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Why does a naked woman get so much attention?

  1. Mamelody profile image60
    Mamelodyposted 7 years ago

    Well yesterday was a very interesting day. I was having lunch in a restaurant with my friend and as we chatted away, a naked man walked into the restaurant and ordered his meal. Of course people were looking but nobody dared asked him anything or confront him as he was a big fella, about 6'11 with a massive broad six pack chest and he did have a big ding dong.

    Shortly afterwards a naked woman walked in. Even before she stepped in, whistles were flying everywhere and all eyes were on her. She had a good pair of perky tits, nice slender body, tight a$$, golden hair and blue eyes. The cash-out boy just stared at her with his mouth open and almost all the guys surrounded her and they were just about to tear her apart but luckily the police came and took them away.

    It was later on we discovered we were on candid camera and it was just to see how normal people react to nudity.

    So I know this is a thousand year old question but what is it about the female body that just gets so much attention? Is it just the sex, obsession or what is it really?

    I mean, when a naked guy shows up people often cover their faces or look the other way but when it a naked girl EVERYONE including women will look at her.... so what is it really??

    1. Mikel G Roberts profile image87
      Mikel G Robertsposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Because she doesn't have any clothes on...Duh...

      1. rebekahELLE profile image88
        rebekahELLEposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        and they don't often walk into a restaurant.

      2. VampireAlice profile image56
        VampireAliceposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        well, when a naked woman walks in all eyes are on her (duh)
        they could be thinking mean thoughts, fantising or comaring her to themselves(woman). Men just think about how much they want her unless they are faithful to they're wifes then they are think about why she is in the resterant naked.

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      Poppa Bluesposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Humans are wired for sex. Women are designed to use their attributes to attract suitable mates and consequentally beautiful women particularly naked beautiful women will recieve all of the males attention. The women look because they are sizing up their competition. Remember they are wired to attract the most suitable mates and in nature would work to beat their competition. Conversely most men wouldn`t give more than a passing glance to a naked man, but I have a funny feeling the women were being less obvious about looking at the mail but were indeed looking perhaps even trying to attract his attention!

    3. de'Arab profile image55
      de'Arabposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      It's society's norms.

    4. vox vocis profile image91
      vox vocisposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      If you saw a cow walking on the street and entering a restaurant would it draw your (and everybody elses) attention?

    5. Harvey Stelman profile image60
      Harvey Stelmanposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      I knew you were from N.Y. Don't tell me you haven't seen stranger thing, I did

    6. Sab Oh profile image57
      Sab Ohposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      What the heck's a "six pack chest"? That sounds like a deformity.

      1. Sa Toya profile image76
        Sa Toyaposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        big_smile big_smile lol lol big_smile big_smile

    7. deZengo profile image58
      deZengoposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      For Instance :  http://apps.facebook.com/photosilove/vi … amp;ref=mf   is going around facebook.  No it isn't a restaurant, but there are average people hanging out.. with their husbands and/or children. 

      I decided after reading the responses (many of which I could almost feel the men beating their chest and going up / down.  Yes.. me me me.. pick me. YeaH.  I like boobies.. yeah.. me! )  No judgments.. sure we are part of the animal kingdom, hear us roar?    However, we have a "bigger" brain, a conscious, the ability to make cognate decisions.  We can control where our mind goes, how long we spend there and do we want to go back. 

      I am an artists.. I have drawn nudes / women & men.  Not once did I feel the urge to ... do anything but draw the models.  I know, I am a freak of nature .. a person who does not want to use their "SEX" as a selling tool in marketability.   Even with higher & more spiritual connections between a man and woman, there are times that do result with the union of their bodies – however,  it becomes an act of love & connection to our divine nature --> NOT lower impulse LUST.   

