I never keep asking someone to do anything! Unless an individual has a medical hearing problem then most likely they heard you the first or second time you asked! There are basically two reasons why they have not given you what you want.
1. They don't have it to give.
2. They don't believe you are worth the effort to give it to.
At any rate it is at this point where (you) have to decide if not getting what you want is a "deal breaker".
If it is, get out out!
If it's not, learn to live without!
Life is too short to be spending your time trying to fit square pegs into round holes or trying to change water into wine. If you are unhappy in a relationship and (choose) to stay then (YOU) are (choosing) to remain unhappy! You are responsible for your own happiness.
Sticking around to invest your time and energy into trying to "change" someone generally leads to (frustration) on your part and (resentment) on the part of your mate. You are better off finding someone who (already is) the kind of person you (want) to be with! Ultimately we are all looking for someone who loves and (appreciates) us for who we are.
There are only two ways to experinece joy and peace of mind in relationships: we either get what we want or we learn to be happy with what we have. The choice is up to you.