you had to be talking about some extra or other revelation, as Jesus himself often explained things to people from the scriptures, that has and always will be around. We are no different in having to reason through things, except we don't have Jesus in person here.  Isn't this  really just about you not realizing you are doing the very same thing you are accusing others of, insisting on a correct interpretation over others?  I assumed what I did very fairly I think, but stand corrected and need to nearly start over.  I took you at your word. Specifics will help. 

                    Its confusing to be honest.  Can we start again with some specific examples of the fringe ideas you are lumping all the rest of the people into without warrant?  That would be a great place to start.  I thought hell WAS one of those things.  By the way, Jesus was Jesus and we are not, so we don't have exactly the same first hand God knowledge he had in his head, nor his perfect nature.  Of course he stands out among all people  HE esteemed his own teachings, and encouraged his followers to share that good news with the lost world, as IF it could be done.   So we need to have them to refer to.  Now I am glad I know what the source is, the gospels. 

                    You have to make your case clear, and it seems to be shifting on top of not clear.  What exactly do you want from people, if not really just conform to your own interpretations of teachings, or else be lumped in with those you disagree with?   I think its alarming you see nothing wrong with what you are doing.

                    Bottom line I think is this...  What do you Emile, go by, when finding out about Jesus' teachings, since Jesus isn't here to be that only perfect example?  The gospels, correct?  (Since you made it abundantly clear you aren't referring to any other teachings or revelation in the above post.)  Then, the next question is like one in my very first (or 2nd) post I believe in this thread that went unanswered.... What do you use as a measuring rod against the revelation from Jesus that you approve of?  Thanks for answering these questions.

              2. oceansnsunsets profile image81
                oceansnsunsetsposted 10 years agoin reply to this

                The ones not rejecting Christ.... do they accept Him?  We each stand on our own on this, no matter how many fringe people and groups have lived along side in life.  My point is, they aren't an excuse, and not even a point, yet you want them to be.  Almost desperately so, it seems.  Who cares about the fringe if morals and truth are our goals?  You aren't fooled by any fringe element on here, nor am I, no matter what side they are on.  There are super fringe atheists here on HP for example. 

                If your goal is to create such a deliniation between all the people that we all might "frown upon" them together, of their shameful ways, then what explains this?  Are you suggesting I take a stand with YOU(?) for the high ground, your version of it, or else what?  You have been shown now and long ago, how many Christians aren't sure of an eternal fire where people will be standing there burning for eternity and never dying... So you are asking for something you have been already given, then telling me not to be surprised I will be lumped with some undefined non specific fringe element?  All because I say I am not sure, because I am not sure 101%?.  We aren't required to, as Christians.  What is required is really simple.  Not easy, but simple to grasp conceptually, in how it was communicated by Jesus who you seem to esteem some.  I have made a long case about why this isn't the bigger points being missed in the context of these ideas.

                You are right, we can't judge God, that is a fair point.  How could we?  I think some want to almost sacrifice our eternal souls to make a point to God of how much we think he is this supposed cosmic bully.    Are we willing to be divorced from our sin or not?   Would we want to lay it down, have it answered for?  The sin and sinful ways are going to go far from the Kingdom of God.. Not all want this.  God lets them and doesn't override that.  Many want the sin and don't want to be sorry or have it pardoned, even though it hurts us and others so often. I keep mentioning these points because I wonder how logical it is to keep expecting such illogic from God to do more than he already has.  We do wrong against him and others and ourselves.  He and Jesus do not.  The part where we take responsibility or not, is laid out in Jesus' teachings.  If you know of other teachings  that negate the ones that God seemed fit to come to us, then why not share those here? To not answer is to not follow through on your own points made over and over in this thread.

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                  bBereanposted 10 years agoin reply to this

                  Matthew 12:30:  "He that is not with me is against me; and he that gathereth not with me scattereth abroad".

                  Here is where Mark tells us "this is why your religion causes so many conflicts". 

                  Sorry, not going to apologize for God.

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                    Righteous Atheistposted 10 years agoin reply to this

                    That is one of the many reasons this religion causes conflicts. I see you blamed god instead of accepting personal responsibility. It is all god's fault.  sad

                  2. oceansnsunsets profile image81
                    oceansnsunsetsposted 10 years agoin reply to this

                    Bberean, why do you say this to me?  I wouldn't ask you to ever apologize for God. 

                    I am just fleshing this out with Emile, seeing if the points go through or not. 

                    I am with Jesus, btw.  I think he got it all right.

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                    Rad Manposted 10 years agoin reply to this

                    Yes, that kind of scripture is exactly what Mark is talking about. No need to apologies for any God's, but perhaps it time to stop defending the harm that the bible (not God) has caused so many people, just as it's time to stop defending the Quran for causing harm to so many people. The bible, quran and the book or mormon have been used to harm people for who they are. Homosexuals have been killed are are still being persecuted and slavery has been used because of the words of these so called holy books.

                    Will you not apologies for any of that?

                  4. William Avitt profile image59
                    William Avittposted 10 years agoin reply to this

                    "7 “Do not judge so that you will not be judged. 2 For in the way you judge, you will be judged; and [a]by your standard of measure, it will be measured to you. 3 Why do you look at the speck that is in your brother’s eye, but do not notice the log that is in your own eye?"
                    Matthew 7:1-3

                    "and you shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, and with all your soul, and with all your mind, and with all your strength.’ The second is this, ‘You shall love your neighbor as yourself.’ There is no other commandment greater than these.”
                    Mark 12:30-31

                    Don't apologize for God.  Apologize for your own misdeeds in how you pass judgment on others.

                2. PhoenixV profile image65
                  PhoenixVposted 10 years agoin reply to this

                  The "or else" has already been established. You have become one of "them", Welcome to to the club btw, there is a small membership fee, but it comes with a T-shirt.

          2. Cgenaea profile image60
            Cgenaeaposted 10 years agoin reply to this

            "But, one must not be surprised when assumed to be of like mind with those one publicly agrees with."

            Strange statement from one who HATES to be juxtaposed with those with whom she openly (without fear or shame) agrees... maybe this one deserves some thought. Not another clever or well-spoken defense of hatred of all that is good.

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              Rad Manposted 10 years agoin reply to this

              Why should she have fear or shame?

            2. PhoenixV profile image65
              PhoenixVposted 10 years agoin reply to this

              Part of a tactic I have been talking about is the use of conscience to manipulate, mobilize or to enlist others to target their spiritual foe. They have identified their spiritual foe, now they want to employ others to work against them, in their stead. People with some or good conscience makes the best soldiers.  They might try to make some shallow argument or they will try to shame others into aiding them in their endeavors. Usually, more often than not, they will play on the conscience of others to manipulate them. If they can't shame them or use other conscience related strategies into becoming involved in their tactics and aiding them, then they will reassess that person as also a spiritual foe to contend with.

              1. Cgenaea profile image60
                Cgenaeaposted 10 years agoin reply to this

                It's the way of the "world". The very elite, among us will fall... pray my strength.

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    Rad Manposted 10 years ago

    So, we have no real way of knowing what was going on in Hitler's head but he says he was on the right track, which he clearly wasn't. He clearly misunderstood the bible and he certainly was a misguided Christian. That said by your way of thinking if he repented in his bunker before his death he's as good a in.

    I'm still not sure what the relevance of loving Jesus is? What would it matter to a God that is all good?

    Example, two brothers from a father they have never been in contact with get a letter from their mother claiming to be from their dad, which states that he exists, loves them and will return. He says they should behave, but most importantly love him. One of the brother steals, murders, rapes, but believes the letters are from his Dad. The other suspects the letter are written by their Mom to keep them in line, but cares for others, gives to the poor, gets a job helping others and is kind to all. How is the more ethical/moral person? Who if the father shows up should get the fathers respect?

    It's really just that simple.

    All that being said you can pretend that the bible doesn't say that speaking poorly of the holy spirit isn't unforgivable or that it's misrepresented, but there are many Christian's who feel it's relevant can factual.

    1. Chris Neal profile image76
      Chris Nealposted 10 years agoin reply to this

      I can give no better example than that of how you're the one leaving parts out, not me. You seem pretty determined to believe that, even though that is neither a good representation of the Bible or of most Christians. So I will leave it at that. You believe you have bolstered your argument, and I know you have bolstered mine.

      One thing I will say, just because "most Christians" don't think it's relevant does not mine I do. But for me, as I've said over and over and over again, it's part of a bigger picture. Not a small part, not an unimportant part, not an insignificant part. But still part. And I've studied and wrestled with it myself.

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        Rad Manposted 10 years agoin reply to this

        Okay, so you admit it's part of the picture, the story, but you don't believe that it's true? Do you believe that speaking poorly or saying the holy spirit doesn't exist is unforgivable?

        1. Chris Neal profile image76
          Chris Nealposted 10 years agoin reply to this

          I never said I don't believe it's true, nor did I imply it. What I believe is that as long as you're alive, you have the chance to repent and turn. Not mouth platitudes, not try to bs people or God, but actually feel remorseful for your sin and accept God's gift.

          Judas Iscariot did not turn, even though he was remorseful. He did not accept Christ's gift.

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            Rad Manposted 10 years agoin reply to this

            Okay, I glad you think we have a chance, but that's not what the good book says. Now, I don't think one should go and do whatever he likes because he's done something unforgivable anyway. Let's just hope that if there is a judging God, he's not the God of the bible, Quran or book of Mormon.

            1. Chris Neal profile image76
              Chris Nealposted 10 years agoin reply to this

              But the Good Book does say that. It does NOT say that once we've said the one bad thing (and there's actually not much agreement on what that bad thing is, btw,) we're damned forever. It does say that once we know the truth, we need to straighten up and fly right.

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                Rad Manposted 10 years agoin reply to this

                Sure, straighten up and fly straight, but it also says that may not get you in heaven and one of the things that may prevent us is speaking badly of the holy spirit. It says that's unforgivable.

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                  Chris Nealposted 10 years agoin reply to this

                  Which is something that has been looked at up, down and sideways. It's not like theologians, and also people who are not theologians but are interested in holiness or at least in understanding what the Bible actually means, haven't come across this before. Or that they haven't thought about it. And the consensus, at least among conservative theologians, is that if literally anything said "against the Holy Spirit" kept you out of Heaven, then none of us would ever make it. Which would completely nullify Jesus coming down and dying in our place. And of course, if we can't be forgiven no matter what, and therefor Jesus' coming down was pointless and futile, and we know it wasn't, then there must be some explanation other than the most draconian one.

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                    Rad Manposted 10 years agoin reply to this

                    Does the bible say it's easy to get into heaven? If you stick to what it's said that Jesus said it difficult to get into heaven. Notice those who say that nothing is unforgivable are those who are wishing to get into heaven. Something like those who play lotteries. I have a chance.

  11. oceansnsunsets profile image81
    oceansnsunsetsposted 10 years ago

    If its true that some distorted the scriptures and teachings of Jesus for power or politics, ruling of the masses, etc, AND if God allowed for his revelation to us to be so tampered with......

    (bear with me....)

    And then if people that became believers did so, to avoid the eternal flames only...

    I wonder if it turns out to be otherwise, and there IS just an eternal annihilation of their soul, will they be upset with God for allowing them to be part of His eternal life, because they didn't quite get that other option of just a non existence? 

    In other words, they might have wanted an eternal death state of being, or non existence, OVER eternal flames/burning?  My point in asking is no matter what, its the wrong focus I think.  Its life vs death anyway.  I wouldn't want to not be part of the eternal life, no matter the alternative.  I don't want to any part of the eternally contempt side of things.  This is assuming the worst, that people MIGHT have been successfully able to outdo God in what is meant to be HIS revelation to mankind.  (IN the context of the playing out of many discussions here in this thread and in the past.)  Thinking this out gives some perspective on the greater point of it all.

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      Rad Manposted 10 years agoin reply to this

      You hope is eternal life! Eternal. When I was really small I wanted to live on earth forever, just to see what comes next. I love that part (seeing what comes next). I like exploring on my bike or in a car and seeing what's around the next corner, it's just part of my personality. But, I no longer want to live forever because I've realized what getting old does to you and to the people around and I've seem what happens when the old get old and lose the people they love and are left alone. Now, how would that change in heaven? Are we going to just imagine an better place where the old don't get old and everybody knows your name? Do we have houses, cloths, television, cards, food? Do we have to listen to the same stories of others forever? Do we sleep, what the hell can we do forever that will not bore the hell out of us? Can we decide to check out?

      The whole concept is silly and immature and is simply preying on people fears and superstitions. It sounds like you want to go to a party with your favourite people, but will never be allowed to leave. The stuff horror movies are made from.

  12. oceansnsunsets profile image81
    oceansnsunsetsposted 10 years ago

    I find it curious that some want to not be accused of judging god or rejecting Jesus, as if there is some downside to that.  Perhaps it is because there is some downside to that. 

    On another random note, on the topic of our "being guilty" before the one that gave us our consciences, or not....  On that idea... 

    Perhaps the discomfort we feel is like much of the other discomfort we feel in life and feel the need to address.  Like discomfort when engaging in something that hurts us.  Its uncomfortable, and we don't want our possible guilt to be a topic.  Yet it has been suggested long ago, that our guilt is what brought us death, and then its been suggested that can be "righted" for those sorry for their wrongs, and to gain forgiveness and gain back the life lost. We want it all, to engage in the things that bring guilt, and we want to not have to be sorry for them, and we want eternal life, all at the same time. Then judge the "fundies or crazies" and even God himself and put them all down, for being so ridiculous....all while never looking in the mirror.  No one denies this isn't a pretty topic, a tough one.  The difference is there is good news, a remedy.  Not all want this, and yet are not content with that outcome to the degree we see what we see.

