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Harvey Stelmanposted 14 years ago
Do you think most people marry the best sexual partner they have ever had?
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  Mr Niceposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Experience makes a big difference but practice makes a man perfect.
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  Harvey Stelmanposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Nice,
  
  It's the same for a woman.
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  Richieb799posted 14 years agoin reply to this
  how would you know? you may have had a good one and then lost them, anyway, that would'nt work because sex is only a small part of what makes a relationship last
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  Harvey Stelmanposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Richie,
  
  How would I know; I never said I did. I merely asked a question.
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  IntimatEvolutionposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  My first husband yes, he still holds the score.
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  Harvey Stelmanposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  intimate,
  
  Is that why he's bye-bye?
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  lyricsingrayposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  hell no, and I guess it's who's to still come after....
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  Harvey Stelmanposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  lyric,
  
  Did you spell come correctly?
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  lyricsingrayposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  ha
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  Harvey Stelmanposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  lyric,
  
  Ha, I told a joke. youtube achmed the dead terrorist to get the full understanding, hillarous.
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  John Arumugamposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  I believe the sex part will fizzle out after some time. So I don't think one should marry just because his/her partner are great lovers. Once the children come along, this would be the ultimate test of the marriage.
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  shriketexasposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  I am a fifty-five year old man with a brain that thinks its eighteen and a member that thinks its thirteen and the bedroom is one big romper room and my wife isn't complaining, so what can I say, but it's fun and I don't think God made sex for us just to procreate, although we do have six grown children and five grandchildren, but my family is my wealth, but my fifty-five year old body sometimes has a hard time keeping up with my little grandchildren, they can make you tired just watching them.
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  Harvey Stelmanposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Tex,
  
  Go get 'em! Rope the wife when you can, please don't use it as a hitching post.
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  Life as I see Itposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  I think I married the best lover I ever had. Sex is important
  in a marriage. It is the physical act of connecting beyond description.
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  akirchnerposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Gosh I hope so because I sure did! What would be the point of 'settling' - but then again, I'm of the mind that you can always, always, always make things better - as long as you communicate and are both open-minded enough to listen to the other person's needs and what works for them. Maybe it's a Polyanna type of mentality but it has worked for 35 years for me.
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  curlytree2009posted 14 years agoin reply to this
  I don't think so. It is so shallow if they only pick one person because he or she is good in bed. You should be able to be more intelligent about that matter. Pick that someone who will love you and be your companion at all times and not only in bed.
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  C.J. Wrightposted 13 years agoin reply to this
  I don't think so. Besides that's relative. A person could be great, but have an appetite that's incompatible to you.
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Denno66posted 14 years ago
You know that the moths are coming....
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  Harvey Stelmanposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Denno,
  
  No-No, you remember.
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  Denno66posted 14 years agoin reply to this
  I, good sir, am glad to be proven wrong. I truly expected your detractors to follow you here, and they did not. In response to your question, I believe that love does make your partner the very best, hands down.
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  Harvey Stelmanposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Denno,
  
  I never said anything about using your hands.
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  Denno66posted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Ba dum Bum!
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  Harvey Stelmanposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Deanno, I'll bet you used your hand to type!
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  Mitch Rappposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Moths to a flame?
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  Harvey Stelmanposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Mitch,
  
  Speaking for myself; I am no longer a flame.
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Ohmaposted 14 years ago
I would like to think that we are deeper than that.
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  Harvey Stelmanposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Ohma,
  
  We are, but that isn't the question.
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blondepoetposted 14 years ago
It's fate!!!!
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  Harvey Stelmanposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  blonde,
  
  Please explain!
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PrettyPantherposted 14 years ago
Sometimes, but perhaps what happens more often is the one you love becomes the best sexual partner you've ever had.
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  sarah dawkinsposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  I don't think so, marriage should be for love, sex can evolve and be the best ever as you learn about each other's preferences.
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  Harvey Stelmanposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Sarah,
  
  An honest person.
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  Pamela N Redposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  I agree with Sarah. Loving the person makes it better.
  