      Also, you may not be interested .. but for those who are... www.change.org has writers who are addressing "human trafficking issues" and can you guess what humans are being used / sold  for? 
      S-E-X!   Since .. we are still part of the greater animal kingdom, we do still have those lower (survival) instincts.  Must mate... must reproduce.. keep the species alive.  Those thoughts do not generally get raised to the surface, but the end result is exactly why MEN respond how they do to a nude woman.  And of course women know this.  For the majority of our life we have been forced fed through magazines, TV, movies.. of our worth. 

      For me, there is a time and place for everything.  Taking a bowel movement is natural, but we DO NOT do it in front of a group of strangers  (generally).  Since I believe my body is a SACRED SPACE I will NOT share it with horn dogs A-Z.  I will chose selectively who I want to share my most intimate gift ... with.  What can be more precious than the union between two souls in love? 

      As for the hoots to see a nude woman vs a man, you will get no hoots from our table .. no matter what gender-it is NOT appropriate in  my book of life.  I do not want to be an animal, therefor I will not act like on.

      Themz my thoughts.

      This is my idea of the human body as ART!
      http://www.flickr.com/photos/dezengo/4289903686/

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      Pani Midnyte Odinposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Perhaps it is because women tend to be more aesthetically pleasing than men. Even as a woman who is heterosexual, I will admit that women are, in general, much more attractive than men. It's human nature to think like this. Ever notice when you're watching a pornographic movie? For both sexes, your eyes tend to stay on the woman. Also, a woman's body is mysterious to most people. A man's body is less mysterious. Human Nature.

    9. Hokey profile image59
      Hokeyposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      It's because she is not clothed!!   tongue

      1. mega1 profile image79
        mega1posted 7 years ago in reply to this

        or maybe its the boobies!

        1. Stevennix2001 profile image83
          Stevennix2001posted 7 years ago in reply to this

          yeah, i second that!!!

  2. torimari profile image68
    torimariposted 7 years ago

    This and other posts of yours make me question your candor. :s

    1. Mamelody profile image60
      Mamelodyposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      fire away! big_smile

      1. thevoice profile image58
        thevoiceposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        naked women are god beauty

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    lyricsingrayposted 7 years ago

    hmm:

  4. Cagsil profile image61
    Cagsilposted 7 years ago

    Because men are dogs in heat and get self-absorbed when it comes to sexual activity. smile lol lol

    1. Mamelody profile image60
      Mamelodyposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      yep that pretty much sums it up! lol tongue

      1. Dave Mathews profile image61
        Dave Mathewsposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        You would look exceptionally hot clothed or not baby I'm neither blind nor dead yet.

  5. aware profile image70
    awareposted 7 years ago

    for the flaws? better be carefull getin nude round me ill pick you to pieces

  6. waynet profile image48
    waynetposted 7 years ago

    Because she told me too, her little pink eyes just kept looking at me as I sat there in my chair and I could not help but look at her eyes and before I knew it, my golden y-front thong flicked across the room at great speed!

    1. Cagsil profile image61
      Cagsilposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      lol lol lol

    2. Mamelody profile image60
      Mamelodyposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      lol lol

  7. Paradise7 profile image84
    Paradise7posted 7 years ago

    I have to say I wonder if this little story really happened.  Though one time I was visiting my friend Sharon for lunch and her husband, appropos of nothing that was going on, suddenly took HIS clothes off.  I must say I wasn't impressed.  He wasn't endowed with anything to brag about.

    I think really nudity is getting less shocking by the minute.  It's become old.  Tho most people still wear clothes just to protect themselves from weather and so forth.

    1. Cagsil profile image61
      Cagsilposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Hey Paradise, how are you today? Been a while. smile big_smile

      1. Paradise7 profile image84
        Paradise7posted 7 years ago in reply to this

        Ok, I had the winter blues.  Also, my old mom got sick, right when I was making arrangements to get to Haiti to see if I could help out down there, so that whole deal fell through.  In the meantime...I do taxes for a couple people and it's that time of year here.  I have less enthusiasm for this business every year, which is kinda sad.  It used to be my livelihood.

        How you doin'?  More info than you wanted to know, sorry!!!!