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      Rad Manposted 10 years agoin reply to this

      It's not so much that we reject God or Jesus, it's that we just simply don't believe you or what those like you say. Do you see the difference? If God or Jesus knocked on my door I wouldn't reject him, but you and those like you are not God or Jesus. You are just people with an opinion. Do you see the difference?

      1. Cgenaea profile image60
        Cgenaeaposted 10 years agoin reply to this

        If God/Jesus knocked on your door, he would appear as one you hate... you would not recognize him.

    2. Cgenaea profile image60
      Cgenaeaposted 10 years agoin reply to this

      "I find it curious that some want to not be accused of judging god or rejecting Jesus, as if there is some downside to that.  Perhaps it is because there is some downside to that."

      I had to kiss the page!!! smile (now my screen's all wet...)
      God KNOWS the heart... the mouth reveals it, in time...
      To say, without saying, is a marvelous tactic that slips our very own mind, at times. smile
      The Lord is simply amazing to me! He revealed this stuff eons ago! He knew!!!
      All Hail!!!
      Ok, my time may be limited, I'll try to go fast. smile

      1. Righteous Atheist profile image59
        Righteous Atheistposted 10 years agoin reply to this

        I just hate people lying about me. Weird that. wink

      2. oceansnsunsets profile image81
        oceansnsunsetsposted 10 years agoin reply to this

        smile

        I think a lot of our actions can be explained by what Jesus taught.  I mean everyone's actions.  Its not always pleasant to us, even hard at times.  I think it is the key to this life and the next.  Of course this is foolishness to some, but I wish it were not, and I am trying to as I can.  Its important stuff, and not really that complicated in and of itself, though it is amazing.  I don't think God had to do anything more than make us and just leave us to be our own undoing.  I think God went above and beyond, and was sympathetic to our greater plight and state.  So thankful....

        1. Cgenaea profile image60
          Cgenaeaposted 10 years agoin reply to this

          The Lord reveals the heart through scripture. To all of us. He wants a humble reaction.
          I'm thankful too. smile

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    Rad Manposted 10 years ago

    "I am asking also, what are you going off of, rather than the bible, that is to be more trusted and accurate, than the bible?"
    Right here is your biggest problem. How about logic and or reason. Is it reasonable to assume that the God that created the universe loved it when we sacrificed animals for him on an alter, but decided that was to much of a burden for us so he made himself a burnt offering so we no longer have to mess up the alters?

    "to see if the person has accepted the free gift of forgiveness and life that comes through him."
    Free gift? Well first and for most a gift is supposed to be free, one only says it's free to disguise the fact that it's not. If you are ever in a mall and someone ask you if you would like a free gift you know there are strings attached. So what strings are attached to this "free gift"? I have an offer you can't refuse.

  14. Sed-me profile image81
    Sed-meposted 10 years ago

    The Torah was around long before new testament times.

  15. Cgenaea profile image60
    Cgenaeaposted 10 years ago

    oceansnsunsets, I believe you to be genuine. I appreciate that quality. As you hopefully know, no one has "called" her anything.
    The words of scripture are a mirror. Properly dividing scripture at the precice time, produces a memorable impression. I am starting to see that, clearly.

    1. oceansnsunsets profile image81
      oceansnsunsetsposted 10 years agoin reply to this

      Thank you Genaea, and I admittedly don't see everything.

      The scriptures are actually pretty hard to take at times, because it "steps on our toes" and who of us likes that?  No one, generally.  That this might be seen as a person being wrong is possible, but harder for me to know without examples. So I am keeping an eye out to see if more are offered up.  I was going off of what she shared had happened in the past and responding. 

      In the meantime, what we do have to go off of is how we see people dealing with issues ongoing and how they treat those they disagree with, and that is a hard test.  At least it is for me, because it asks of all of us to dig deep for patience, etc, as needed.

  16. Cgenaea profile image60
    Cgenaeaposted 10 years ago

    I need to see the comments.

  17. Cgenaea profile image60
    Cgenaeaposted 10 years ago

    Oops. My skit has the WRONG woman... smile
    Jesus: ... living water...
    Woman: you aint got no living nothin!!! You must be asking questions or peeking around.
    There is no God!!!

  18. Cgenaea profile image60
    Cgenaeaposted 10 years ago

    In the last days, they will be eating and drinking and partying, on one accord.
    As in the days of Noah...
    Can you hear him???
    "It's a storm a'comin' y'all... best git up, and get ready..."

  19. Cgenaea profile image60
    Cgenaeaposted 10 years ago

    Sir, have you pictured Jesus at the well with your encouragement in sin???
    "Girl, I know yo struggles. It's hard to keep a man!..."
    He said, "Follow me."
    Will you please, because I want to be clear... define judgment.
    I have passed judgment on no one. Please give me one judgment on my part, if you can. I am oblivious. And speaking nonsense, if I am judge.
    Are you missing me? Or am I missing myself?

    1. William Avitt profile image59
      William Avittposted 10 years agoin reply to this

      Well, my original reply about being judgmental wasn't directed at you, but then you replied to it with this:
      "It is not judgment to recognize. And "there is no God!" is not a "speck".
      Love God means, say what he said, do what he says.
      Now, if I were walking along happy and obvious to the quicksand ahead...I would definitely want someone to shout loudly, with intent, "QUICKSAND AHEAD!!!"
      That is the kind of "love" God expects of us. He showed me how to love, his way."

      And I took that as you trying to defend the practice of passing judgment on others and trying to justify it as being out of love for them.  If I misconstrued your intentions, then again, I apologize.  I don't know what is going on in your head, but I am enjoying having this conversation with you.  And I don't want you to think that everything I've said has been directed at you personally.  It really hasn't.  You have your position and are defending it, I have my position and am defending that.  But there is no animosity or anything like that against you.  I did read  a comment you posted earlier about dealing with homosexuals by loving them as we want to be loved ourselves.  That is absolutely the correct attitude to have.  No one's sin is any more heinous than anyone else's sin.  And, as I've said before, we are commanded to love the sinner and hate the sin.  But yeah, if I have you wrong or have offended you in any way, I sincerely apologize.

      1. Cgenaea profile image60
        Cgenaeaposted 10 years agoin reply to this

        Oh, my post. Yeah, that... uh... I'm not gonna call you a beautiful mockingbird, if you're quackn' n' waddling.
        Im not gonna call you an orange tree, if rotted figs are falling to the ground, as you speak.
        Discernment is important in the life of one who wants to follow Jesus. We gotta watch, as well as pray...

        1. William Avitt profile image59
          William Avittposted 10 years agoin reply to this

          Fair enough.  I'm not at all saying we shouldn't encourage people to live properly.  Absolutely we should.  And I outlined how to properly do that in my adultery example.  But most Christians don't live by that example that Jesus showed to us, and, sadly, that is why this thread exists in the first place.  The original poster was expressing disappointment in Christians that act in that way and are very judgmental.  And it is really sad because, as I said, that behavior turns people away from the church and does not in any way help to win souls for the Lord.

          1. oceansnsunsets profile image81
            oceansnsunsetsposted 10 years agoin reply to this

            If Jesus was right, and we are all resurrected one day to stand before God, I wonder if it will "fly" that there were people that were judgmental or fringe so I rejected the whole thing or avoided church for that reason.

            Thing is, God knows all hearts, including when people are giving excuses.  So its good to bring that up, that reminder to people. Its made into something much larger than it turns out to be.  I know as I assumed the worst with the OP,  and have been asking. 

            I think the  most I can find is that some don't like how others speak out about God, and their relationship with him.  They also have views and speak out on all kinds of things, but its some particular people this is being made about, their vocalizing and HOW they do it.  Instead of opting on using other options to deal with hearing unwanted views of things, this option was taken. 

            So I brought up many things about how important all of this is, life now and eternal life, and is it worth making the excuse of those we don't like how they talk, to lose our eternal souls (the most extreme example). Of course it isn't, but its being played out like they are at some horrible fault for saying things perhaps very different from themselves.  I see a LOT of hypocrisy on here also and am pointing it out.  Not to judge or wag a finger, but most on here don't like hypocrisy and may just not be seeing it.  When/if its all just insisted upon, we can see the problem for what it is.Being new, I thought you might want an overview of what has been going on, because it would be hard to jump in at this point, and the OP is so sure, I think you might be assuming the worst with them, but I would give it some time to see if the "crimes" are really worth the treatment.  I think some are just mad some won't shut up.  Those same won't ignore the person and engage in what we see instead, and blame them for the conflict.  We don't look inward enough sometimes, or if we do, we truly don't care.

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              Emile Rposted 10 years agoin reply to this

              Hey. I think you are not getting what my problem is. Opinions are like, well you know. We all have one. We won't always agree. I don't think we were meant to. But, those who consistently put forth the claim that their opinion is that of a higher power and....

              You know what? I've explained this ad nauseum. If you are still putting forth that argument, I'm not certain further explanation would serve a purpose.

        2. PhoenixV profile image65
          PhoenixVposted 10 years agoin reply to this

          Discernment is important, (and scripturally sound) especially today. Is it possible that God has sent Mr. Avitt aka Superman to protect you from the accuser?

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            Emile Rposted 10 years agoin reply to this

            Highly doubtful. But, if it makes you feel better to believe so....bully for you.

            A more fun (and equally ridiculous assertion) might be to suggest it's my sock puppet.

            Edit. I do find it interesting that pointing out a perceived problem is an accusation when done by me, but when done by the fundamentalist it's somehow sharing God's love. What's up with that?

          2. Cgenaea profile image60
            Cgenaeaposted 10 years agoin reply to this

            Why, I think so! Mr. Avitt was sent to protect me for sure! Didn't he say he was "saved"??? wink
            I wonder what would happen if I asked him/her about the Holy Spirit that rests, rules, and abides with his/her people...

      2. oceansnsunsets profile image81
        oceansnsunsetsposted 10 years agoin reply to this

        I did not take that comment to be passing judgement on anyone, and I have been following along for a while.

        I think those that would take it AS judgement, are just mad she is reiterating her view of what the bible is also warning about.  She is vocal, and the message hits hard because people maybe don't like the message about turning from things, and I know because its hard for me too.  She isn't wrong however in using the "quicksand ahead!" example, if there were to be something like quicksand ahead.  This is the person you want WITH you on the trail of life, not mad they seem judgmental for pointing out pitfalls. 

        That there is far more going on behind the scenes makes sense of how this all gets turned around, as it often is in the forums.  Just thought I would share my response to the comment you thought was judgmental, and you can take it or leave it.

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          Emile Rposted 10 years agoin reply to this

          Reiterating one's view is not the same as claiming God said it. Everyone has a view. Those who attempt to push it as God's cannot claim blasphemy when someone disagrees. They can't claim God is being slandered when their opinion is challenged. Actually, they can. And this is the result.

          1. oceansnsunsets profile image81
            oceansnsunsetsposted 10 years agoin reply to this

            Reiterating one's view is not the same as claiming God said it. Everyone has a view. Those who attempt to push it as God's cannot claim blasphemy when someone disagrees. They can't claim God is being slandered when their opinion is challenged. Actually, they can. And this is the result.

            Its just interesting, because normally if you would disagree with such statements, you might just assume this is someone's view, that they are claiming God said it.  What skin off your back is that if someone even mistakenly might have that view?  It is the same thing.  You seem to keep missing this point.  YOU and I ALSO have a view of what WE think God says and means in scripture, and I GET that you are being careful to now let any of that be shared now for obvious reasons, but normally its fair game.  To some degree at least, you don't want to lay out the hypocrisy and I get that.  To deny that YOU interpret or have views of what God said through the bible is absolutely the case. Its a lot of what we do on these pages, discuss what we think God has said. 

            The irony almost is that your actions I think show that you actually might put a lot of weight into the words some speak here that you are saying don't matter, or are dishonest, etc.  That would explain the response more to me actually.

            If you think it silly if someone calls it blasphemy, share that.  Do you not think we all see it?  Its not your usual talking, I get that, but I don't think its so criminal.   You have made the points over and over.  I don't see your OP as justified still, but I assumed the best and waited and asked.  You have now shared a list at least twice that I caught, and I responded.  I think we have covered all the bases, and while I am not happy with the results, I can let it be what it is.  What else can I do.  Its a free world, and your thoughts as presented in the OP till now are allowed, but I don't agree, and I even have pointed out and stood up where I thought it was wrong.  I have given you what you say you never get from the other more mainstream Christians, and yet you want to think I am not getting it or not doing advisable things.  Its nothing new, the making it a no win situation for one particular group here on HP, and its why so many leave or get banned while others get away with so much.  Many Christians all seem to get what is going on there, but I also can't help but try and be a voice of reason to the rests, to just make sure and double check you are on or can get on a right track of thinking, when I seem to see the opposite going on.  I think its my own disappointment in part, that I am dealing with if I am honest.  I didn't expect what I see, and I DO have a bad case of assuming the best about all kinds of people, only to let myself down, and I shouldn't do that.

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              Emile Rposted 10 years agoin reply to this

              I find it humorous they I have addressed these comments when they occurred from several people within the exchanges on this thread, and others, and now am being accused of not addressing them.

              We see what we want in order to come to the conclusions we want. I'm not going to argue over this. I stand by the words in the OP, whether you understood my intent or not.

              Edit. I would like to point out that the last thought in your comment does come across as self righteous.

              1. oceansnsunsets profile image81
                oceansnsunsetsposted 10 years agoin reply to this

                I am saying why not be happy with addressing them, and that surely I missed a lot.  You are seriously not content to just show you disagree, and not seeing how you might be giving a lot of credence to others views that you want to be wrong or think are wrong.

