she's back with a message to me and anyone who supports me

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   blatvaposted 14 years ago

   People disappoint me sometimes.. Stupid Frackin' trolls...

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   Maximus591posted 14 years ago

   Get a grip people.
   
   By validating the drama queen you simply become bit players in her ensuing drama. This then validates her crises. With her crises validated she can deepen the drama and involve more people. See things for what they are people, don't be dumb.
   
   By all means offer her support. But don't confuse support with playing her game. The two are not the same. Understand the drama she's playing out online... step back from it, then offer support that does not validate the drama. It's a tough skill... which none of you appear to possess.

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      myownworldposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      ok. this is my cue for leaving! Save this thread from drowning people!!!

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         readytoescapeposted 14 years agoin reply to this

         Agreed, there is no sound reason to get involved in a battle of wits with an unarmed opponent.

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            blatvaposted 14 years agoin reply to this

            That made me giggle :3

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            Cagsilposted 14 years agoin reply to this

            

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      Marisa Wrightposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      Not sure who you are aiming at here, Maximus, but I agree, assuming you mean the troll.
      
      By far the best approach to this situation is - don't feed the troll.  Ignore her. Lyric, now everyone's had a chance to have their say, I would delete the original comment and all the responses to her from other Hubbers.  They detract from the spirit of the Hub. Rise above it.

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         Daniel Carterposted 14 years agoin reply to this

         I think this is good advice. In the coming months, it may detract from the intention you originally give your writing. However, in the end, it must be your decision.

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      Daniel Carterposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      Methinks you also love a good drama, Shakespear. If not, you would have passed over this thread and not replied at all.

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   Crazdwriterposted 14 years ago

   oh you 2

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   Has_aWayWithWordsposted 14 years ago

   I can't scratch my balls in the morning I have this big piece of wood in the way

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      blatvaposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      Please tell me you sleep on bunk beds that are just tooo close together XD Haha

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   Has_aWayWithWordsposted 14 years ago

   lol  good one

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   lyricsingrayposted 14 years ago

   Maximus, I am prepared to be banned to attacking your character
   
   but hear me clearly, your jealousy of someone receiving unconditional support to such a large degree makes you jealous.  Your limited vocabulary only can create a statement of drama queen.  Your lack of creativity is why you can only post so seldom.  Your repetitiveness reveals your inability to express your feelings.  You feel invalidated in the community so attack people for attention.  How frustrating it must be for you that you never get that attention.  Similar to using drama as a means of getting noticed.  Your not a nice looking man so you feel inferior to most of the rest here in the community.  You attack mostly women assuming the men would destroy you much quicker.  If only your insecurities could be comforted with our involvement in your game maybe you could be happy and being single and still a virgin I do imagine must be frustrating not to mention embarrassing.  As you judge, specifically me at the moment, know I am not judging you as I have empathy for those who are less fortune and you must struggle quite a bit.  Find peace in your addiction to masturbation and feeling no shame that you prefer men to women.
   
   You are in my thoughts.

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      lyricsingrayposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      .

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         lyricsingrayposted 14 years agoin reply to this

         .

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            lyricsingrayposted 14 years agoin reply to this

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               Mishaposted 14 years agoin reply to this

               Kim, just let him go, too. He does not deserve attention you are giving him.

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            Marisa Wrightposted 14 years agoin reply to this

            Lyric, that's called cutting off your nose to spite your face.
            
            I know you are angry and upset but repeatedly posting an attack on another Hubber is just being childish.  Take a little time to calm down.  I actually thought Maximus was talking about your commenter - everyone else ignored it. You should do the same.

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         Sufidreamerposted 14 years agoin reply to this

         I wonder if it enjoyed the homoerotic ball-scratching banter?
         
         Anyway, on that note, off to bed.
         
         Take it easy and have a good evening!
         
         Night Misha, you Sexy Russian Bear

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            Daniel Carterposted 14 years agoin reply to this

            I just don't know what to say to either of you except sweet dreams. I'll probably wake up in the night laughing about all this....
            

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   blondepoetposted 14 years ago

   Hurray for Lyrics what would we do without such a beautiful Hubber!!!
   
   

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      Cagsilposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      Awesome picture.

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   lyricsingrayposted 14 years ago

   pardon my manners, but also have a nice evening

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   Has_aWayWithWordsposted 14 years ago

   How do I get to be where that chimp is

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      blondepoetposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      Grow a little hair, down a few bananas and head to Singapore Zoo lol.

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         Cagsilposted 14 years agoin reply to this

         Good answer.

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            blondepoetposted 14 years agoin reply to this

            Hiya Cags

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               Cagsilposted 14 years agoin reply to this

               What's up gorgeous?
               
               How are you?

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    Has_aWayWithWordsposted 14 years ago

    LMFAO, why can't i just get a wig rub on some banana lotion and put my hand down your shirt?

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       blondepoetposted 14 years agoin reply to this

       haha

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          Jane@CMposted 14 years agoin reply to this

          giggles

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    readytoescapeposted 14 years ago

    Listen to Misha...Go get some sleep we can all go trolling another day

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    Mishaposted 14 years ago

    Sweet dreams Sufi

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    lyricsingrayposted 14 years ago

    thank you very much.