        1. waynet profile image48
          waynetposted 7 years ago in reply to this

          ? boobies much!?

        2. Cagsil profile image61
          Cagsilposted 7 years ago in reply to this

          You could never give me too much information. Sorry to hear your trip to Haiti has been postponed. Also, not good that mom is sick too.

          As for your livelihood, I can only say...keep your chin up. smile

    2. Mamelody profile image60
      Mamelodyposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      I live in the heart of Rio and over here nudity is not a big deal especially since carnival is coming up and we spend almost four days totally naked! But it just amazes me how the female body still attracts attention with no clothes on..tongue

      1. Cagsil profile image61
        Cagsilposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        See my previous comment about MEN ARE DOGS...lol tongue big_smile

        1. K Partin profile image57
          K Partinposted 7 years ago in reply to this

          Not all men! big_smile

      2. Eaglekiwi profile image73
        Eaglekiwiposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        Why does it amaze you so , where nudity is not a big deal , wink

        Personally it would shock the hell outta me and Id probably crack up laughing , speciall since its chilly here at the moment...lol

      3. Dave Mathews profile image61
        Dave Mathewsposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        Baby your body will attract attention clothes or not men love a perky set of breasts, a slender waist and a cute little A$$, dressed or undressed. Yours especially cuz it's hot.

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    lyricsingrayposted 7 years ago

    lol

  9. Cagsil profile image61
    Cagsilposted 7 years ago

    I'm doing well too. smile big_smile

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    lyricsingrayposted 7 years ago

    ? roll  dogs?  a little harsh, are you calling yourself a dog?

  11. Paradise7 profile image84
    Paradise7posted 7 years ago

    Hey, you know, I LIKE dogs...men, well....big_smilebig_smilebig_smile

    1. Cagsil profile image61
      Cagsilposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      yikes tongue

      1. Paradise7 profile image84
        Paradise7posted 7 years ago in reply to this

        No worries, you're cool!

  12. Cagsil profile image61
    Cagsilposted 7 years ago

    Hmmm? cool lol lol

  13. seanorjohn profile image81
    seanorjohnposted 7 years ago

    because they look beautiful,desirable,and men don't. It's a mystery.

    1. Paradise7 profile image84
      Paradise7posted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Good answer.  I LIKE it! big_smilebig_smilebig_smile

  14. K Partin profile image57
    K Partinposted 7 years ago

    Because they are much better to look at! Plan and simple....lol

    Easy on the eyes!

    1. Paradise7 profile image84
      Paradise7posted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Extremely good answer.  You got THAT right!

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    RealRioResidentposted 7 years ago

    Este é bullshit. A peça cândido da câmera faz-lhe o bullshit dobro.

    1. K Partin profile image57
      K Partinposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      WHAT? I don't think I like the bullshit part. yikes

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        RealRioResidentposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        The story is a joke only, not real. Total nude is not permitted in restaurants, for health. The Candid camera part is more stupid, a joke.

  16. NewYorker profile image62
    NewYorkerposted 7 years ago

    Hooormoneees.

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    poetlorraineposted 7 years ago

    we are just positively wonderful .............. and cyberlicious that is why of course.

  18. Paradise7 profile image84
    Paradise7posted 7 years ago

    Cyberlicious.  Gonna steal that phrase and use it someday...

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    poetlorraineposted 7 years ago

    well i made that word up, wrote a hub called it and lo and behold it is already around somewhere else on here, but hublicious...... feel free to use it,,,,,,

  20. Paradise7 profile image84
    Paradise7posted 7 years ago

    Thanks, poet! big_smilebig_smilebig_smile

  21. thisisoli profile image56
    thisisoliposted 7 years ago

    where was this naked woman? big_smile

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      poetlorraineposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      you missed the boat thisisoli........ love the name

  22. whiteorchids profile image69
    whiteorchidsposted 7 years ago

    Personally I believe that you made this one up, where did this happen? Here in the U.S.? You certainly have a creative mind.

