What do you think about changes?

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   sofsposted 13 years ago

   How would life be without the changes that occur every minute?

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      goldenpathposted 13 years agoin reply to this

      Well, it would get awful itchy if my underwear wasn't changed now and then.  So I guess I would say that without change life would suck.

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         sofsposted 13 years agoin reply to this

         You would get awfully sick, if you are not already!   

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      rebekahELLEposted 13 years agoin reply to this

      boring and closed. no change-no growth-closed mind

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      IntimatEvolutionposted 13 years agoin reply to this

      I love change.
      
      However, most people that I come across say they do, but, really resist it.  That's a shame.

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      nikki1posted 13 years agoin reply to this

      It makes us the awesome people we are.

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   timorousposted 13 years ago

   Boring.
   
   Your mind, and in fact all your senses need constantly changing input.  They all rely on the 'differences' from moment to moment..not the seemingly constant, but more consciously obvious presence of things.
   
   Try placing your hand on a very rough surface.  Keep your hand absolutely still.  After a short while, you won't be able to tell that it's rough, until you move your fingers a little bit.  Same goes with all your senses..use them wisely.

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      sofsposted 13 years agoin reply to this

      Well said  Timorous!   Life without change is boring indeed, absolutely , with nothing to look forward to.
      Still when change comes we do resist it, crib about it, even oppose it ...
      Shouldn't we look at change as opportunities to better ourselves.

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         timorousposted 13 years agoin reply to this

         Absolutely.  People who resist change are just way too comfortable with the same old thing.  It's as though they feel more grounded if they know what to expect.  Unfortunately, this is very limiting, and eventually they just get bored or depressed.
         
         Still, having certain constants in your life is a relatively good thing.  We'd drive ourselves nuts if absolutely everything was in constant flux..that's just way too stressful.  It's the smaller, more peripheral things that need to change constantly.

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            sofsposted 13 years agoin reply to this

            You've  made a great point again, not all change is welcome, we need some constants in life.  I couldn't think of having a different husband or kids 
            That is a constant I need in life!!
            Stability is good, as is change!!
            The balance in life!! 

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   Cagsilposted 13 years ago

   Life wouldn't be life without change.

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      sofsposted 13 years agoin reply to this

      I am in complete and perfect agreement with you on this   ,  so bleak and uninteresting, no surprises around the corner 

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         Cagsilposted 13 years agoin reply to this

         The fact that people go out of their way to try and make their life not change just goes to show how ignorant they choose to be.

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            sofsposted 13 years agoin reply to this

            Some people are afraid of change, of the unknown what do you make of it?

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               Cagsilposted 13 years agoin reply to this

               I would say that they lack faith in themselves.

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            Pcunixposted 13 years agoin reply to this

            You mean like Conservatives?

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   ralwusposted 13 years ago

   change can be stress, but time standing still is not going to happen

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      Cagsilposted 13 years agoin reply to this

      Stress is a figment of the imagination of oneself and a lack of faith in oneself.

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         sofsposted 13 years agoin reply to this

         Isn't it so real for those who face it?  we see people falling apart under stress all the time.

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            Cagsilposted 13 years agoin reply to this

            Due to a lack of faith in one's own ability and view to see choices.

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   adrienne2posted 13 years ago

   Without changes my life sure would not be eventful.  Its the changes that keep me swinging from limb to limb.(LOL)

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   wildorangeflowerposted 13 years ago

   Change is what makes life interesting, change is permanent!

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   Arthur Fontesposted 13 years ago

   The only absolute constant is change!

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   AuntySaposted 13 years ago

   Changes are one of the best things we look forward to in every day of our lives.  It is the changes that bring spice to every experience we have.  Changes make one's life more meaningful.

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      sofsposted 13 years agoin reply to this

      Yes but,  not all of us adapt well to changes, we take kindly , only to those changes that we like, not those that make us move from our comfort zones.

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         Cagsilposted 13 years agoin reply to this

         Change negates comfort zone, unless you are comfortable with change.

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            sofsposted 13 years agoin reply to this

            Consider stuff like losing a job, or  losing your house... It takes a positive person to bounce back from stuff like that... those who are not so positive may just bend and break along the way....

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               Cagsilposted 13 years agoin reply to this

               When one door closes another always opens. It's the view of the person that has to change, so they can see what door opened.

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   Arthur Fontesposted 13 years ago

   david bowie – changes ♫ http://blip.fm/~w4qea

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    mega1posted 13 years ago

    we can't change change - all we can do is choose how we react to it - embracing change is usually good, having to have things constantly moving and shaking is probably too much change - its super nice to have same old same old some of the time just so we can feel like we know what to expect.   Too much change is stressful - and stress, whether it comes from inside or out can make one a very unhappy camper.  People who try to deny that change is going on or that they have stresses on them, are just limiting themselves and probably developing ulcers.  Its good to see things as close to the way they are as possible, so you can react, or choose not to react, in a realistic, positive way.

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    katiem2posted 13 years ago

    I love change, I welcome it and feel it's great to get the old blood flowing and the mind active. 

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    burningdesireposted 13 years ago

    Life without changes meaning we are not doing anything about our life and that is not possible! Everyday we are evolving! Even in death means changes.

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       sofsposted 13 years agoin reply to this

       Very true, changes occur whether you like it or not!! Adapting to changes is what we are talking about, constant changes causes stress so there needs to be a balance maintained in life.... your thoughts in that area.

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