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I need a virtual hug

  1. BeccaHubbardWoods profile image82
    BeccaHubbardWoodsposted 6 years ago

    hey guys. it's been a while since i've been on the forums. but i need some support right now, and i'm not getting it at home.

    i lost one of my best friends yesterday. after praying and praying for two days that he would make it, God finally called him home. i loved this guy very much and this is the closest friend i've ever lost. it just sucks.

    1. Tyrone Smalls profile image53
      Tyrone Smallsposted 6 years ago in reply to this


      A friend in need is a friend in deed.
      Yes in deed! A friend is always in need.
      In need of a hug or a smile on their face.
      Or just in need for a friend to walk into the place.
      In need of some comfort or warmth from within
      and these are the things we do for a friend.
      In need of a chat or a walk in the park.
      In need of a "Good night" on the phone n the dark.
      In need of some wisdom, encouragement, or enlightening.
      In need of a hand held when it's scary or frightening.

      These are the things we do again and again.
      These are the things we do for a friend.

      Your friend "Ylynd"

    2. Tyrone Smalls profile image53
      Tyrone Smallsposted 6 years ago in reply to this

      Sorry for your loss. . . . . .God Bless!!!


    3. Springboard profile image81
      Springboardposted 6 years ago in reply to this

      It is always difficult to let go of people whom we care about and love. My grandfather is 93 years old, and my mom and my aunt's, of course, would like for him to live forever. But he suffers a great deal of pain most of the time, and he's not able to do what he wants to do. His quality of life is simply not there. Sometimes our passing is a blessing.

      1. BeccaHubbardWoods profile image82
        BeccaHubbardWoodsposted 6 years ago in reply to this

        you're right. and sometimes it sucks. he was so young. he was my age, 27. didn't have a chance to start a family. thank you for your support. : )

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      Poppa Bluesposted 6 years ago in reply to this

      My deepest sympathies for you loss! *hugs*

    5. Betty Reid profile image60
      Betty Reidposted 6 years ago in reply to this

      Hi Becca.  Sorry to hear about your loss, especially someone so young.

    6. Harvey Stelman profile image61
      Harvey Stelmanposted 6 years ago in reply to this


      He will always be in your heart, so he is close by.

  2. tantrum profile image61
    tantrumposted 6 years ago


  3. donotfear profile image91
    donotfearposted 6 years ago

    You've got my support. I acknowledge your pain and wish you much peace.

  4. theirishobserver. profile image58
    theirishobserver.posted 6 years ago

    Cyber Hug from Ireland smile

  5. myownworld profile image77
    myownworldposted 6 years ago

    I can imagine what you must be going through.... (have lost someone close to me too)...so sending all my love and restful thoughts your way....
    Sometimes, one has no choice but to let time take it's course and eventually let go.... smile

  6. BeccaHubbardWoods profile image82
    BeccaHubbardWoodsposted 6 years ago


  7. BeccaHubbardWoods profile image82
    BeccaHubbardWoodsposted 6 years ago

    and i don't want to seem like the whiney "look at me" type. just sayin...lol

    1. lorlie6 profile image84
      lorlie6posted 6 years ago in reply to this

      This is a good place to come for support-it does not seem whiney at all.  Loss is so incredibly hard.  Hugs to you, Becca.

  8. IzzyM profile image85
    IzzyMposted 6 years ago

    Virtual hug from me too. Its a sad loss for you, you will get over it one day but its very painful just now.

  9. Greek One profile image80
    Greek Oneposted 6 years ago

    Don't you realize that your friend is giving you one right now?

  10. BeccaHubbardWoods profile image82
    BeccaHubbardWoodsposted 6 years ago

    Thank you so much everyone. Greek, you brought tears to my eyes and a smile to my face. Thank you. : )

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    wordscribe41posted 6 years ago

    Big cyber-hug to you, Becca.  I'm so very sorry to hear about your loss.  It's even more tragic when someone so young passes away.  I'm sorry you aren't getting the support you need at home.  sad  You are in my thoughts.

  12. Tenerife Islander profile image91
    Tenerife Islanderposted 6 years ago

    A virtual hug from me too! Sorry to hear of your loss!

