Finding Your True Love

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   lgministriesposted 14 years ago

   1.The first step to finding true love is to not seek it   at all. I know that sounds crazy. How can you find something that you are not looking for? But that's just it. As long as you are looking, it will continue to evade you. Finding true love should not be your focus.
      
   2.If you are unhappy by yourself, you won't be happy with someone else.If you are unhappy by yourself, you won't be happy with someone else.
   
      Focus on you. That's right! The key to finding true love is actually loving yourself. The problem is that most people don't do this. Too often we are looking for the other person to complete us. The truth of the matter is that you have to already be whole before you enter a relationship. Putting the responsibility for your happiness onto another person is unfair and unreasonable. Misery loves company so you would just be creating an unfortunate circumstance for your mate. You should be happy with yourself and by yourself before you can be happy with someone else.
   
   3.Participate in activities you enjoy and you might be surprised to find true love along the way.
   
   
       Develop yourself. Since you are focusing on you, why not work on making yourself whole and happy. Really get to know who you are and prepare yourself for the possibility of the future yet to come. Decide what type of mate you would like and then determine if you are "good enough" to attract that type of mate. You can't expect to attract someone who is unequally yoked. If you are on two different levels then your relationship most likely won't work out. Set goals. Go back to school, work on your career, stop smoking, lose that weight, update your wardrobe, organize your house and get your credit in order. Explore activities and hobbies you enjoy doing and do them. You just might find true love in the process.
    
   4. Be confident. Focusing on your needs, goals, hopes and dreams will also build up your self-confidence. When you are confident in yourself, your abilities and your direction, you also become more attractive to others. Self-confidence can also build up your feelings of sexiness. Confident people can be a lot more outgoing, alluring and flirtatious thereby allowing themselves the opportunity to meet new people.
    
   
   5.Laughter really is the best medicine. Love and laugh.
          
         Have fun! Give yourself permission to smile. Take time for a little rest and relaxation when you need it and play hard. The more fun you have, the less stressed you will be and the more open you will be to the possibility of romance. People who are sad, depressed and have low self-esteem also have a low capacity to recognize true love. Remember to laugh so you can love.
   
   6. Don't be afraid to consult to your Pastor or your mentor just to confirm what you have in your heart. because our emotions could deceive us. Seeking God's will is our priority.
   
   7. Be busy to do what God tells you to do and when God sees that you are overloaded in your work then he will probably give you someone to be your partner in life.

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   Greek Oneposted 14 years ago

   What about Craigslist?

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      klarawieckposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      Is that where you found your true love, Greek One?

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         Greek Oneposted 14 years agoin reply to this

         nope.. but that's where I rented it for a few hours, dear Klara

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            klarawieckposted 14 years agoin reply to this

            That's what I thought! lol

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            RFoxposted 14 years agoin reply to this

            Bahahahaha...I almost spat out my drink reading this.

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               Greek Oneposted 14 years agoin reply to this

               no tip when they do that

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                  RFoxposted 14 years agoin reply to this

                  

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                     Greek Oneposted 14 years agoin reply to this

                     which is why I always use Craigslist Vancouver (so I am not disappointed)

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                        RFoxposted 14 years agoin reply to this

                        hahaha....shame about that cause I'm in Montreal now!

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                           Greek Oneposted 14 years agoin reply to this

                           you guys get around!

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                              RFoxposted 14 years agoin reply to this

                              We have to spread *love* as far as we can....

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                                 Greek Oneposted 14 years agoin reply to this

                                 Now I just spit

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   skyfireposted 14 years ago

   Perfect. It keeps you single forever. Ask me,i'll let you know about it. 

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   lgministriesposted 14 years ago

   thanks!

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      klarawieckposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      Igministries, finding true love, in my opinion shouldn't be such hard work. There is no right formula to attract the right person. You just have to keep an open mind and wait. That's what I think anyways.

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   writinginalaskaposted 14 years ago

   Greek One,   you're funny

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      Greek Oneposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      is your profile pic giving me the finger?

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   paradigmsearchposted 14 years ago

   "enough"

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   Greek Oneposted 14 years ago

   share with us your tips for true love para

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