  I chose a man that would be a good husband and father and lover was further down on my list although he did turn out to be really good.
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  Harvey Stelmanposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Pam,
  
  You are well blessed.
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  Harvey Stelmanposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  pretty,
  
  Are you married?
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  PrettyPantherposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  I am divorced and have been so for 15 years. I am very much in love and am engaged to be married in the spring.
  
  Why do you ask?
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  Harvey Stelmanposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  pretty,
  
  I asked because I had a feeling you were younger and hadn't been married yet.
  
  Why do you ask why I asked? This could go on.
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  PrettyPantherposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Interesting. I asked why you asked because I wanted to know.
  
  Now, I want to know why you think I'm younger. I'm actually a very experienced older woman.
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  Harvey Stelmanposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  pretty,
  
  Don't say older to me, respect your elders. I can say that now.
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  PrettyPantherposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Oh, heavens, I didn't say I was older than you!
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  SweetiePieposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  He likes attention, and that is what this is about .
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  PrettyPantherposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Well, I suppose we're all on the forums to get attention in one way or another.
  
  But, I get your drift. :-)
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  Harvey Stelmanposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  pretty,
  
  Anyone that comments on a thread like this should only do it for fun. I'm really bragging, try this.
  
  I'm a handicapped 60 year old man, with a very bad case of multiple Sclerosis. I sit in a wheelchair all day and suffer from severe pain and much more. I am sorry if I offended any of you.
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  PrettyPantherposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Harvey, we cross posted. I just saw this one after I posted the other one. As you can see, I am not offended.
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  Harvey Stelmanposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  pretty,
  
  I am sooo hurt you are not offended. What other reason would I have to start this thread.
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  Harvey Stelmanposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  pretty,
  
  Less and less are every day.
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Bill Manningposted 14 years ago
Nope. One of my first girlfriends was a real medical nymphomaniac. She wanted it 4 times a day, every day, every way. It was the best sex I ever had!

But I dumped her after 2 years as I had no respect for her. Not because she wanted sex all the time; other things.

Now I want someone who I can take my time with and enjoy, teaching each other what we want. But I sure regret I was a damn jack rabbit at the age I had that girl. Rat-a-tat-tat,,,bang!!

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  Harvey Stelmanposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Bill,
  
  I had one that was good for 10 times a day. I would beg her to leave the apt, but I didn't say she was the best. I didn't say she wasn't.
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  SweetiePieposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Not trying to be rude, but I really think you want attention Harvey. No one really cares how many times a day you did it, or if it was the best. I think there are other sites where you could share that info, like adultfriendfinder.com or something.
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  Harvey Stelmanposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  pretty,
  
  I not as an insult; then why are you here and commenting? I just do things like this for fun. Someone else mentioned numbers and I responde with truth.
  
  That was when I was 21-22. I honestly believed that every guy my age was like this. As I got older there wasn't time for this. When I got a little older I didn't desire to do it that often and when I got a little older I couldn't do it as often ad as long. That happens to every guy.
  
  If a guy in his 30's tells you; he can go so many times a night, don't believe him.
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  PrettyPantherposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  I'm not sure what you mean by the first sentence. In any case, I am not insulted, nor did I mean to insult you, if either of those is what you meant. SweetiePie is the one who thought you were seeking attention. If you want to say how often you did it, it's fine by me. Sex is fun, and it's fun to talk about it as far as I'm concerned. :-)
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  Harvey Stelmanposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  pretty,
  
  My mistake 100%. Sweetie and you were talking and I adressed the answer to you. You don't seem like you would get offended easily.
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  Colebabieposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Why? Not every guy is the same. Of course being healthy is important to having good sexual health. I can understand circumstances changing when health changes. But not every guy is the same.
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  Harvey Stelmanposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  cole,
  
  You are correct, but we all slow down eventually.
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  Colebabieposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Usually in response to health, not desire.
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  Harvey Stelmanposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  cole,
  