  13. BeccaHubbardWoods profile image82
    BeccaHubbardWoodsposted 6 years ago

    Thank you wordscribe, poppa, TI. I appreciate all of you so much.

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    Crazdwriterposted 6 years ago

    Oh Becca I am so sorry for your loss. *HUGS* *HUGS* *HUGS* *HUGS* You have my support and sympathy sweet Becca

  15. Disturbia profile image61
    Disturbiaposted 6 years ago

    HUGS Becca, sorry for you loss.

  16. BeccaHubbardWoods profile image82
    BeccaHubbardWoodsposted 6 years ago

    Thank you crazd, disturbia.

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    StormRyderposted 6 years ago

    Becca, I'm so sorry to hear of your loss...love him and remember him and the joy he add to your days.


  18. Cagsil profile image84
    Cagsilposted 6 years ago


    I'm saddened by your news and my condolences on your lost friendship. Please stay strong.

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    sneakorocksolidposted 6 years ago

    Hey Becca, Sorry to hear about your loss. I know it hurts but rather than a loss lets consider it's Heavens gain! Lots of hugs, you're in good company here. God bless you.smile

  20. maven101 profile image75
    maven101posted 6 years ago

    Becca....My arms are around you, as are all of your fellow Hubbers...Your sorrow is felt by all...Peace to you Sweetheart...Larry

  21. Daniel Carter profile image91
    Daniel Carterposted 6 years ago

    Wow. I'm so very sorry Becca. I stand in the circle with everyone else and send hugs.
    Let it out, girl, you're safe here.

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    Justine76posted 6 years ago

    hugs becca. I feel for you, truly. xo

  23. pddm67 profile image80
    pddm67posted 6 years ago

    So sorry Becca sad

    A giant hug coming your way!

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    ralwusposted 6 years ago

    Gee honey, I am so sorry. I have been there myself. (((((((hug))))))) much love

  25. Paradise7 profile image87
    Paradise7posted 6 years ago

    Big hub, Becca.  BIGGGGG hug.

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    Crazdwriterposted 6 years ago

    Here is another one from me Becca *HUGS* *HUGS* smile

  27. SandyMcCollum profile image83
    SandyMcCollumposted 6 years ago

    Awww, dam! That's so harsh, so sorry for your  loss, hon. (((hug))) You haven't seem him for the last time, yet. There's something to what Greek said. Don't forget to eat and brush your hair, doesn't sound like anyone will take care of you there. A long bath with candles and  prayer can be comforting, too.

  28. BeccaHubbardWoods profile image82
    BeccaHubbardWoodsposted 6 years ago

    Thank all of you so very much. You guys really are too kind. My mother told me to close my eyes and see his smile. That's really all I need to do. I've been doing it all day, and it's not so bad anymore. I can't tell you all how much I appreciate you. You are all such great people. I'm happy to be a part of this community. smile

  29. KCC Big Country profile image83
    KCC Big Countryposted 6 years ago

    Big hugs, Becca.....losing someone close to you is never easy.  Take care of yourself and remember the warmth and goodtimes of the time spent with your friend.

  30. samboiam profile image60
    samboiamposted 6 years ago

    Here is a big hug for you.


  31. Rafini profile image81
    Rafiniposted 6 years ago

    ((((HUGS)))) to you

  32. blondepoet profile image78
    blondepoetposted 6 years ago


  33. earnestshub profile image87
    earnestshubposted 6 years ago

    It hurts like hell doesn't it? I lost my beautiful daughter-inlaw at a young age. I found a way to cope by emulating her goodness however I can. I keep her in my mind and remember all her goodness. Somehow it allows me to feel she is still in my life.
    A big hug to you, and may you keep all the good memories alive.

  34. tony0724 profile image59
    tony0724posted 6 years ago

    I will take a hug graciously in any form ! smile

  35. sagbee profile image60
    sagbeeposted 6 years ago

    Here comes a big hug for you sweetheart :-)

  36. Mike Lickteig profile image91
    Mike Lickteigposted 6 years ago

    Many hugs to you, Becca.

    I lost a lifelong friend a few years ago, but I still remember and treasure the moments.

    Be good to yourself.