                You can't say I haven't tried to understand your intent.  The last comment you can think is self righteous, but its an honest admission on my part and its 100% true.  I do this also with some selective memory of past events and  my husband would be the first to agree.  He says I only remember the good, and sometimes want to only see the good, and it was not meant in any way to be self righteous.  You know, if I remotely thought it was or could be, I would never say such a thing, because of the accusing way of so many here.   Thanks for your judgement though, its noted.

                I just truly disagree with you in your OP, I even thought it had to be for shock value.  I don't think you are being a fair person in much of what you have said, or a fair minded person, and not seeing your own actions while judging so many others.  Its a one sided way we see on HP, and in the past you stood up for the same.  I think this is the easier path to take honestly, and there are benefits that go with that, and possible pitfalls.   One thing being left out, is that there are other reasons at play that seem things so "off" sometimes, when it comes to the topics of good and evil, cosmic truths, etc.  So not all is as it appears.  My belief system makes complete sense of what I am seeing. I think all want to make sense of their strongly held views, and then we are left with what we see. 

                Sometimes, people are truly wrong, lacking in facts or morals, etc.  Sometimes, they are not, but they need to be truly wrong, lacking in facts, reason and morals, in the eyes of others.  I am ok with the wait, and I trust in goodness, love, and truth more than anything.

      3. PhoenixV profile image65
        PhoenixVposted 10 years agoin reply to this

        I agree with you Mr Avitt, I believe that Cgenaea does have the correct attitude

      4. PhoenixV profile image65
        PhoenixVposted 10 years agoin reply to this

        I find you have a very admirable and chivalrous demeanor Mr Avitt. You are quick to apologize for obvious misunderstandings that are no fault of your own, in some cases.

        I agree with you an Cgenaea about " loving them as we want to be loved ourselves" as far as everyone is concerned, in general. Personally I am not willing to "label" all individual sin as "heinous". I think some are worse than others, but I agree with the spirit of your message, speaking of sin in totality.

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          Emile Rposted 10 years agoin reply to this

          Well, this is interesting. We'll all be witness to find out if disingenuous fawning and flattery can divert the conversation.

          1. JMcFarland profile image72
            JMcFarlandposted 10 years agoin reply to this

            Probably not,  since he's also throwing the word "herectic" around.   Maybe he's trying to distract while he collects wood for the bonfire to burn everyone in.

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              Emile Rposted 10 years agoin reply to this

              I'm sure it's a fantasy that keeps him warm at night.

              1. JMcFarland profile image72
                JMcFarlandposted 10 years agoin reply to this

                Such a shame that we don't live in a theocracy that allows the burning of heretics,  homosexuals and atheists any more.   I'd say he may be more comfortable in the middle east,  except they have the antiquated rules but a different god,  and his beliefs would probably land him in some dangerous hot water.

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                  Emile Rposted 10 years agoin reply to this

                  I'm sure many fundamentalists would love to have a Christian form of an Imam, so they could issue fatwahs and send people out in the streets to beat us, or douse us with acid if we didn't bow to their interpretation. Their interpretation being every knee will bend to them, since they have the holy spirit and we don't.

                  Unfortunately, without that power they are left with the nany nany boo boo defense.

                  1. JMcFarland profile image72
                    JMcFarlandposted 10 years agoin reply to this

                    Without the political powers,  they're left to decide that not getting their way on everything amounts to persecution.

                  2. oceansnsunsets profile image81
                    oceansnsunsetsposted 10 years agoin reply to this

                    Horrifying.

  20. Cgenaea profile image60
    Cgenaeaposted 10 years ago

    This is not "encouraging people to live properly". It is truth, that's it. Biblical truth.
    Jesus did not pet the lady at the well, he confronted her. I confront myself daily. So check! there... he told her the truth over her lie to herself... he did not give her lollipops and soda. He told her, "I got something to give you for that. Water..."

    1. William Avitt profile image59
      William Avittposted 10 years agoin reply to this

      I think you're missing the entire point of the story of Jesus and the Samaritan woman at the well.  He never confronted her or chastised her.  He merely told her things that no one should know in order to prove himself to her.  And she went away and told others of him.  There is also something else that you're missing about the story.  The woman was of a shunned caste and Jesus treated her no different than he treated the Jews.  Jesus showed her love and understanding, but never judgment

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        Emile Rposted 10 years agoin reply to this

        I don't know where you are going to church, but they seem to understand who Jesus was pretty well. At least, it appears you do. This comment is dead on.

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          William Avittposted 10 years agoin reply to this

          Well, since you were the person I was originally trying to reach in the first place, I appreciate that.  Not all Christians are pompous and judgmental.  The most are, and I apologize on their behalf for that.  Don't give up on Christians because of the horrible ones.  Hold them accountable for their actions, but don't judge all of us because of them

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            Emile Rposted 10 years agoin reply to this

            Well, I don't perceive those posting as Christian hubbers indicative of the majority of Christians. So, no. I wouldn't judge the faith by anything written here. I'm simply saddened by the fact that sometimes it appears that people I consider reasonable will not speak out, as you have. To ensure off the chart opinions aren't seen as agreeable.

            I do get the 'brothers and sisters' thing and understand a desire to gently comment. But, there are those who forge ahead like a bull in a china shop. Who expect to be agreed with and cheered on, or you are accused of being against God or blasphemous. When people I considered reasonable express agreement and offer support to this type of behavior I begin to question the reasonableness of their entire position.

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            Righteous Atheistposted 10 years agoin reply to this

            So - most Christians are pompous and judgmental, but we should not give up on that belief system because of that. Can you give me a good reason not to do so please?

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              William Avittposted 10 years agoin reply to this

              Well, you're going to believe or not.  That's up to you and nothing I say will be able to convince you otherwise.  My point was that you shouldn't judge all of us based on the actions of the fundamentalist zealots.

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                Righteous Atheistposted 10 years agoin reply to this

                Why not? I know what you told me I shouldn't do - it was not "not to judge you all based on the actions of the fundamentalist zealots" it was "not to give up on Christians" based on the fact that - by your own admission - most of them are judgmental and pompous.

                Give me a good reason not to give up on Christians based on the behavior of most of them please. Who should I be judging Christians on? If not the behavior of most of them?

                In any case - I am not judging Christians - I am judging the ideology. If it helps make most of them act this way - I judge it a poor ideology.

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                  William Avittposted 10 years agoin reply to this

                  It isn't the ideology that's wrong, it is the false way these fundamentalist groups interpret the ideology to best suit their agenda of being able to persecute those who don't believe the same way they do, and it is to make them feel superior.  I can't tell you why these fundamentalists feel the need to feel superior over non-believers because, frankly, I don't understand it.  It goes against everything that is taught in the Bible, as I have already pointed out in my comments above.  But I can make the same claim about a lot of Atheists, that they feel intellectually superior to people who choose to believe in God, and they can be just as pompous.  Do I judge all Atheists based solely on the ones who are supreme jerks?  I do not.  Because that would be unfair.  Just like I don't judge all Muslims based on the actions of those who want to blow up buildings and behead people who don't agree with them. 

                  The Bible, at least in the New Testament, which is the foundation of the Christian faith and since Jesus fulfilled the Old Testament on the cross, the only part of it that really matters, teaches us that we should love our neighbor.  And it specifically says time and time again that we are not to judge others, because we are all sinners and we have all fallen short of God's glory.  So the reason I say that you shouldn't judge all of us based on the actions of even the majority (I hope it isn't the majority, but based on the believers I know personally, I can't say that it isn't) because there are those of us who don't behave that way.  You're an Atheist.  A lot of Christians will want to sit here and tell you that you're going to Hell and that you need to accept Christ as your personal savior and that unless you do I have nothing more to say to you.  I'm not going to do that.  Because 1, it's not my place to decide who will get into the Kingdom of Heaven or not.  I will let God make those decisions and 2, I don't know that you're wrong and I'm right.  I have my reasons for believing in God, and I know for myself that he exists, but I have no proof.  No one does.  And I know that it is very easy to write religion off because there is no proof.  And I don't hold that against you.  I don't believe in ghosts.  I've never seen one, I've never seen any credible evidence in the existence of ghosts, therefore, they don't exist.  I can't fault you for looking at God the same way I look at ghosts.  There is no reason for me to believe, just like there is no reason for you to believe in the existence of God.  And again, nothing I say can change that for  you if you've made up your mind.  But what I CAN do, and what I choose to do, is treat you with all of the dignity and respect that you deserve as an intelligent human being, just as I expect to be treated that way.  Christianity is right for me, it doesn't have to be right for you.  That doesn't diminish you as a person and more Christians would do well to realize that.

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                    Righteous Atheistposted 10 years agoin reply to this

                    But - the ideology teaches you that I am going to hell. The bible is clear on that - including the NT.

                    Whether I believe or not is a completely different question to me judging the ideology. The fact that you have decided to pretend Jesus in the NT did not tell me to fear the one with the power to send me to hell is neither here nor there.

                    But - does that mean I should be judging Christianity based on the small minority prepared to pretend that this is not the case? You are the one labelling yourself "Christian" and when I read the bible I find that to be an offensive ideology.

                    As I said - I am not judging Christians - I am judging your ideology. You do believe what Jesus said - don't you?

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                    bBereanposted 10 years agoin reply to this

                    How is this not dripping with your judgment?

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                bBereanposted 10 years agoin reply to this

                How is this not your judgement?

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            bBereanposted 10 years agoin reply to this

            How do you determine the "horrible ones" without employing judgment, pray tell?  Could it just be judgment you don't agree with that you find unbiblical?

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              William Avittposted 10 years agoin reply to this

              No, any judgment against non-believers in unBiblical, as the scriptures I've cited show.  Also, any judgment between 2 believers where one believer is at risk of leading others astray or making the church look bad IS Biblical.  I've shared scriptures to support my understanding of God's law.  Do you have any?  Or are you armed only with your condescending words?

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                Righteous Atheistposted 10 years agoin reply to this

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                  William Avittposted 10 years agoin reply to this

                  First of all, if you'll notice, that comment was directed at someone completely else.  Also, I know what the Bible says.  It seems to me like you've been driven away from God by the same sorts of "believers" I've been decrying this entire time.  But if you want to have a clear and open discussion about the Bible, again, I would be more than happy to discuss it with you.  And if you want to continue to have hatred and resentment in your heart for Christians, that's up to you.  And again, based on the actions of a lot of them, I can't blame you.  I've tried to assure you that I'm not that way.  Whether you believe it or not is up to you

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                    Righteous Atheistposted 10 years agoin reply to this

                    Yes - I realized that was not directed at me - sorry.

                    But - please stop lying about me. I have no hatred and resentment in my heart for Christians - I have told you several times it is the ideology that I reject. You have yet to give me a good reason not to reject this ideology. Yes - all Christians say they are "not that way" wink

                    I am open to being given a good reason. Why have you not done so?

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              William Avittposted 10 years agoin reply to this

              Again, I'm sorry you find the Word of God offensive, and I'm sorry you don't properly understand it.  Probably because you've been led astray yourself.  I will be more than happy to help you discover what the Bible truly says and what it truly means to be a Christian, but you have to enter into it with an open mind.

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                bBereanposted 10 years agoin reply to this

                How is this not your judgment?

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                PhoenixVposted 10 years agoin reply to this

                Properly understand it? Hmmm

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                  Righteous Atheistposted 10 years agoin reply to this

                  Much as I love to see 2 different versions of The Nonsense arguing - this just makes my point. This religion causes nothing but conflict. sad

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                    Rad Manposted 10 years agoin reply to this

                    They must be lacking spiritual discernment. They should simply ask bBerean for the correct answer, he says he has it therefor has the understand those two are looking for. However if those other two claim to have it as well that would mean spiritual discernment is a load of crap.

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                    PhoenixVposted 10 years agoin reply to this

                    When I first saw Superman, I must admit at first I was taken aback. But then I recognized the passion within him and wondered if he were heaven sent, an answer for quiet unspoken prayer to the Lord, seeing that the path of the righteous is beset on all sides by the iniquities and the tyranny of evil mankind. And I thought blessed is he who in the name of charity and good will shepherds the weak through the valley of darkness, for he is truly his brother's keeper and the finder of lost children.And that he would strike down with his words, with great vengeance and furious anger, those who attempt to poison and destroy the brethren, so that we would know the name of the Lord

      2. Cgenaea profile image60
        Cgenaeaposted 10 years agoin reply to this

        If she had said, "Keep your damn fake  water!" What would have been his response to her?
        And please back up your opinion with scripture. We seem to have a disconnect.

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          William Avittposted 10 years agoin reply to this

          But that wasn't her response to him.  I don't think I understand what you're saying or what you're asking of me.  We may, indeed, be having a disconnect because I don't understand what you're asking of me or what opinions you're wanting me to cite with Scriptures.  I'm more than happy to do that, but I don't understand what you're asking of me.

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            Cgenaeaposted 10 years agoin reply to this

            It is the response that people give to the words of God, these dsys. Didn't you know??? Oh! How could you??? Silly me... my bad.

  21. Rosalynson profile image60
    Rosalynsonposted 10 years ago

    There are two types of Christians that i have come across.

    The first type being nice people that want to help others. They will share their religion with you if you want them to but will not force it upon you or make you feel inferior because you don't believe.

    The second type being stuck up A-holes that look down on you like some bit of muck on their shoe. They believe they are better than you, they gossip a lot especially in church. They're kind of like that gang of kids in school that constantly make you feel uncomfortable. They will be nice when you first meet, but will then try and force religion upon you. If you don't like it, they will most definitely go back to their gang and talk about it.