  23. theirishobserver. profile image57
    theirishobserver.posted 7 years ago

    Wishful thinking: if you have ever attended a Hen Party where a male stripper appears you will find that women get just as excited about naked men as men get about naked women, personally a naked woman does not excite me unless she is in my bedroom, I think women like to think men get more excited about the naked female form but its wishful thinking...... smile

    1. Daniel Carter profile image89
      Daniel Carterposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Well, I'm not completely sure that's true in all situations. In *public* people feel a need to be "descent" and proper in their disgust, because in most cultures, this type of public nudity is unacceptable. However, in a venue where inhibitions are discouraged, such as a strip club, it's considered an "outlet" and "release" (as it were).

      My take is that female nudity is considered an expression of vulnerability and an invitation to males for sex. Imposing male figures who purposely go nude in public are usually seen as an alpha male type figure and are considered a risk for some kind of attack, particularly sexual. However, I think if a very unimposing male figure were to be nude in public, you'd find a completely different, perhaps opposite reaction.

      Those are my thoughts, anyhoo.

  24. rmshdc profile image60
    rmshdcposted 7 years ago

    lol

  25. theirishobserver. profile image57
    theirishobserver.posted 7 years ago

    Daniel, hear what your saying, but no, I was in Germany, everyone on the beach was naked, I wasnt bothered, some of the finest women on Gods earth, as i said unless the naked female form is in my bedroom Im not bothered.....wishful thinking smile

    1. Daniel Carter profile image89
      Daniel Carterposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      I see your point, Irish. I guess I'm speaking from a perspective of my own experience, which would be quite a bit different than the beaches of Germany. Thanks for the insight.
      wink

  26. Eaglekiwi profile image73
    Eaglekiwiposted 7 years ago

    Gravity is a cruel quirk of nature lol

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    zampanoposted 7 years ago

    Because, when a woman is naked, chances of our species survival increase...

  28. Anath profile image73
    Anathposted 7 years ago

    It all depends where she is naked.  A naked woman walking around a nudist camp won't get any more attention than a man or viceversa.

    I think it all depends on the degree of sexual repression of the individual: the more repressed you are, the more shocked you will be. 

    I have seen naked women (and men) at parties -ordinary guests- and they didn't get any more attention than the ones who were fully dressed! That is why I say that it all depends on the viewer and its pre conceptions about nudity and sex in general.

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      logic,commonsenseposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      I've got to get invited to your parties! smile

  29. Rod Marsden profile image74
    Rod Marsdenposted 7 years ago

    A decade ago and experiment was run at a nudist beach in Australia. A young attractive woman in a bikini ran across the beach. There were other also attractive women on the beach but it was the woman in the bikini that got all the attention. Why? Mainly because she had a little bit of mystery about her because the men and other women couldn't see all her bits and pieces and simply had to imagine.

  30. profile image0
    zampanoposted 7 years ago

    of course it would.

  31. profile image0
    lyricsingrayposted 7 years ago

    cool

  32. Freda Raffeal profile image60
    Freda Raffealposted 7 years ago

    human instinct after all

  33. profile image0
    zampanoposted 7 years ago

    Now, the important question is :
    What would be the cow's order ?
    Salad ?

  34. drej2522 profile image83
    drej2522posted 7 years ago

    <<<<<(beats on chest like cave man) Me like naked woman! (Grunt Grunt)

  35. SweetiePie profile image84
    SweetiePieposted 7 years ago

    I am so out of the loop in my town, but apparently there was a rave at a closed amusement park in town, and it caused some controversy.  One man's fourteen year old daughter ended up missing after going to the rave, and they found her in the Kmart parking lot a few days later.  Apparently some people who were attending the rave went to the local Walmart, but got thrown out because they were not wearing anything.  I never heard about any of this at the time until I read about it online a month later.

