Most women enjoy feeling enclosed, or hidden. Men fall in love easier and sooner than woman. Men also believe in love at first sight, women do not. Though we might like a man, we do not want him to know it. He might not like us. He could think we are strange, weird, not right for him. Then we would have all of these emotional issues, gain or loose weight because of change in eating habits, possibly depression, etc. We believe it is better to not let the man know we like him so we do not have these issues.