  I'm not disagreeing with you.
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  Colebabieposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  I know you aren't Harvey, but apparently Sneako disagrees with me. It doesn't have anything to do with me teaching the subject (since I teach sexual health to mostly college freshmen) but rather someone saying that 100% of a population does anything. It is not the case that the sexual interest of ALL men diminishes over time Sneako. It just isn't. Case in point: Shigeo Tokuda or Dave Cummings ( about the last name). For a couple of extreme examples.
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  Harvey Stelmanposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Cole,
  
  Nothingg is 100% all the time.
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  sneakorocksolidposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  I didn't know that! Are you sure? Well tell me how a fiffty + yr old should feel about sex, I'm curious.
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  Harvey Stelmanposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  sneak,
  
  Should be an interesting response.
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  Harvey Stelmanposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Cole,
  
  You haven't aged. I couldn't have the same energy and desire as I did at 20. All my friend's say the same thing. Age does take a toll. Why do ballplayers retire at an early age?
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  sneakorocksolidposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  I agree with you Harvey, with all due respect Cole.
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  Harvey Stelmanposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Cole,
  
  Every guy is the same! You must be a virgin.
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  AdsenseStrategiesposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  ahem
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  tantrumposted 14 years agoin reply to this
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  PrettyPantherposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Okay, let's just set the record straight right here. My man is 62 and he has gone 4 times in one night. So, I'm guessing he could go more than that when he was in his 30s.
  
  On this particular subject, Harvey, you are mistaken. If a guy in his 30s tells you he can go so many times a night, you could believe him, and you could wonder why he felt the need to tell you in the first place. Most women would be thinking the latter.
  
  There, case closed.
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  Harvey Stelmanposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  pretty,
  
  As women age they say they had less lovers, men tell fish stories. I've had over 200 in one day.
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  Harvey Stelmanposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  tan,
  
  A woman not fooled.
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  Harvey Stelmanposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Adsense,
  
  Wasn't it a wonderful age?
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  shriketexasposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  to John Arumugam, I think Hervey's question is important, our sex drives, whether we admit it or not, is an important part of any relationship with our partners, it is an integral part that initially draws us together, it is even on a subconscious level that attracts us to a mate. Sex is a wonderful gift that God gave us, that is why for the majority of people it is so wonderful, it is a continual confirmation of love and commitment to each other, but like anything else you have to change it up to keep it interesting. If I worked out every day doing the same repetitions it would be very boring and one would eventually tire of it. God didn't make rules for the bedroom, so let loose, God gave us a wonderful gift between married people.
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  Harvey Stelmanposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Tex,
  
  If you want change, try Deeno. BAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA!
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  Denno66posted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Yer killin' me, Harvey.
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Denno66posted 14 years ago
For the sake of keeping this thread clean, let's just say: Yes.
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  Harvey Stelmanposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Denno,
  
  Send my regards to Rosey Palm.
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Denno66posted 14 years ago
Hey, at least it's not Religion or Politics.
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  tantrumposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  but it's SEX !!
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  Harvey Stelmanposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  tan,
  
  That's why it's on the Forums and not a Hub.
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  tantrumposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  
  Well you can write a hub as well. I find sex topics very amusing !
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  Harvey Stelmanposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  tan,
  
  My Hubs are mostly very serious.
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  tantrumposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  and you have 102 !
  I'm not going in there !
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  Harvey Stelmanposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  tan,
  
  A woman never......you know.
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  tantrumposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  A woman never... what ? And I can't go with my own bed. I'm far away.Maybe you can lend me one !
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  Harvey Stelmanposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  tan,
  
  My wife and I have always had bunk beds.
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  tantrumposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  sounds like fun !
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  Harvey Stelmanposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  tan,
  
  Not easy, think how far I had to swing it around?
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  Harvey Stelmanposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Denno,
  
  Not this time. I'm thinking about a Hub that includes both.
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SweetiePieposted 14 years ago
Yeah I am happy about that, but it just was getting a little too detailed. Maybe I am uptight or something, but do you really want to know how many times a day and such
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  Harvey Stelmanposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  sweetie,
  