    This is why i stopped going to church. Too many nasty people disguising themselves as lovely beings behind the mask of religion. I feel for the other Christians that are actually genuine people who have to put up with people like that.

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      William Avittposted 10 years agoin reply to this

      And that's just really sad, isn't it?  Those stuck up, judgmental Christians are doing more to turn people away from God than the devil ever could.  Seriously, what's so hard about "Love your neighbor as yourself?"  You said you stopped going to church, I sincerely hope you haven't turned away from the faith.  We need more Christians out there showing love to one another and to non - believers

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        Rosalynsonposted 10 years agoin reply to this

        No, i haven't lost my faith. I was criticised for not going to church often enough, this was down to the types of people in that church.. Going to church is a personal choice, it isn't mandatory - though some believe it is. God will still hear you no matter where you are. You aren't rushed to church on your deathbed to ask for forgiveness or whatever it is you need to ask for in your very last moment of this life - you speak to him where ever you lie. If he can hear you there, he can hear me throughout the whole week whilst i am working. Some Christians agreed, the gang didn't.

  22. Cgenaea profile image60
    Cgenaeaposted 10 years ago

    The first type being nice people that want to help others. They will share their religion with you if you want them to but will not force it upon you or make you feel inferior because you don't believe.

    Yes, just the kind of Christian that man is calling for, in these last and evil days.
    Making one to feel inferior is the work of the bible. No one may measure up... we are inferior to God. That is why the instruction to take self (and your fragile feelings) out of the picture.
    God says, "I told you to turn left." We say, "I know, Lord! But this way is much prettier."
    He does not like disobedient servants.
    The huddle went like this, "I know you are gonna face some tough competitors! When I went, they booed and hissed and acted all kinds of ignorant. They will do you too!!!"
    Do they boo and hiss at you? Or do you get a round of applause?
    If no, why? Was Jesus a liar???
     

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      Rosalynsonposted 10 years agoin reply to this

      There are nicer ways to push religion on people, darling. You are obviously part of a church gang that believe you are better than others. The reality of it is, more people believe in religion than you may care to notice - Just because they don't want it pushing on them, because they don't want to be apart of a group of judgemental people, doesn't mean they are any less better then you. When i say judgemental, i also mean petty judgemental.

      "Ohhhh, look at what he's wearing"

      " Oh dear, she doesn't have a clue what she's doing with that child. [Bicker bicker bicker]"

      Let's be honest... if god were to come down into a church, who do you think he would throw out first? His genuine followers or the gang stood in the corner?

      Some people have genuine reasons for not believing. i lost my faith for a very long time. My mum and step dad were killed when i was 9. I grew up without them and i convinced myself that there can't be a god - after all, what god would take parents away from 7 children and leave them orphaned? Later being scattered around England, Scotland and Wales?

      What kind of god would do that???

      So i lost faith. when i reunited with my family 5 years ago - 9 years after being separated, they forced religion down my throat. I obviously wasn't having any of it and they 'all' bar my nan and grandad disowned me.

      They are fellow Christians

      They, are fellow A-holes

      You will be happy to know though, before you judge me, that i have regained faith but i have not regained faith in the church.

  23. Cgenaea profile image60
    Cgenaeaposted 10 years ago

    Sybil??? Is that you???

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    Emile Rposted 10 years ago

    Reading through the conversations last night, I've begun to wonder. I know Superman said he goes to church. He seems to have a level headed understanding of Jesus.

    What sect does he belong with? Did he come to this understanding through the church or of his own accord? I get the impression he has great fellowship with like minded believers.

    Correct me if I'm wrong, but those bent on attacking his understanding....you guys go it alone. Right? None lead but what you are viewing as the holy spirit. (notice the lack of caps there. It's important)

    If I've understood each of you correctly, I see a trend developing.

    I like you super man. You appear to attempt to embody the spirit of Christ. It's always a pleasure to make this assumption. Even if only fleeting. It warms the heart.

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      bBereanposted 10 years agoin reply to this

      I realize he seeks to sooth your itching ears and this will make him quite popular, but will you be consistent?  You have made clear on more than one occasion that to even hold a belief in hell is to be worse than a Nazi death camp guard manning the ovens.  Is there now a red caped guard dressed in blue, or will you find an exception for him, somehow?

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        Emile Rposted 10 years agoin reply to this

        That's why i said if only fleeting. Those with a good understanding of the spirit of Christ have the hardest road to walk. Because they understand on some levels. They want to be his disciples. And that is difficult in this reality. With these eyes. With billions and billions of others one must find the means by which to be the embodiment of the spirit.

        We all stumble and fall, but holding to the example will help us rise again and try again.

        Yes. I find the doctrine of hell abhorrent. There are many I respect who hold to it. They rise above it, in this reality. Love God, love man. You have to understand love in order to understand how personal belief of cosmic consequences does not need to negate your ability to love, without redefining and bastardizing the term.

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        PhoenixVposted 10 years agoin reply to this

        An exception, only? I'm thinking he will be recruited and bound with the kryptonite of insincere flattery, to do their bidding. The antithesis of superman.

        At first I thought we had the passion of David, come to defend the innocent, against Goliath. A Shepherd to fight the wolves as opposed to one that would fall in with their lot.  C' est la vie

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          Emile Rposted 10 years agoin reply to this

          Heaven forbid anyone show a compassionate understanding of this great monster you guys perceive to exist in the form of Jesus. Blasphemous. Satan incarnate. Oh, the shame. roll

    2. Cgenaea profile image60
      Cgenaeaposted 10 years agoin reply to this

      So!!! Round of applause, it is...  Jesus, definitely was not a liar...

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      William Avittposted 10 years agoin reply to this

      I'm sure the fundamentalists will attack me for this next, but I'm Catholic.  I've been to just about any kind of church you could imagine, though.  Most of my understanding of Scripture has come from many sources.  Some of it from official church teachings, a lot of it through debate and discussion with others and some of it from my own understanding.  I am blessed to belong to a great church.  Even though Catholic teaching is very much against any kind of birth control, my wife has had her tubes tied.  We felt that was the right decision for us and after much prayer on the subject we felt we had God's blessing.  And we haven't had a single person in our church judge or condemn us for doing it.  Most everyone is understanding that people need to make decisions that are right for them and everyone was supportive.  It wasn't a decision we made lightly, but we have 4 kids and like I said, we prayed a lot about it.  So yeah, that's me

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        Emile Rposted 10 years agoin reply to this

        Well, chin up. Your actions here have been a fine testimony to the love of Christ.

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          Cgenaeaposted 10 years agoin reply to this

          At least it's closer to yes... wink

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            Emile Rposted 10 years agoin reply to this

            I have no idea what that means and your comments directed at me through this thread (and others) showcase the fact that whatever it might mean is of little consequence

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              Cgenaeaposted 10 years agoin reply to this

              Well I never!!! ...of little consequence... does she know...??? Ha!!!
              I'll show YOU who's of little consequence.
              L O L...
              I have tried to get that message through for a long long long time. smile
              God, is where the concerns should lie. But not many people believe that...

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                Emile Rposted 10 years agoin reply to this

                Look. I am going to take Johnny's advice and walk away from this pointless exchange, but before I go I will reiterate. You do not speak for God. You are not defending God. You do not get to define God. The best you can hope for is to be the embodiment of the spirit. But, honestly, genaea. You need guidance from someone who can help you understand what the spirit is before you can begin to attempt to find that path. The path you are sharing here is far removed.

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                  Cgenaeaposted 10 years agoin reply to this

                  "Look. I am going to take Johnny's advice and walk away from this pointless exchange,"
                  Thank you... smile Have a Good Day!!!

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        Rosalynsonposted 10 years agoin reply to this

        I believe the bible is a manual to life. However, with all manuals, sometimes you have to tweak it to fit your own circumstances. Just because the shed manual shows you how to build a shed roof, doesn't necessarily mean you can't build a gable roof instead. So long as it works, then it's a success. The bible helps you make right decisions, but there are many decisions in life that are the right ones. In this life, it's incredibly difficult to follow those guidelines to a T. I'm glad your church supported you. Some churches would have torn you apart like a joint of meat thrown into a lions den.

        1. Cgenaea profile image60
          Cgenaeaposted 10 years agoin reply to this

          Don't go a tweaking on the bible. (Sounds like a Country smash hit.. Danger there! Men at work. Slippery when wet...

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            Rosalynsonposted 10 years agoin reply to this

            OK so maybe tweaking was the wrong word to use, but i'm sure you get the general gist of the reply. Sometimes you have to make different decisions

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              Cgenaeaposted 10 years agoin reply to this

              That is exactly what Miss Definitelynotfundie would like for you to believe very much. It's her way; she feels the bible to be tainted... unless it makes a great point of sarcasm.

  25. Cgenaea profile image60
    Cgenaeaposted 10 years ago

    You ol Catholic tube tyer!!! Is that the attack you've wished for? Or do I need a bit more bass??? smile

    I'm divorced twice with two children who belong to different men... I win!!! smile
    Won't stop me from knowing, bowing to, and telling truth. Truth leads to correction. I need it too sometimes..

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    Emile Rposted 10 years ago

    Actually, oceans, it isn't one individual. It's a mindset shared by many. Agree with us or you are stupid, making it up as you go, led by satan, lacking relationship with the spirit. Take your pick.

    I'm sorry if you don't understand the problem. That's ok. But defending one side without actively seeking an understanding is not, in my opinion, advisable.

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      oceansnsunsetsposted 10 years agoin reply to this

      I am going with the examples you are seeming to provide, Genaea is the sole focus here, and you are not sharing more.  I did respond to the other list like this one.  I do get it actually.  To me, its very clear, but what isn't clear is the outrage for the "crimes."  I am not seeing the comments you speak of, but have in the distant past, or maybe truly missing them.  Even so, I already responded.  I am not unclear on how some here want to make some people be, while acting like they are doing nothing wrong.

      I am only mentioning it over and over in case people might care about it.  I think they do not.  I can stop, but the truth remains.   

      "Its not one individual....."  Why not point it out as it happens?  I also see it not being one individual on the bandwagon response....

      You see, when you point out a perceived fault of mine, it shows I am/was assuming the best about you.  I know of at least one other person you mean, and I addressed that.  I understand now how much this means to you that you hold on to tightly to things despite working through the ideas to see if they even hold water.  Truth is, you seem to be mad that people say things like "making it up as you go?"  Do you even read my posts, and not see what you yourself post?  I think I have said my part a few times over.  That is sufficient. Oh well.   I find you and your side to be unfair, and am so glad you are not my judge.  So glad.   

      Who could have sought more understanding than me in these last several posts from me, since I got in here?  Because of how you have conducted yourself more fairly in the past, is WHY I gave you the benefit of the doubt.  One sides quirky ways of talking are being magnified, one side seems to be completely ignored by you.  I did seek understanding, and this is part of why I find you to truly be unfair in your assessment of these things.  Oh well, people do change I guess.  Btw, this isn't defending the comments like you are stupid, led by satan, or not led by the spirit.  I think those are not supportable.  As I said before.

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        Emile Rposted 10 years agoin reply to this

        Oceans. It is my contention that everyone 'makes it up as they go'. We read. We seek understanding. We draw vastly different conclusions. These are our conclusions. We are all seeking. To present an opinion as fact while implying other opinions are made up is hypocritical and dishonest.

        None has the right to attempt to convince others they are not worthy of opinion because, by their opinion, others lack spirit. It's rather selfish.

        You can believe whatever you want. As can I. What we do with our belief makes a difference. I can't stand by and not speak out against what i consider arrogance, selfishness, etc. This doctrine is predicated under the assumption a magical key exists. I chose to speak out against it because I believe this belief is solely designed to be used to step on the backs of others in order to raise oneself in one's own eyes. I don't believe it is a cosmically approved belief.

        You are advocating that one belief structure be allowed carte blanc right to function without opposition. Could I ask why?

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          oceansnsunsetsposted 10 years agoin reply to this

          You don't see how you chastised one person and stopped talking to them for saying the exact same thing about making it up as you go, well ok.  How can anyone present an opinion as fact, that is splitting hairs and claiming you have some insight into another's mind almost.... if you are simply going off the semantics in order to justifying judging others while not wanting to be judged by them.   I have pointed out numerous times also, what I see as hypocritical and dishonest.

          The fact we are all in here and discussing anything I would have THOUGHT meant we automatically knew we all have opinions.  Why do you let it be such an offense to you when SOME say you lack spirit?  You are almost giving credence to the idea for the severe knee jerk response, are you not?  I will tell you Emile, that I don't think a truly spirit filled person should be telling a non believer they are not filled with the spirit, as they are.  If that is how it was said, as you present there.  I don't think Christ would do that, and its more of a topic you would speak of in church or among friends.  Its not going to win anyone over,  but I haven't seen comments like this in a while to be honest.  I think what is happening is you are letting some views of what I think are more of a Pentecostal background or leaning, really get to you.  I don't blame you though for asking them to stop that if/when it happens, because its not helpful in any of the discussions we could have here really, that I can think of.  If I am wrong, I am wrong, and would look into that.

          If anyone has REALLY made you feel that you are unworthy of an opinion as you say there, then I do also disagree with that.  Of course you have an opinion, and all I have seen indicates others do as well.  Also, "in the eyes of who?"  In whose eyes, do you think they are not saying you have an opinion? God's?  If so, why are you giving so much credence to that, if you just think they are so out of line and wrong anyway?  Emile, you DO have an opinion obviously, and you ought to share it in forums.  The thing is, we can be fair or not, fair assessors of things or not, and can fall into the trap of doing the very same things we are being accusers of ourselves,   Right?

