To those nearing the 6-0, reflecting on life this far, are you proud or distressed as to how
YOUR LIFE turned out?
Hi GmWilliams
Well, my life didn't turn out as I expected at this age, but I wouldn't have changed a thing. I had 29 years of marriage to a wonderful man. Being a widow, has brought me new challenges, but I am pleased with how I have over come obstacles. Turning 60 was scary, now that I made it to 62, I thank the powers to be each day for a new day and a new adventure. I love life, and that includes all the blessings it gives me, as well as the heartaches. I have not regrets, and am not distressed. I am a big believer that we do create our own reality through our thoughts, and have watched how mine have created some enormous monsters, as well as enormous blessings. I am still able to learn new things, for instance blogging, and I am able to improve my life in areas that I wish.
60 is a great time, a time to reflect yes, but yet do not stay there too long, for you got today to live.
Great question, and thank you posting it!
Hi gmwilliams,
Admittedly and first of all I want to let you know as a matter of fact that I recognize you as one of those very few here in HP who ask very sensible questions and that is why I love answering them (though, regretfully, I was unable to see all of those questions because I got busy doing something else in the net).
For this question of yours, here's my take;
I am 58 just last January this year, of course, and among my pride and joy in life is that I have not heard anyone say (to me at least) that I look my age or older than my age; this would mean that despite all the pains, the accidents, the hospital experiences like surgery, I am still as healthy and fit as a horse; no lingering illness can get through me longer than I allow it. See what I mean?
I count my blessings and only focus on them so that even if I recognize the shady and cloudy parts of my life through all these more than a half century life that this universe had been allowing me as a guest here, I am still not ready to "check out". I stay here in my own terms and I know that by nature I possess many extra or bonus tickets to qualify me to stay longer.
These "bonus tickets" are my very beautiful children and grandchildren; they are not only my pride and joy but most important is they are the evidence of my personal success as a mother; and I am only talking about successful motherhood, the rest is a long story of success to talk about...my remaining lifetime won't be enough time to talk about them therefore I can say to Mr. Distress "Sorry Sir, I know that you also have the right to exist in this life but I have no more time left to even talk about you."
Like most, I suppose, my life did not turn out they way I had planned........and I am very thankful that it didn't. Those youthful ideas and dreams, all those years ago, seemed the "perfect" path but had those dreams come true I would have missed so much. I approach the milestone with contentment with myself and with my life. It wasn't easy to be sure but it certainly was........interesting!
I am 61 and my life did not turn out as I dreamed it would be when I was a young person. But, I ended up having a wonderful life, husband and family--so I am proud rather than distressed.
Aging, however, is not the picnic that many claim it is. I see people on TV say, "I'm 72 and I've never felt better...my response is "Really? Then you must feel better than I do!"
Same here as duffsmom who says, "I am 61 and my life did not turn out as I dreamed it would be when I was a young person."
I am 58 but looking back, there's nothing to regret, even though I didn't achieve much in life... it was all a journey, a learning experience. Of course, if I were to live all over again, I would have lived life differently, based on what I have learned so far. Instead of taking my MBA, I would have taken a writing course or a course in English Literature and work as a magazine editor or writer... not human resource manager. Instead of squandering all my money, I would have watched the economic cycle and invest in stocks when prices are low. Instead of rushing to buy properties when the property market is hot, I would wait until there is a housing slump to pick up choice assets... yes, I would have lived differently if I had known. But how would I know, except on hindsight, and with the passage of time. So no, I have no regrets.
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