In all failed attempts there is a lesson to learn. Those who are truely successful in life have tried & failed many times before, yet tried & tried again with the 'belief' in their successful outcome. Have faith!
Those who don't try & appear to get everything they want will not be anywhere near as strong a person as those who have dusted themselves down many times before & tried again with a new approach. One day they are likely to fall & not be able to pick themselves up, that's where you excel past them!