          I think you sharing your beliefs about these other beliefs here sheds light for me at least, because it does explain your strong reaction some.  If you think people here are supporting and sharing ideas that indicate stepping on the backs of others in order to raise themselves up in their own eyes, share how and why you think so, WHEN they do it, and then I can agree with you perhaps.   The people you seem to be speaking of, for stepping on the backs of others supposedly, get the most heat of all, and show the most strength of all I think.  They take much more heat than they ever give.  How, in having your opinion here, are you not having your opinion heard, and why can't others disagree with you?  People that are strong in their belief don't call the shots in the cosmic realm, nor could they.   I would love to hear what you think is the cosmically approved belief, and what you use to discern that others are wrong when you think they are, and you clearly do.  The forums should be a great place to do that or a hub.  At least the others are laying their views out for all to see, and they get huge response.  Disagree with their doctrine, and admit you have one of your own too which is strong enough that you have to speak out against others. 

          Your last sentence there is absolutely false, just to correct that error.  So your question is moot, because the statement before is false. Can I ask you why you would say such a thing?  That doesn't sound like me one bit, and you should know better.  I think all views need to be tested and hard, and not afraid one bit to test my own or others belief structures.  I am also able to admit I have views and others do as well.  Holy cow Emile.....

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            Emile Rposted 10 years agoin reply to this

            The one you claim I 'cut off' was simply accepting the pointlessness of continuing the exchange. Summary dismissal of the validity of another thought process does not set the stage for a productive exchange. Funny, because it was the second person here who had offered to provide backup from the OT for belief in this doctrine of Satan and hell. Neitherhhas followed through and I perceived the snip as the need to cut me off at the pass because justification does not exist. I felt I was doing both a favor.

            But,, I'm afraid I do see you as giving quarter to one side of the debate without actively attempting to understand the other. It's simply how I perceive your comments, thus far.

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              oceansnsunsetsposted 10 years agoin reply to this

              I don't claim it, you said it, and I recall it because it was so strange to me.  You have since said the same thing more than twice, and don't receive the same.  Its kind of a big thing to do to in a place like this, and very quick too, as he brought up excellent points from the OT to support the ideas of Jesus on something possibly unpleasant in eternity.  Why would they follow through with more than the verses provided as proof, when you say you are ceasing interaction with them?  So I see it very different, and just pointing out the "not ok for one, but ok for me to do over and over....."  Making it up as you go along is worth one thing at one time, but not at others. 

              From what I am seeing, I don't blame you for thinking for what you do about how you think I am giving quarter to one side, even with my responses, but I totally disagree.   I don't think with what I have said, that makes any sense.   I think you might be going off of feelings more than the facts in some of these cases, and not asking what might explain those feelings.  Often our feelings have good reasons behind them, in terms of explaining them, but I think we aren't always at ease with those reasons.  So its easier to respond in other ways that are more soothing perhaps.  I don't know, just contemplating what would explain this all to me, because I try hard to be fair and stick to the facts myself, and they aren't measuring up to me.  We can disagree.....  You will have to bear with me in that change.  It was never this way before.  I  can be done, and ought to be. Most of my points have gone unaddressed, the ones that really matter in all of this.  I can understand that, and see instead little quips of simple disagreement.  One can't say that I haven't tried to be as fair as I know how to be.

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                Emile Rposted 10 years agoin reply to this

                No one would accuse you of not attempting to be fair. I think we all attempt that. The problem usually lies in a difference of opinion as to what fair is.

                Anyway, to reiterate. My opinion is simply that. I'm well grounded enough to understand that. Claiming the back up of a deity and insisting there is punishment involved for not agreeing with my opinion would not be representative of being well grounded. It would be a pointless and embarrassing display of ego.

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                  oceansnsunsetsposted 10 years agoin reply to this

                  To this I would just reply, that is why in part, I wondered about other books or revelation.  Wouldn't what you just said, describe the Jesus you seem to respect.  Wouldn't it?  To anyone that has read the gospels, Jesus spoke of negative consequences.  I am not sure I understand the wanting to be so divorced from that if we are using the same texts as how we know about deities. How is that being well grounded if that is what is being done? If you say that isn't what is being done, then what explains the seeming excising of the tougher verses as needed or desired? 

                  On the flip side, we see punishment and shame being dished out here and now for those not agreeing with some people's opinions.  That is a for sure thing going on.  Is that an embarrassing display of ego, since its smack dab in front of us?  From the OP on, this isn't up for debate even, its so bold.  And now i feel like I am asking the same questions over and over in different ways, in my extreme desire to share what I am seeing that seems so obvious. I am thinking its not going to happen, not with my efforts alone.

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                    Emile Rposted 10 years agoin reply to this

                    Well, at the risk of being once again called blasphemous....I think it's important to remember Jesus didn't write anything. His ideas are filtered through other minds. If the image of the man becomes too fragmented by opposing ideas then one has to wonder why.

                    You can't simply say the Bible is the irrefutable word of God. If you do then you've got to begin to resolve the contradictions. Impossible task. So, then you start picking and choosing what supports your philosophy. Dangerous task.

                    I simply think the actions of Jesus must be used as a filter for understanding intent. If the actions are at odds with your understanding, your understanding may be off.

  27. oceansnsunsets profile image81
    oceansnsunsetsposted 10 years ago

    And the objective appears to be achieved ..., for a time

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      PhoenixVposted 10 years agoin reply to this

      It's a marvel and a wonderment and, oh, so many startlements to see the fundy atheists so adamant about winning souls for Jesus! Praise God. All good things work smile

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        Emile Rposted 10 years agoin reply to this

        What's in a name? You shouldn't judge by a few letters strung together. Actions and words strung together are more indicative of who the person is.

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          oceansnsunsetsposted 10 years agoin reply to this

          Now that is something I can agree with, even though these last couple of months we seem to disagree on a lot. 

          This is why fairness matters so much.

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            Emile Rposted 10 years agoin reply to this

            As I previously stated. It appears that the term 'fair' has become subjective. If it only applies to those who support a particular opinion, it doesn't fit the definition as I understand it.

            1. JMcFarland profile image72
              JMcFarlandposted 10 years agoin reply to this

              I agree.  Fair is only fair if it can be agreed upon.  I'm sorry, but someone repeatedly saying that they are fair doesn't really mean much to me. 

              To me, the epitome of fair is when people on both sides of the discussion are willing to recognize and speak on it about a particular individual.  If someone thinks that fair is only fair when they only support, applaud and seek confirmation from one side while continually lambasting and criticizing the other, that is not fairness.  That's preaching to the choir and getting a pat on the back from the people whose position you already agree with.  How is that the definition of fair to some people?

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                Emile Rposted 10 years agoin reply to this

                Yep. Sometimes the cheering gallery mistakes itself for impartial observers. Very frustrating.

            2. oceansnsunsets profile image81
              oceansnsunsetsposted 10 years agoin reply to this

              And I wild totally agree to that also!

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                Emile Rposted 10 years agoin reply to this

                Don't take this the wrong way. But, you've attempted to call me out several times here. I don't remember you making a peep during the conversations that led me to this juncture. I'm not certain you are in a position to be fair and impartial.

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                  oceansnsunsetsposted 10 years agoin reply to this

                  Yes i have called you out several times for the reasons stated because of the sheer change I see in you.  Others aren't getting the responses because it's par for the course for them and their character over the years that I've seen.

                  If you wondered at my silence at all in the last several weeks andontjs, it's because I want here.  My activity would show this and when/ if I was here it was for a hub comment here and there.   I am shocked at what I'm seeing as I look back. 

                  If you care to bring up more particular examples so I can respond to more as I have these last couple of days I will gladly share how I agree or disagree with those too.  I do make a big effort to be as absolutely fair as I can be.  This is also what what led me to respect you so much in the past.  You even did it when you got heat for it and were targeted.  I recall it well. 

                  Now your newfound supporters were the very ones you used to stand up to,  for being unfair and partial only to their friends and own side.  You used to SO much dislike the bullying tactics we see too often on here that if I recall, you had respect from all the different sides! That isn't even easy to do!  Perhaps I'm recalling too positively again lol. 

                  These are clues to me even if you don't care to see it as such.  Not a whole lot exains such things and this is where I won't speculate about it.  It's just sad to me.  So these last several days that I've had time to even be in here, are me reeling an responding as I always have.  With me, it's the same as usual.  Perhaps this was always the real you and the othe person I thought I knew was the "unreal" one for lack of better. 

                  Right now in here people are talking of horrific things and they are unwarranted and you stand by.... But hey you've got their support!  It's an upside to some people, and it is what it is.

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                    Emile Rposted 10 years agoin reply to this

                    I don't look to see where people have been. If you haven't been here, I'm surprised you are so quick to jump to conclusions.

                    I an not inclined to attempt to justify my opinions to anyone by hunting down exchanges, rehashing them, and attempting to gain your support. I don't need validation for my opinions.

                    I'm sorry if you don't understand the abhorrence I feel toward behavior patterns displayed by the fundamentalist mentality.

                    My 'newfound supporters' as you call them appear to agree on this issue. I wouldn't assume we would create some voting block in order to bully in the manner I perceive is being perpetuated by those supporting this fundamentalist attack. But, hey. Anything is possible, eh? You've apparently tried and convicted me of crimes undone, so I'm sure it is possible for you to see future action in a similarly jaded light.

                  2. PhoenixV profile image65
                    PhoenixVposted 10 years agoin reply to this

                    What would those horrific things be? The intentional and malicious smears and sweeping generalizations of Christians with radical groups? We should create our own adage similar to Godwins Law (although the atheist actually thinks thats comparable to an actual formal logical fallacy, than just hyperbole).

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            PhoenixVposted 10 years agoin reply to this

            A good name means a lot and is representative of a good reputation. Although some believers (mostly heretics) , might not think there is nothing in a name, but it does mean something.


            But these are written, that ye might believe that Jesus is the Christ, the Son of God; and that believing ye might have life through his name.

            Then Peter said unto them, Repent, and be baptized every one of you in the name of Jesus Christ for the remission of sins, and ye shall receive the gift of the Holy Ghost

            That at the name of Jesus every knee should bow, of things in heaven, and things in earth, and things under the earth;

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              oceansnsunsetsposted 10 years agoin reply to this

              Hey!

              I went back and found this comment, which preceded the "grasping at straws" other heretic comments.....  This "mostly heretics" is referring to me, you guys!  Its a running gag that we have that goes back over 8 years.  8 years at least we have been friends and debating on many sites long before we got here.  So the heretic believers he was talking about, was me, lol. 

              Phoenix, you make a fair point about a good name, and while you tease me like this, I appreciate what you say here, and know you were joking in using the term heretic and don't really want me burned at the stake nor do you dream about that of me or anyone when you are alone in the privacy of your own place, lol. 

              He teases me about my heretical beliefs.... a running gag.  Sorry if this takes the fun out of what was being assumed.....Happy to clear it up, and the other comments remain.  It makes sense in this context.

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                PhoenixVposted 10 years agoin reply to this

                Perhaps apostasy is a better word? ( I wont mention your excommunication) or Trinity beliefs.

  28. oceansnsunsets profile image81
    oceansnsunsetsposted 10 years ago

    Some of the mentalities we see displayed here, will I think be the prevailing kind or type of mentality that will be in play toward the end of things.  We live in an interesting time for sure.  This will be fought and won, or not.  If not, we know what happens next.  This is what I meant in an earlier post about sticking close to the truth, to the fair judge that knows all and all angles and sides and all hearts and minds.  Lord knows I am not perfect, and struggle too.  I have never denied that.  Its a time thing.... a matter of time.  My prayer is that people wake up, that the scales fall off, some will want to know and seek, and not be bound by such things that hurt so many.  To any that would ever want to possibly know the truth, whatever that is, (and I think it is God)

    Even without God though, this all should not be happening among rational, decent and moral people that esteem good over bad.  This is another clue, or meant to be, that something is amiss.  No one is curious enough to have explain, the unexplainable?  I think they are and are suppressing it for now, but hopefully not forever. 

    Our preferences and judgements of a possible god that would disagree with our preferences in his final assessment, are only just that.  Why do we fight SO hard against the one that made all this, all of us, as if he had so much evil in store for us, rather than continued good like we have had in this life?  We fight so hard against ideas that we KNOW help maintain good and free societies in this life, but if God were to do it, it is so immoral.

  29. JMcFarland profile image72
    JMcFarlandposted 10 years ago

    I see the word hateful thrown around a lot from the Christians on these pages.  While I despise a lot of Christian theology, I don't despise the Christians - even when they stand behind them.  I can't think of a single Christian that I hate on hubpages.  There are many that I don't care for, and many that I will no longer interact with, but that doesn't mean that I hate them.  What is meant by hateful? Speaking against doctrine?  Speaking against the action that doctrine often sparks?  Speaking out against certain actions and words of believers?  Is all of that hateful? 

    It seems that hate is being applied as inequitably as the term "fair" is.  Believers don't see the things they say to unbelievers as hateful, even when it is pointed out.  In fact, they often insist that it's being said out of love.  I see this as a double standard of the highest order.  It's one of the reason I have a hard time believing that the majority of them in this forum have an interest in fairness, rationality, respect or conversation.  They simply want to assert that they are fair, rational and (of course) exactly right in their position - even against other believers who disagree with them, let alone the atheists.  it's absurd.

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      bBereanposted 10 years agoin reply to this

      Fine.  Here is but a sample of what I proposed doing, taken from this thread not long ago.  Please show me how this was presented lovingly, or even neutrally.  You think "hateful" is a stretch?  Considering how it is used when supporting political correctness both by protesters of different issues and the media, "hateful" is much more clearly illustrated here.  Show me what other purpose was served if not that:




      It's pretty clear.

