I have this friend of mine I see her going through a lot because of her Sons Girlfriend, it’s...
really sad. The girlfriend is play with her sons feeling all the time. One day she says she loves him & the other she say she still loves him but she is not in love with him. She cause her son so much pain, the mother see it. I feel that girl is just play with that boy’s heart, Know the girl started lying to the boy about his mother, saying that she said things that she didn’t say. Know her son believe everything the girl says and not the Mother. First this is the first time he has been in loved. What would you advise the Mother to do and what advice would you have for the Son?
probably not much you can say without seeming to interfere, for alll the best intentions, so it may be best to be cautious and there to help him when and if the relationship finally breaks down - if he thinks his friends and family hate her he may cling more tightly to her - it's not easy but holding back may be for the best - it'll be rough for him, but he shouldemerge stronger for it in future relationships
maybe try to talk to the girl instead of the son. it's harder for someone to talk crap about another person when they are on speaking terms. in the same way, it's easy to say stupid things about someone you don't know.
if you talk to the girl, it will be harder for her to be rude about you. if you are already communicating with each other, and it's not working, maybe a good way to deal with it is to be especially nice to her. like someone once said, keep your friends close and your enemies closer.
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