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    Crazdwriterposted 14 years ago

    aaaa lyrics that is such a cute pic I forgot to mention that on your hub

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    Mishaposted 14 years ago

    I am seriously loving this pic

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    blondepoetposted 14 years ago

    It's beautiful Lyrics is that you and your daughter?

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    lyricsingrayposted 14 years ago

    yes, our last visit and first time she came to me for a kiss.

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       blondepoetposted 14 years agoin reply to this

       oh Lyrics....she's beautiful just like her Mum

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          blatvaposted 14 years agoin reply to this

          I aaaaaaaagree

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    Beth100posted 14 years ago

    ((Hugs)) Kimberly.  Lots of them.

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    logic,commonsenseposted 14 years ago

    Kimberly, I am a huge fan of yours! I love to read your posts.  I feel really bad that you are going through this.  I hope this will soon blow over and you get back to your sweet, fun, vivacious self!
    Don't let this person bring you down.  We are pulling for you!

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    Poppa Bluesposted 14 years ago

    I couldn`t agree or disagree with that woman yesterday and I still feel she is entitled to her opinion though she should have expressed her views in a way that wasn`t critical of you. After reading There Was A Girl, I can now say I support your decision to write and post it. It`s a well written piece appropriate for any girl entering puberty with valuable lessons to be learned from your experience. I commend you!

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    Justine76posted 14 years ago

    wow. I normally try to read thru the whole thread, to keep up, and make sure I dont say what someone already said...but ..its a long thread and I have alot going on right now....
    
    The reason it hurts so much to have motherhood attacked is you already inherently on your own feel unsure and insecure. In a trying time of emotional difficulty and unsureness, you dont need someone throwing in your face exactly what you already were afraid of.
    (ps, its wrong..I think your fine...)
    
    This other woman either has alot of time on her hands and thinks she's some kind of god, wich is frightening, or she has her own secret and she is desperatly cowardly trying to hide, and feels threatend by anyone who is real. She wants to knock down anyone who did differently then her to PROVE her own goodness to herself. We dont know her story, but she has to LIVE her own pathetic shallow frightned life. One thing I do know for a FACT...its awful lonely up there on high horses...
    
    The best thing to do is forget it. leave her completly alone. No good can come of all these online verbal attacks. (you too max)Go on wiht yoru life, delete the comemnts, do not bother saying anything more to her.
    Focus your energies on taking care of yourself.
    xo

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    myownworldposted 14 years ago

    yes, I agree justine..though i don't know why, i have a gut feeling this woman is a relative or something, and has a personal agenda...maybe I'm wrong....let's see what Lyr thinks...

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       Justine76posted 14 years agoin reply to this

       OMG!!!! I had not considered that, its odd tho... The only people who have accused me of being a bad mother have been family....

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          myownworldposted 14 years agoin reply to this

          me too...hence the thought! but let's hear from Lyr before jumping conclusions....

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             Hmrjmr1posted 14 years agoin reply to this

             A Rat smells there own hole first and then tries to divert intruders...
             Kimberly - You are one of the bravest of the brave, and stronger than any who have not walked that trail and moved the rocks will ever know...Bless you lass...John

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       tantrumposted 14 years agoin reply to this

       I think the same.
       It seems she knows a lot more. Like the video.
       Makes me wonder....

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          myownworldposted 14 years agoin reply to this

          I'm wondering the EXACT thing...

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    habeeposted 14 years ago

    I just left another comment on the hub, Kim. Hang in there, pal - you have a wide network of support! Sending hugs and prayers!
    
    Holle

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    emievilposted 14 years ago

    Have left one too. Been too busy the whole day to read the threads here. No wonder I missed this! Hope you're doing okay Kim.

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    blatvaposted 14 years ago

    We're all here for you Kimberly!  :3 I am sending good vibes in your direction

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    Sunshiney31posted 14 years ago

    I think this woman is severly haunted from her past.She's oviously got alot of things in her own closet and it makes her feel better to hide them.Good for you for giving your past a voice! What a better way to learn than from our mistakes and mistakes of others.History will repaet itself if not veiwed and a concience effort made not to repeat it.You've given your daughter a wonderful gift.A true piece of yourself.

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    caravalhophotoposted 14 years ago

    Lyrics...
    
    I must say you are a very strong woman.  First to put your past on the table and confronting it head on and showing the World your past and your pain.  Bravo!  I did follow her directions, I looked at myself in the mirror...I watched your video...and then I looked at myself in the mirror.
    I saw me...a woman who used drugs and was alone...I saw me in your video...alone, scared and trying to figure out how to get my next fix.
    I also had the same past...it was who I was, but it did not define who I am, which is a good person who made some mistakes.
    This woman who has judged you obviously feels as if she is on a pedestal and superior to all...when she gets knocked off, she will have a hard time picking herself up.  Do not waste your time with her comments...
    You my friend...are very beautiful, talented and not afraid to send a message to help others who may be in the position you were.  Great videos and great message.

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