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        Emile Rposted 10 years agoin reply to this

        This is funny. That quote here:
        was taken from a quote by Phoenix previously. I was simply curious if being accused of the same thing he had accused me of would be considered offensive. Do you bother to read the comments on the thread in their entirety, or do you just hunt around for stuff to complain about. Because, this is a little hypocritical.

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          bBereanposted 10 years agoin reply to this

          Not at all.  I only included that as it set the stage for what was to follow.  You can go ahead and include his entire quote as preface and it does not negate my point one bit.  Nice try though.

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            Emile Rposted 10 years agoin reply to this

            Seriously? Restating his comment is terrible for me, but not terrible for him to say it in the first place?

            Do you read what you write?

            I can see we have a kangaroo court in session.

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              bBereanposted 10 years agoin reply to this

              You're seriously still missing this?  My point, which still stands, was about the exchange between you and JCM that followed.

          2. oceansnsunsets profile image81
            oceansnsunsetsposted 10 years agoin reply to this

            I think the point  by Phoenix in that scenario was misunderstood by her.  He was doing something creative in hopes of making a point, as I saw it, lol.  He can speak for himself though, but I saw the misunderstanding earlier.   The least of those comments you shared that prefaced the others. Yet the need to EMPHASIZE the non point......  as if its key and now turning on you, lol.

            We see an extreme dishing out, that if commented on is turned around to a severe degree.  It is almost as if those making the comments you shared, are acting then like the victims!  Its fairly unbelievable, yet we see the dishing out again and again from the OP on, and claiming to be nearly victims as we see.  Acting like others are just stupid or not understanding, or not willing to understand all the sides, etc.  What isn't to understand about these comments!?  Again, the way I see my held views supported in such things is something I cannot begin to make up.  Its not pleasant, but it is explained.

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              Emile Rposted 10 years agoin reply to this

              Stop to think for a moment. You are saying Phoenix was being creative. But, I was being unkind. Same words. But, somehow I am at fault.

              You guys really need to get a grip. I can't follow this hypocrisy without doubling over in laughter.

              1. oceansnsunsets profile image81
                oceansnsunsetsposted 10 years agoin reply to this

                I don't have an issue with your repeating the comment from Phoenix, why would I. I have an issue for all the other horrifying comments you and McFarland laid out, that you are avoiding responding to, like the plague.  As Bberean said, nice try.  It doesn't fly.  You are super transparent.  Stop making people pay for discussing with you.  He was keying in on your response to the brand new person, and making a point.  I don't have a problem with it, and you missed the whole point, or maybe you didn't.  Repeat away.  It doesn't take away from the comments about what you said about Phoenix and others in general.  Not from the point of the OP till today. 

                You don't get to turn things around and actually change truths of matters.  Even if you fool yourself, truth stands on its own.

                1. bBerean profile image61
                  bBereanposted 10 years agoin reply to this

                  Well put. +1

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                  Emile Rposted 10 years agoin reply to this

                  Do I honestly need to go back through the thread like bberean and find the offensive comments directed at me?

                  No. I won't. You guys are welcome to represent this in any hypocritical manner you choose. I'll address what I feel is fair.

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                  Emile Rposted 10 years agoin reply to this

                  I lied. I took the time to find one.  See below.

                  CGENAEA WROTE:

                  So now you want to pretend as if... lol
                  I guess you're good at "coy" too. wink
                  You are the most avid slanderer and judge of God himself, that I have encountered on these pages. I take umbrage with that.


                  Simply for having a difference of opinion I am met with that. Please, gyrate around that and tell me that was a good Christian comment. I have never slandered God or judged God. Nor have I slandered Genaea. That was a lie that was known to be a lie when it was posted.

                  1. oceansnsunsets profile image81
                    oceansnsunsetsposted 10 years agoin reply to this

                    You take issue with Jesus' word about hell, and judge he and God for that, yet blame believers it seems to appear to me.  I myself have said that I find you to judge God as he is portrayed in the Bible.  People do this all the time, your friends do it a lot.  I don't know all CGenaea has seen of you to say you are to the degree she says here, you would have to ask her.  Coy, sure.  Judge of God, yes.....  I have already spoken to you in fine details just this weekend on that topic. 

                    Ask Genaea what she meant, and be happy she didn't say about you what you said about others today!

                    What about your other quotes Bberean shared.  Those are just some.  What about the OP you never made the case for and pretend others just don't understand how innocent it is of you?  Do not think someone sharing with you this post makes you escape what you and J said......  Its not remotely the same, and not hypocritical either like you so need me to be. 

                    I am done speaking with you,so if you have anything else to accuse me of and others of, do it quickly.  I knew if I didn't respond, you would accuse all the more of having something to run from or hide.  I am just running from the immoral tack being taken here and the seeming insanity.  I have already stopped reading and responding to others as you well know from our past exchanges when I thought I knew you.  I am done, because this tempts people to stoop to the same treatment of others out of desperation of being accused in such manners.  I won't be a part of it.

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                    Cgenaeaposted 10 years agoin reply to this

                    It was about the slander of me and God (though we are servant and master, respectively) you make up my intent in your head on a consistant basis... words of SCRIPTURE his you to the point that you wrongfully attribute and assume that YOU have been called a name...
                    It was also about the SHEER judgement of God himself! As if you can point your finger at HIM???? for being: unjust, whiny, tyrannical, immature, a lover of genocide/rape/lies, immoral, a horrible communicator, and/or UNREAL...think about that last one for a second.

          3. oceansnsunsets profile image81
            oceansnsunsetsposted 10 years agoin reply to this

            Its about held belief about people, with strong faith even. 

            Certain ones must be wrong, even when they aren't, and those making the comments must be innocent and victims, and for the discussing of it, you get drawn in too as one to accuse... 

            Its the same ole, just with a new addition to the team as I see it.  My long absences from these forums I think helps me to see this change more clear and obvious, cut and dry almost.  The rest of you probably saw the process as more subtle.

      2. JMcFarland profile image72
        JMcFarlandposted 10 years agoin reply to this

        I'm sorry, does the term "heretic" from a Christian bring back loving, positive sentiments to you?  When I think of the word "heretic" , the only thing that comes to mind is the inquisition and burning at the stake.  What connotations does it bring up to you?

        I'm sorry, but he later said Heretic was a running gag.  I fail to see the humor.  Maybe YOU can enlighten me.  Did being convicted of heresy ever bring love to people?  I'm pretty sure it brought torture and horrific death.

        If you think that pointing out the irony in such a historically loaded and dangerous term from a fundamentalist is hateful, when really the actions of those that threw that word around previously IS hateful, then have at it.

  30. bBerean profile image61
    bBereanposted 10 years ago

    If the OP wanted to expose dishonesty it has certainly been on display in this thread, unfortunately not from the camp it alleges.

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      Emile Rposted 10 years agoin reply to this

      Difference of opinion. Well, maybe not. Like I said. One side seems to display a seriously weak grasp on reality. That might be part of the reason we can't see eye to eye.

      1. oceansnsunsets profile image81
        oceansnsunsetsposted 10 years agoin reply to this

        Agreed.  So all we have to go on is how people conduct themselves ongoing, see how fair they are with everyone, even those they disagree with, and their character.  It comes through.  When two sides are opposing each other and each says the opposite, we go by other things to make determinations.

        A side with more numbers and more tactics they are willing to stoop down to, gives off an impression that its a losing battle to even try here.  Its just an appearance though.  The anger and vitriol and maltreatment we see ongoing is explained when we see people are defending against these actions but don't have actual truth and morality to back them up. They are frustrated perhaps they can't actually have their cake and eat it too.  I wish people would wake up and make better choices and avoid all that extra drama, but it can't be forced.

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          Emile Rposted 10 years agoin reply to this

          This is so sad. I feel as if you are describing the side you are attempting to defend.

          I see that my original assumption that these unhealthy views were held by only a few was wrong. I am saddened to know this. But, so be it. Reality is what it is. Thanks for opening my eyes.

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            oceansnsunsetsposted 10 years agoin reply to this

            Of course this is what I would expect you would say.  I am not surprised, and I don't mind it one bit  because its become par for the course for several days at least.  People are smart. Its at the point that if you say I hold unhealthy views, after everything else you have said, that I can walk away with the idea that I very likely hold healthy views.  This is true of a good handful of others here as well.  What is hard for me is the change as I have indicated so often now.  Is there anything else?  I will hang in there and hope for the best for opening of eyes.

  31. oceansnsunsets profile image81
    oceansnsunsetsposted 10 years ago

    This whole thread, starting with its title has to be a bummer for HP, to be honest. It keeps coming up in the feed, and is so negative against a whole group of people.  Of course some support and love it, but most would surely admit its a turn off and not conducive to anything good and worthwhile on a site we all invest some time and effort into.

    Its just another form of the bullying and thugging of a group that believes differently.  I could  NOT have tried any harder to ask questions and probe into the topic to see what could be being talked about?  I assumed the best, so I asked, "Are we talking about the fringe that calls themselves church leaders and that abuse kids?  Surely that kind of thing must be meant, right?"  Oh no...its much less like people saying, "you lack discernment, or get behind me..." Or people that believe Jesus believed in the hell he spoke of more than heaven.  If I am mistaken and its about "christians" picketing funerals, correct me now, but I asked this long ago.  Its a big drama meant to just gang up for more  people not standing up to those horrifying Christians that call others (wait for it... big gulp) things like "coy, judge of god." 

    I for one, am ready to stop bumping it as it gives off the impression its a good discussion going. Its not, its one of the worst I think. Sadly, by a person that USED to be so fair and would stand up against the likes of those behaving like herself.

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      Emile Rposted 10 years agoin reply to this

      The best way to make it stop coming up on the feed is stop posting. It's over. You guys have made it clear that this behavior is acceptable and preferred. That was all I was asking and the question has been answered.

      Move on.

      1. William Avitt profile image59
        William Avittposted 10 years agoin reply to this

        This behavior is not preferred, but unfortunately it is accepted by more "churches" than I care to admit.  Jesus commanded his followers to "Love your neighbor" and "Judge not lest ye be judged" and all of the other Scriptures I've cited (and so far as I've noticed, I'm really the only one who HAS used Scripture to back up my statements) which tell us exactly what Christ expects from us, but most fundamentalist Christians tend to ignore those passages.  And it saddens my heart, as I'm sure it does the Lord's as well.

        1. Cgenaea profile image60
          Cgenaeaposted 10 years agoin reply to this

          Let not your heart be troubled. It pleases the Lord when we use his "spirit" to interpret and report "good news". (You still haven't told me whar you believe of the Holy Spirit of the living God, btw)
          He hates a lying tongue, however.

          1. William Avitt profile image59
            William Avittposted 10 years agoin reply to this

            What do you mean what do I believe about the Holy Spirit and the living God?  I believe in a triune God.  One God with three facets; the God the Father, God the Son and God the Holy Spirit.  One deity, three functions.  God the Father is He who dwells in Heaven and hears us when we pray.  God the Son was Jesus Christ, God born of a virgin on Earth to save us from sin.  God the Holy Spirit is He who dwells inside of us and guides us through our every day activities.  One God, but differently identified depending on which function He is serving at the moment

            1. Cgenaea profile image60
              Cgenaeaposted 10 years agoin reply to this

              Uh...
              God the father, son AND holy spirit.
              Three that agree like one...

              1. William Avitt profile image59
                William Avittposted 10 years agoin reply to this

                Three that AGREE like one?  So you're a pagan?  You worship three separate and distinct gods and not one God with 3 parts???

                1. Cgenaea profile image60
                  Cgenaeaposted 10 years agoin reply to this

                  God, the father, is who I worship. His son, Jesus, relayed his message wrapped in flesh. And the Spirit continues to remind.

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        bBereanposted 10 years agoin reply to this

        If that is what you've gotten from this thread it shows you've paid no attention and are simply restating the same false premise born of your bias that you express in the OP.

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          Emile Rposted 10 years agoin reply to this

          Oddly, two Christians did take the time to post and understood the OP. Somewhat sympathized with the points and expressed dismay that there would be those who would cause the OP to have to be made in the first place.

          I feel, somewhat, lighter hearted. Knowing you guys aren't completely indicative of Christendom.

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            bBereanposted 10 years agoin reply to this

            You should be happy to know distorted versions of "Christianity" such as you and Will promote will flourish as  the genuine gospel is shouted down.  Will will be happy to see Catholicism reducing it's standards in favor of ecumenism and it's membership will swell.  We live in interesting times.

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              Emile Rposted 10 years agoin reply to this

              Ho hum. Is this another 'I've got the spirit, you don't, so nany nany boo boo' posts?

              If so, we've covered this ground. Not buying it. Sorry.

            2. William Avitt profile image59
              William Avittposted 10 years agoin reply to this

              I'm not the one promoting a twisted form of Christianity.  The Christianity I promote is the one of love, understanding and forgiveness that comes straight from the Bible.  I've shown you the words of Christ and Paul.  You are the one choosing to ignore them and I will leave it to God to show you the truth when the time is right.

              1. bBerean profile image61
                bBereanposted 10 years agoin reply to this

                I'm quite familiar with Catholicism and have addressed it in many threads.  I know all about your god, your idea of Jesus, Mary and your gospel.   I was surprised I hadn't spotted it right away in your early posts, but you were a bit elusive regarding it and understandably so.

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                  Emile Rposted 10 years agoin reply to this

                  Your hatred of Catholicism is well documented. Way to show the love there. smile

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                    bBereanposted 10 years agoin reply to this

                    No hatred of Catholics but I do indeed hate false doctrines and religions, from Catholicism to Scientism and everything in between that would mislead those seeking truth.  Just contending for the faith.

