Bobbyben, it appears what's going on here is whatever you want to make of it! You're a guy, and whoever started this ages ago was calling out to you martians--if nothing else, let's see how many wavelengths we can all relate to! Obviously, I've been booted out, and I'm from venus, so you oughta do okay! (seems y'all have landed on one wavelength--age--such a shame, since I've been in a 20-younger-than-me relationship, and found age means nothing -- until your skin is worse than what doesn't show!) - Rambling - do that when I'm waking up! Sorry - outta here - leave it to you, bobbyben to keep these gals talkin'!