How would you react and [what will you do] if you discover that your partner is

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   ubanichijiokeposted 12 years ago

   How would you react and [what will you do] if you discover that your partner is cheating on you?

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   white999posted 12 years ago

   i will leave him or her  and i will  never  talk with my partner

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   The black mistposted 12 years ago

   pack up and leave of course, once a cheat always a cheat

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   nightwork4posted 12 years ago

   after i throw them out the door, not a whole lot.

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   padmendraposted 12 years ago

   It is obvious that when someone is found cheating in the relationship, it is just due to the reasons  that either of them  is not happy  in the relationship. If we object to it and react  in  anger, nothing is going to work.  Instead what I feel,   we should let him/her go without any argument.  Later when the partner realizes that  it was a mistake on his/her part, the repentance of sin  will  never give him/her a respite and  peace of mind.

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   Jennie Demarioposted 12 years ago

   I think the only answer is to cut ties with that person.  I don't think anyone really ever gets over it in the relationship.  You may forgive but you will not forget.  It will haunt you forever.  Easier said then done but you need to walk away.

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   Mansi2512posted 12 years ago

   I would definitley end the relationship even if I loved the person a lot. Cos cheating is cheating. And there is no second chance.

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   Smart is Goodposted 12 years ago

   Depends on the type of relationship you're in. If it's a marriage then it's harder because there's family involved. But of course it's no excuse. Cheating is  a very awful disrespect and I would feel very offended and disappointed. I would forgive him, for my own sake but I would also forget him. I wouldn't make a scene or a scandal and call him names or insult him, that's just stupid and you'd be acting immature just like him. I would talk with him and make very clear that he has betrayed my trust and that I feel disrespected. I would tell him that I feel very disappointed and that the whole perception I had of his persona was wrong, so I don't want to be involved with him anymore. Not now, not ever. Be very firm about your decision. It's his loss, he decided to break up the relationship by cheating, not you. You're just cleaning up after his mess. So I would break up for good

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   CannyGirlposted 12 years ago

   I would leave and never talk to them again. They would become non existent, a nobody in my life., Cheating is the lowest of the low. If you feel the need to cheat, you should end the relationship first. Can't have your cake and eat it. Remember karma

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    carolpposted 12 years ago

    Loyalty anf honesty is important for a relationship to last. Trusting both makes the relationship stronger. Cheating in any way has consequences either giving another chance or giving up both., Honest conversation with one another brings confusion to understanding the reality.

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    ubanichijiokeposted 12 years ago

    For me, each of these thoughtful answer[s] count. Thank you my lovely friends. God will continue to shower his blessings on you all.

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