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                  William Avittposted 10 years agoin reply to this

                  I'd venture to say you know nothing of Catholicism.  My Gospel is the same as yours.  My Jesus is the same as yours.  The difference is, I know Him and you don't seem to.  I was never dodgy about my Catholicism.  When asked, I answered.  I'm not ashamed of being Catholic.  You also, like most Protestants, know nothing of how we see Mary, the woman who was blessed to be the mother of GOD.  She was chosen to carry God inside of her.  What have you been called to do?  Other than lead people away from the church by your example of intolerance?

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                    bBereanposted 10 years agoin reply to this

                    False assumption on your part.    I have nothing to do with Protestantism, and having spent a great many years studying comparative religions with Catholicism as one of my focusses I am quite familiar.  More so than most Catholics I've met as it seems by and large they have a laity quite comfortable in being ignorant regarding the doctrines of the church and for the most part the clergy seems to prefer it that way.

                  2. Cgenaea profile image60
                    Cgenaeaposted 10 years agoin reply to this

                    Jesus never tolerated the idea that there is no God... didn't "hug" a one...
                    Them...I don't even think he discussed. He was with believers who had all the wrong ideas.
                    But to allow what he does not, is sin.
                    To answer the assertion that there is no God (our FIRST priority) with, "Kindness" is not Jesus. At all...
                    Not long ago, you asserted that people outside of the faith are to be judged by God alone. But it seems that the bible itself, asks a DIFFERENT question, not at all surprisingly...
                    Who are you that judge another man's SERVANT...???
                    A SERVANT does the speaking for his master, relaying the message precisely. Adding and subtracting carries stiff penalty.

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                Cgenaeaposted 10 years agoin reply to this

                Then why the difference from the mind and mouth of Jesus??? Hell, spirit, it's all in there.  How much of Jesus has been "tainted" while editing scriptures to feel "peachy" for others?
                He is love...
                That's why we TRUST him to know what it is...
                "This way..."
                How many roads did you say lead to Jesus again???

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                  Emile Rposted 10 years agoin reply to this

                  An rqually challenging would be how many do you ignore so you can feel peachy.

                  Haha I Swyped peachy and it came up preachy. Equally accurate.

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                    Cgenaeaposted 10 years agoin reply to this

                    Preachy is accepted, if you just gotta call me names... wink
                    But I omit none of it to feel peachy or preachy. Love will forgive foolishness. Loyalty cannot.
                    There is not enough evidence for God, is a silly statement. Agreed???
                    Will I be loving or loyal... you decide.

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              William Avittposted 10 years agoin reply to this

              "11When I was a child, I used to speak like a child, think like a child, reason like a child; when I became a man, I did away with childish things. 12For now we see in a mirror dimly, but then face to face; now I know in part, but then I will know fully just as I also have been fully known. 13But now faith, hope, love, abide these three; but the greatest of these is love."
              1 Corinthians 13:11-13

              Paul places love greater than even faith here.  To love your neighbor as yourself is the greatest of all commandments.

              1. PhoenixV profile image65
                PhoenixVposted 10 years agoin reply to this

                Jesus replied: “'Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind.' This is the first and greatest commandment.

                1. William Avitt profile image59
                  William Avittposted 10 years agoin reply to this

                  "If you love Me, you will keep My commandments."
                  John 14:15

                  If you do not love your neighbor as yourself, then you don't love God either.

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                  Emile Rposted 10 years agoin reply to this

                  This is so very sad. You purposely ignore the other part of his words. He says the second is like it. Which means it is of equal importance. On these two commandments depend the whole Law and the Prophets.

                  1. oceansnsunsets profile image81
                    oceansnsunsetsposted 10 years agoin reply to this

                    No, Superman was just confused, and Phoenix was correcting the error.  He thought it was the greatest commandment but it isn't.  Assuming the worst again.......

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                  oceansnsunsetsposted 10 years agoin reply to this

                  and the second greatest is like it, "Love your neighbor as yourself."   The law and the prophets are summed up in those two commandments.   You are right about the first and greatest.

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            oceansnsunsetsposted 10 years agoin reply to this

            For someone that accuses others of playing or even being God and not liking that idea, you do a version of it here again yourself actually.  Judging who are the true christians or not, or the face of christendom seems more like the job of God.   Also, that this Christian sides with you against the Christians you don't approve of (Genaea in particular, then apologizing several times, then doing it again), might be some reason you approve even when they believe in hell like the other fringe?  Yet Superman is not fringe in your eyes and a good face of Christendom?  Inconsistent and very strange, and its the very strange things that deserve a second look, and cause faulty views to unravel.  This is how we uncover real truth when its a he said she said disagreement.  When two opposing sides just keep saying the opposite things, the clues give insight into the truth. Those on the side of truth like this kind of thing like you used to, those that are not on the side of it won't like it so much as we have seen for years in these forums. 

            Then the support saying this not loving Christian ways, and I actually think its very loving considering all we are talking about and how high the stakes are.

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    Emile Rposted 10 years ago

    @superman

    I hope more find a way to your understanding. I appreciate you taking the time to share it.

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    Emile Rposted 10 years ago

    @oceans. People can disagree on what Jesus said and meant. I do think those who appear to embody the spirit have a better understanding of who Christ was. If that's negative judgment. OK.

    As to hell. I've said it before. We can all believe what we want as to what an afterlife would entail. That does not give us cause to attempt to turn this life we share into a living hell.

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    Emile Rposted 10 years ago

    That's good. My husband was raised Catholic. He said he'd go to confession and then get punished when he got home. Apparently the priest was a snitch.

    I get what you are saying about Baptists. My parents went to a Baptist church. I never understood why. The people there were very mean. They really caused a lot of heart ache for my mother. But, she just kept plugging on.

    Sounds like you've found a good place to be. That's important.

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    Emile Rposted 10 years ago

    @oceans Please stop rambling on about me. This constant complaining is not helping your cause.

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      oceansnsunsetsposted 10 years agoin reply to this

      Your OP and since has done the same to Christians everywhere.  I can see why you would want me to stop pointing out the inconsistencies and lack of reason, morality and contradictions you keep on posting.  Its why you won't respond to the actual posts either because its like bumping the proof of my points.  I get it.  We can make a deal, that if you stop doing those things, I will stop pointing them out?  You used to like a good debate, and seeing who was correct, especially when people are putting others down.  Has that changed too? 

      If you stop, then I will, deal?  If you carry on, then I make no promises. I think that is more than fair, and you have been allowed to say horrible things for far too long, while nitpicking on "nothing's" from others, as it turns out.  I don't think that is fair.

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        Emile Rposted 10 years agoin reply to this

        I don't know whether you've noticed or not. I hate to point it out, since I've already done so within the last hour or so. But, there are actually Christians who have understood the OP, responded intelligently to the OP and were not offended by the OP. So, 'Christians everywhere' is a stretch.

        1. William Avitt profile image59
          William Avittposted 10 years agoin reply to this

          We're not Christians, don't you see?  I belong to a cult that will one day produce the Anti-christ and you're just all sorts of messed up and you just don't understand true Christianity.  I'm evil and you're confused, but neither of us are Christians.  Don't you get it?

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            Emile Rposted 10 years agoin reply to this

            Well, sure. We just don't have the ability to properly discern. We lack the spirit. Or, more simply put, we don't agree with them so off with our heads.

            1. oceansnsunsets profile image81
              oceansnsunsetsposted 10 years agoin reply to this

              More drama, and things not said! Or did I miss it......

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                Emile Rposted 10 years agoin reply to this

                Actually oceans. They have been said. To multiple people arguing against this brand of Christianity. You really need to learn the difference between drama and reality.

                1. oceansnsunsets profile image81
                  oceansnsunsetsposted 10 years agoin reply to this

                  It wasn't drama to say, "Well, sure. We just don't have the ability to properly discern. We lack the spirit. Or, more simply put, we don't agree with them so off with our heads." 

                  Its dramatic to say off with our heads, no? If not, really?

          2. oceansnsunsets profile image81
            oceansnsunsetsposted 10 years agoin reply to this

            Yikes, did he actually say all that, or are you making this up that Bberean said that about you?  That is not cool to say if he didn't say that.

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              Emile Rposted 10 years agoin reply to this

              Read the posts oceans. This mentality is what drove the beginning of the OP.

              'If you aren't with us, you are against God'. Amazing that you are shocked at this point.

              1. oceansnsunsets profile image81
                oceansnsunsetsposted 10 years agoin reply to this

                That is a strange way of answering no, he didn't say that at all.  Thanks.  More of the same.  I'll stop when you do.

            2. bBerean profile image61
              bBereanposted 10 years agoin reply to this

              Oceans, how much do you know about Catholicism?  I first started studying them because I was confused by the fact my Catholic friends and I seemed to agree until you looked closer and I found we used the same terms but meant different things. 

              It is appropriate symbolism that the crucifix never lets Christ off the cross as His work was never completed.  No salvation unless the church says so.  No salvation unless you complete approved works.  Salvation is tenuous, can be lost and regained.  Is this the same Jesus you believe in?  Protestants were right to protest.   I'm not protestant, but most of them have that part right.  Sinless Mary?  Why not just make everyone sinless and spare Jesus the trouble if that was all that was required? 

              There are so many problems, this is just the tip of the iceberg and their origins betray why.  So tell me, is that the Christ you know?  Saints can do things to win you favor He could not?  Rituals can assist in your salvation?  Are you aware of their belief in and use of "relics" with mystical powers?  They can't even have a church without one in it.  Like I said this is just a small snapshot.  Is that Christianity or do they just steal the terms and use if for marketing?  The problem is, most Catholics don't even know all this.

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                Emile Rposted 10 years agoin reply to this

                Now everything should be ooootay. I'm sure she'll back up and say everything vitriolic is perfectly fine and makes stellar sense.

                1. oceansnsunsets profile image81
                  oceansnsunsetsposted 10 years agoin reply to this

                  Wow, before I even have a chance to respond, this is in line with all my other observations.  Thanks for that Emile.

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                    Emile Rposted 10 years agoin reply to this

                    I would say call me psychic but you are pretty easily predicted.

              2. William Avitt profile image59
                William Avittposted 10 years agoin reply to this

                It is appropriate symbolism that the crucifix never lets Christ off the cross as His work was never completed.-- UNTRUE 

                No salvation unless the church says so.-- UNTRUE

                No salvation unless you complete approved works.-- UNTRUE

                Salvation is tenuous, can be lost and regained.-- TRUE, and I challenge you to find a single scripture that supports the false and dangerous Once Saved, Always Saved doctrine

                Sinless Mary?  Why not just make everyone sinless and spare Jesus the trouble if that was all that was required?-- Because not everyone was chosen to serve as the mother of the living God

                Saints can do things to win you favor He could not?-- Christ can do all things.  No one prays to a Saint for something that Christ can't do, we ask for their intercession on our behalf because "the prayer of a righteous person is powerful and effective."(James 5:16) Who is more righteous than those who are already in Heaven?

                Rituals can assist in your salvation?-- UNTRUE.  Salvation is the free gift of God through the blood of Jesus Christ

                Are you aware of their belief in and use of "relics" with mystical powers?-- UNTRUE.  There is nothing magical about relics.  They do not compel God to do anything, rather God works through them.  Do you not believe in miracles?

                They can't even have a church without one in it.-- UNTRUE

                You know nothing of Catholicism.  All you know are the lies told to try to tear down Catholicism.

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                  jonnycomelatelyposted 10 years agoin reply to this

                  Keep them ignorant.  Exploit their tendancy to follow superstition. Keep them beieving God can and does answer prayer.  Discourage them from asking awkward questions.
                  big_smile

                2. oceansnsunsets profile image81
                  oceansnsunsetsposted 10 years agoin reply to this

                  This sheds even more light on something I was thinking previously.  Thanks for sharing your thoughts again.

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                  PhoenixVposted 10 years agoin reply to this

                  Catholic veneration of Mary involved in the processes of salvation and redemption.

                  Not scripturally supported. Non sequiturs

                  Catholic veneration of Mary as intermediary - intercessor- protector

                  Not scripturally supported.

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                    William Avittposted 10 years agoin reply to this

                    Mary is venerated by the angel who visits her to reveal the truth that she is with child in the Gospel of Luke.  The angel says to her, "Hail, Mary, full of grace, the Lord is with you."  Hail is a greeting that at the time would have been reserved for royalty.  Even now, the theme song of the President of the United States is "HAIL to the Chief".  For the angel of the Lord to say hail to Mary, that speaks volumes about her place in the grand scheme of things.  She gave birth to the Lord!  She had a more intimate relationship with Him than she had with her own husband.  No husband and wife bond is as intimate as that of the bond between mother and son.

                    Also, veneration is not the same as worship.  Do you notice how pronouns that refer to Mary are not capitalized as they are with Christ and God?  I write "she" and "her" when speaking of Mary, but "He" and "Him" when speaking about God.  Because they are not on the same level.  But she is definitely deserving of respect, which is what veneration is.  A deep respect or regard for.  Not worship

                4. bBerean profile image61
                  bBereanposted 10 years agoin reply to this

                  I encourage readers to look into it themselves rather than take your or my word for it.  It is all accurate.

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                    William Avittposted 10 years agoin reply to this

                    The problem with that is there are many anti-catholic resources out there spreading the same lies you are spreading.  Why not get the truth from a knowledgeable Catholic's mouth?  What possible reason would we have to lie about what we believe?  I will gladly explain to anyone who cares to learn the truth about Catholic teachings and would be more than happy to use Scripture to back them up.

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                oceansnsunsetsposted 10 years agoin reply to this

                Are you sure you don't want to start a new thread for this question?  I think it might be a good idea, or else it could get crazy long an we are bumping this one over and over for such a different topic?  I can answer over there if you like?