  36. Preethi Anusha profile image89
    Preethi Anushaposted 7 years ago

    1st thing , a naked man appeals women ... and women generally shay away in such situations ... so there are more faces turning away .. than ppl seeming interested

    2nd a lady cant b seen naked so often and no guy don like missin it ... so there are more jaw drops and whistles  .
    this makes us feel that naked women appeal more then naked men .

  37. Sa Toya profile image76
    Sa Toyaposted 7 years ago

    Naked man and no one said anything...I'd have jumped on him or attempted a kidnapping.


    As for naked women...women are hot and a hot woman is a hot woman even other women can't dispute that big_smile

    1. Dave Mathews profile image61
      Dave Mathewsposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      If you did jump him I hope you have a condom in your purse no need for STDs.

  38. Hokey profile image59
    Hokeyposted 7 years ago

    Personally I just like to look at naked women.  smile

  39. Lady_E profile image81
    Lady_Eposted 7 years ago

    Lol Hokey.


    In response - It could have been that there were more men than women in the restaurant....

  40. Sunga profile image61
    Sungaposted 7 years ago

    Here is the thing:

    Men get turned on sexually by what they see. That's why the porn industry flourishes.

    Women are turned on by their emotions. Which is why "sweet talk" works.

    These are God given designs. It's a question of how you use them. Abuse them at own peril.

    Been there.

    1. defenestratethis profile image57
      defenestratethisposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Yeah, I agree Sunga..men are visual and women auditory when it comes to sex. I also heard that when it comes to porn, men like to watch it and women like to read it.

      1. Rafini profile image87
        Rafiniposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        ooohhh, interesting...
        I still say the romance novels I read are strictly for the Writing!!   lol lol lol

  41. profile image0
    lyricsingrayposted 7 years ago

    because attention rhymes with dimension?  hmm:

  42. dr.gunnz profile image56
    dr.gunnzposted 7 years ago

    because we want to hit that so we are bold with our movements females keep it in there mind (well some do)

  43. Rafini profile image87
    Rafiniposted 7 years ago

    Simply because the women who witness another woman walking around naked want to know why she has the nerve to disrupt their meal, and the men are concentrating on keeping their pants on!

    1. Mamelody profile image60
      Mamelodyposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      lol

  44. blondepoet profile image75
    blondepoetposted 7 years ago

    Which restaurant do you go to smile

  45. Rayalternately profile image59
    Rayalternatelyposted 7 years ago

    Never mind all this wondering contextual consideration of the sexes. Where's this restaurant that naked people wonder into all the time, that's what I want to know? big_smile

  46. Mamelody profile image60
    Mamelodyposted 7 years ago

    It's called "Pinco Diablo" which means "the Devil's Lounge" right in the heart of Rio..

  47. Stevennix2001 profile image83
    Stevennix2001posted 7 years ago

    because women are easier on the eyes.  big_smile

    1. Mamelody profile image60
      Mamelodyposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      no we not.. y'all just lustful bastards!! lol lol

      1. Stevennix2001 profile image83
        Stevennix2001posted 7 years ago in reply to this

        yeah, but can you blame us?  besides, its hard not to look when hot girls like yourself are running around.  wink   lol

  48. mega1 profile image79
    mega1posted 7 years ago

    I've been thinking a bout this quite a bit lately, and come to the conclusion that your premise is untrue - men get just as much attention for being nude - in fact, more attention from me!  and I may have to go find a man and peel off his clothes with my eyes!  if I can figure out how to do it, that is!  does it hurt?

    1. Hokey profile image59
      Hokeyposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Wouldn't hurt me!!!   big_smile

      1. mega1 profile image79
        mega1posted 7 years ago in reply to this

        good to know - that robe makes everything so much easier, too!

        1. Hokey profile image59
          Hokeyposted 7 years ago in reply to this

          Easy access. Us Buddhists know how to be one with everything!!  big_smile

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            lord_lamokposted 7 years ago in reply to this

            n syo

  49. profile image0
    moonphlowerposted 7 years ago

    It's because we're so sexy!!  wink

    1. profile image54
      lord_lamokposted 7 years ago in reply to this

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