                Just give the word either way, then I will answer this.  Thanks.

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                  bBereanposted 10 years agoin reply to this

                  No need.  I have addressed this in other threads.  I just wanted to make sure you were aware of my allegations, which you can investigate yourself and find true.  If you want assistance or resources in investigating them feel free to email me, but I don't need to influence your investigation otherwise.  Most Catholics don't even know the teachings of their church, it's pagan roots or it's place in prophecy.

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          oceansnsunsetsposted 10 years agoin reply to this

          Ahh, you want me to stop what I see as more than fair and accurate as I show along the way, but you won't commit to stopping.  Ok then.

  36. oceansnsunsets profile image81
    oceansnsunsetsposted 10 years ago

    I knew I should have said welcome back.  I need to listen to my gut more!  People tell me this too, as I am often right but I hesitate to make sure on things......

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    Emile Rposted 10 years ago

    Actually, that was a joke. Sorry if you didn't laugh.

    1. oceansnsunsets profile image81
      oceansnsunsetsposted 10 years agoin reply to this

      You are right, saying off with our heads is hilarious, especially now.

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        Emile Rposted 10 years agoin reply to this

        I do feel that the Queen of Hearts is alive and well among us. The quote seemed appropriate.

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          oceansnsunsetsposted 10 years agoin reply to this

          Ill take note that you like people to give you the benefit of the doubt when unsure of your complete motive, all things considered.  Most people like that done for them.  I think we all would.

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    Emile Rposted 10 years ago

    Who are you to judge another man's servant? Do you have any idea how arrogant that comes off? You are implying that you are a servant and another person isn't. Servants don't usually speak for their master anyway. Which makes one less inclined to wonder who is really behind your words.

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      Cgenaeaposted 10 years agoin reply to this

      Servants do whatever their masters say. Mine said speak.  If another comes along to say, "shut-up" I'm inclined to feel as if he does not know my master...

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    Emile Rposted 10 years ago

    Was that directed at me? It's hard to tell. The page isn't updating, but I find it difficult to fathom you directed it elsewhere.

    No. We don't agree on the purpose of the OT. Again, that is a disagreement, not an affront to God on my part.

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    Emile Rposted 10 years ago

    OK. Let's start from scratch. I have said over and over again. What we believe to be true on a cosmic level is a belief. We all have them and we all have the right to them. How those beliefs affect our actions is what is important on this level of existence.

    Yes, I find belief in hell abhorrent. I, personally, believe if heaven exists the worst sinners will be embraced by God first, because they need his love the most. Sue me.

    Anyway, cosmic beliefs set to the side. Jesus is the example to look toward for behavior patterns. He made a simple statement. : You shall love the Lord your God with all your hear, and with all your soul, and with all your mind, and with all your strength."The second is this, 'You shall love your neighbor as yourself.' There is no other commandment greater than these ."

    I put the word these in bold. Because it matters. It's like superman said. Anyone can claim to love God. You can't question that. It's a private thing. But, loving your neighbor is there for the world to see. 

    Anyone who attempts to push forward the philosophy Jesus said was the most important is attempting to do his will. That is pleasing to see and I will comment on it positively when I see it.

    I am not giving anyone the benefit of the doubt beyond what is fair. I think he embodies the spirit of Christ in his words. I'd do the same for anyone who embodies the spirit of Christ with their comments.

    As to defending with another passage, I think you misunderstood. He was pushing that love was the highest commandment (by my understanding). Phoenix was attempting to hem love in to a narrower parameter than what Jesus intended (by my understanding)  If you see that as demeaning him I think you might step back and see if you aren't actually the one attempting to find more fault here. I see this all of the time. Someone puts forth that Love is important and the fundamentalist parries with a comment that Love of God is the point. The point is much bigger than that.

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    Emile Rposted 10 years ago

    Except for number 5 which I was simply attempting to point out that superman was quoting Corinthians, not Mark. Where's your beef? How has anyone twisted anything? There is no other commandment greater than these, so if someone is attempting to embody the spirit of those greatest commandments......that's twisting? Perhaps, someone is gyrating (other than those you hope to paint in a faulty light?)

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    Emile Rposted 10 years ago

    The problem, as I see it, is that you use your belief in your vision of God to ignore his will. That will being Love. Oh. But that's right. You define love differently, so that it all works within your belief structure.

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    Emile Rposted 10 years ago

    I'm afraid I have to say I have found you to be rather mean spirited in this thread also. Not really a different personality for you, just bolder with it.

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      oceansnsunsetsposted 10 years agoin reply to this

      Thank you. From the person that talks about with another just today like this,   

      Emile:  "I'm sure many fundamentalists would love to have a Christian form of an Imam, so they could issue fatwahs and send people out in the streets to beat us, or douse us with acid if we didn't bow to their interpretation. Their interpretation being every knee will bend to them, since they have the holy spirit and we don't.
      Unfortunately, without that power they are left with the nany nany boo boo defense."

      which was in response to this, "JMcFarland wrote:
           Such a shame that we don't live in a theocracy that allows the burning of heretics,  homosexuals and atheists any more.   I'd say he may be more comfortable in the middle east,  except they have the antiquated rules but a different god,  and his beliefs would probably land him in some dangerous hot water."  Which came after the same two were discussing the below:

          "JMcFarland wrote:
          Probably not,  since he's also throwing the word "herectic" around.   Maybe he's trying to distract while he collects wood for the bonfire to burn everyone in."

      Emile wrote:
      "'m sure it's a fantasy that keeps him warm at night". 

      This is just a few hours ago now. 

      Page 67 isn't much better, where we find from you:

      "It's what your belief all boils down to. Billions and billions incinerated. Just so you can feel an itsy witsy bit better about yourself. It's really weird when you stop to think about it. If you stop to think about it. But, I wouldn't imagine you'd do that."


      I feel sort of let down almost, as these types of comments right help to create a lens of the gauge I ought to use for interpreting your current comment to me.  I do admit to letting loose tonight, because its my last chance with you, for one, and I truly think you or at least others needed to hear what I shared.  It all needed to be answered.  Of course you see me as mean.  I don't tell you what you want to hear, but this isn't a change I have made, but you.  For your benefit, I am not just caving in and being a fair weathered friend like you seem to have suddenly gained for the change, no matter when or how subtle its process was.  Point remains you have friends now that treated your before, the same you are treating me. 

      Yet its a 180, to match your own.  Classic description of a fair weathered friend or acquaintance.  Path of least resistance too, uncharacteristic but also observed with its "rewards."  Still, I will take these words to heart, but my heart and spirit actually want the very best for you.  I really believe that you or others might feel like what I am doing is mean spirited and that you really might think you have not maligned me or anyone else  It is not, what was I hoping to gain other than the obvious consequence, The possible yet remote gain at some point, was worth it I think, though not placing bets yet for the odds.  Nothing is impossible for God.   
      Thanks for your comment there.

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    Emile Rposted 10 years ago

    Morally superior? I've never made that claim. Now, it appears you are channeling behavior patterns of another and making up stories about me, to make yourself feel better.

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      oceansnsunsetsposted 10 years agoin reply to this

      Like how Genaea feels an itsy bit better about herself for the possible hope the incineraton of billions?  (Not verbatim, going by memory....)  All that read it will recall that

      I am not claiming to quote you saying anything quite like that, "I am morally superior", its the spirit, the tone, the actions I am observing.  Everything else you are saying, the judgements. No one admits it like that, but you judge it of others doing it with their religion.  Its inherent, obvious.  None of this makes me feel better, its horrifying.  Its why people go and stay gone, its why I shouldn't come back, because people aren't even starting out on the same page, but I always assume we will be, with the simple morals, reason, logic, etc.  Let down every time, its predictable, minus the surprise changes here and there like with you this time.

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        Emile Rposted 10 years agoin reply to this

        OK. Good.I'm glad you finally made that statement. I didn't say it, you just got it from my words. That's been my point all along. That is the problem with the fundamentalist mentality. Whether things are said out right, or implied; the posts come across as smarmy, believing themselves to be cosmically superior, needing to shove their heels in others backs in order to believe themselves superior. That they have 'spirit' where others don't, that others are making it up when they don't agree, that they are 'evil mankind', they are compared to satan, etc etc etc



        So, now we know how I am coming across and the mindset I started this thread to discuss is coming across. Do we address all of it, or just the parts you find offensive?

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    William Avittposted 10 years ago

    "So you are saying that Mary has no "active" role in salvation, redemption, protection, or intercession for salvation?"

    Mary absolutely played a vital and active role in salvation.  She was the vessel through which God came to Earth.  No Mary, no Jesus.  She gave Jesus to the world through her womb.  She raised him.  He nursed at her breast!  She absolutely played a vital role in salvation.  As for protection, do you not believe that you have a Guardian Angel?  Do you not believe that those in Heaven watch over us?  And if not, why do you begrudge those who do believe it?  How is it wrong to look to those in Heaven for guidance and protection, the same as we may seek guidance and protection from our friends and family on Earth?  Is it blasphemous to ask a friend for advice or to pray for you?  If not, then why is it blasphemous to ask for advice or prayer from one who is in Heaven?  Surely the saints in Heaven are closer to God than your friends on Earth.

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      PhoenixVposted 10 years agoin reply to this

      No Mary's Grandpa, No Jesus. You have no scriptural support for any of these beliefs. To paraphrase your earlier post "It speaks volumes" Well that's called confirmation bias, fallacy of incomplete evidence and non sequitur. That is why you have to change "active role" to "vital role". Regardless, you have brought no scripture.

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        Jomine Joseposted 10 years agoin reply to this

        Neither of you got any historical support (support of fact or reason for that matter) for this.

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        Cgenaeaposted 10 years agoin reply to this

        Please don't tell me we have to "hail" Mary's grandpa...

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          Emile Rposted 10 years agoin reply to this

          I think the problem is that he has a well grounded understanding of Christ. It's difficult for some to fathom there is more than one Catholic out there who has it. Being heretics and whores of Babylon they just shouldn't have a better understanding of Christ than the fundamentalist.

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          Emile Rposted 10 years agoin reply to this

          Sir Dent said:  A scenario bout judging. 

          Where I live we do not have streets and sidewalks.  We have a two lane road and that's it.  It is against the law to drive on the left side of the doulbe yellow lines.  Punishable with a ticket, most likely unless you are intoxicated.

          If I see a person walking on this road toward me in my lane, do I stay on my side to keep from crossing the center line, which is illegal?  If I do not move over, the one walking will be hit with my car. 

          Now I ask, which should I do?
          ----
          I think, in context of the current disagreement, we'd have some ask.....are you with us or against us?  The answer would determine whether the pedestrian got mowed down. On the up side, they'd claim it was in the name of God so they'd feel pretty certain all was good.

  46. Cgenaea profile image60
    Cgenaeaposted 10 years ago

    Mary was a vessel. She has ABSOLUTELY nothing to do with salvation. She was USED to bring Jesus.
    Not even Jesus gave her special credence.
    When people die, they are conscious of nothing. I read that in the bible once.
    A prayer to a friend in heaven, goes unheard.
    Jesus said pray to the father.
    Jesus never once said, ask your favorite dead person...

  47. William Avitt profile image59
    William Avittposted 10 years ago

    "When people die, they are conscious of nothing."

    So you don't believe in Heaven or in Eternal Life.  Got it.  I suppose this goes along with your firmly held doctrine that the Father, Son and Holy Spirit are three separate and distinct beings.  You have lost all credibility.  By your own admission, Jesus was not God.  He was a separate entity.

    " I read that in the bible once."

    LOL, no, you most certainly did not

  48. William Avitt profile image59
    William Avittposted 10 years ago

    This is what you THOUGHT you read.  Or, at least, what you read and misunderstood:

    "2 It is the same for all. There is one fate for the righteous and for the wicked; for the good, for the clean and for the unclean; for the man who offers a sacrifice and for the one who does not sacrifice. As the good man is, so is the sinner; as the swearer is, so is the one who [c]is afraid to swear. 3 This is an evil in all that is done under the sun, that there is one fate for all men. Furthermore, the hearts of the sons of men are full of evil and insanity is in their hearts throughout their lives. Afterwards they go to the dead. 4 For whoever is joined with all the living, there is hope; surely a live dog is better than a dead lion. 5 For the living know they will die; but the dead do not know anything, nor have they any longer a reward, for their memory is forgotten. 6 Indeed their love, their hate and their zeal have already perished, and they will no longer have a share in all that is done under the sun."
    Ecclesiastes 9:2-5

    What this ACTUALLY says, is that those who are in Hell know nothing of God and that they have already been forgotten by God and by all who are alive in Heaven.  The passage draws a distinction between those who are dead and those who are among the living.  The righteous and the wicked.  It is very clearly speaking of those who are dead to Christ and those who are alive in Christ.  Those in Heaven and those in Hell.  The saints in Heaven are alive and are not part of the dead who "do not know anything."

  49. Cgenaea profile image60
    Cgenaeaposted 10 years ago

    Did you MISS the little part that reads, the living know that they will die"???
    Any dying going on in heaven???
    Think only with the mind of Christ.
    My family (they who DO the will of my father) know that God the father and son are THREE ENTITIES They ALL confirm...
    So you've got another think coming...

    1. profile image0
      Emile Rposted 10 years agoin reply to this

      Oh my gosh. Your family is growing smaller by the minute. Three entities implies separate entities. Where are you coming up with this stuff?

  50. Cgenaea profile image60
    Cgenaeaposted 10 years ago

    Maybe you'd like to drop the charade?  Rest up for tomorrow???
    The nonsene can wait...

 
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