  I answered that comment; I guess you haven't seen it. I though younger people could handle that. At least I do not tell any untruths in any of my writings.
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  SweetiePieposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Seriously though, I think you have a bit of obsession about the age thing. No one cares if you are older, and you seem to think we should care. However, Hubpages is not exactly a site where I see long time hubbers posting these details, putting down other religions, or just plain looking for attention as you do. I am not some little girl looking up to you for inspiration, and that is the truth.
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  Harvey Stelmanposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  sweetie,
  
  If you look to me for inspiration, I will reccommend you to a worthy source. I use my age as a frame of reference. As one ages their views change for a myriad of reasons. When I look back to what I believed in, in the late 60's.... The pics are now very funny.
  
  Wait and see for yourself, but enjoy in the meantime.
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  SweetiePieposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Well, I am one of those people that takes others aback in my self-confidence and self-certainty. I know who I am and what I stand for, and I hardly see those core things changing. As I have said there are several hubbers on here that are in their seventies and eighties, and who are much more liberal politically. However, what you want to do with your personal life is your business. Maybe you should start admiring some younger people for a change also, and maybe you might learn something. Just a thought.
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  Harvey Stelmanposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  sweetie,
  
  Not likely. I was a liberal and have studied history. None of the ideas our President has are new, except the tele-prompter. All of the things he wants have been tried and failed. Don't believe me, read it on your own. Try reading Saul Alinsky, "Rules for Radicalss."
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  SweetiePieposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  I read all the time, which is what you fail to realize. You simply want me to follow your lead, and I shall not. As I said Ralph Deeds, who I admire very much, tends to be quite liberal. Blue Dog is also a bit older than myself, and he is not exactly what you would call a conservative kind of guy.
  
  My own grandpa voted for Obama, and he does not have the hang-ups with him that you have. Many college professors I know that are in their seventies actually have a problem with Obama because he is too moderate for their tastes. There are all kinds of people in the world, and they will not take your lead. So if anything maybe you can realize not everyone is you, and your life story will not be everyone's path.
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  Harvey Stelmanposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  sweetie,
  
  I hate to say it, but teachers have become a terrible source. Revisionist history is what the teachers unions want taught. If you thinkI'm crazy about unions, find outhow many jobs they create andhow many plants they close. They were great in the 20's, 30's, 40's and 50's. They are the reason jobs go overseas.
  
  If you have to pay your workers $80 a hour (with benefits)and it can be produced for $20 an hour someplace else; where would you do it as CEO?
  
  Obama got in because he was an unknown. David Axelrod made a fool of the public. Obama never said how he would pay for anything and he read beautifully. Throw in the press and blame Bush for everything.
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  SweetiePieposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Highly disagree with you there! Actually in many cases Revisionist history sheds light on poor scholarship, especially since many historians now rely on a myriad of first source documents. For instance, William Bligh of Bounty fame was portrayed as a tyrant by the Fletcher Christian and Peter Heywood's families because they did not want their names sullied. Yes Bligh had a bit of a temper, but he was not the tyrant earlier books and Hollywood movies would lead you to believe.
  
  The evidence has come out later on that a big part of the issue was Bligh chose too many personal acquaintances and friends to work with him on the Bounty, and allowed his command to become lax. When he finally wanted to clamp down he had lost control of his ship, but only later research has revealed some of this. So you see to say Revisionist history is wrong is a fallacy because if that were so we would still go with historical accounts that promoted eugenics, and the subjugation of women. Not everything is the way you want it to be just because you say it is so. Many well researched and respected people are more left of center than you would like, and that is just how the cookie crumbles.
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  Harvey Stelmanposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  sweetie,
  
  One of my friend's quit teaching because of what they wanted him to teach. He taught history and wanted to teach the truth.
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  SweetiePieposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Okay Harvey, that is your interpretation. If your friend felt that way he should have taught at a private school that likes to slant things. By the way much of what you say sounds like people in Arizona who advocate right to work, and lower wages for teachers and other professionals. It is not unionization that sent jobs overseas, but greedy corporations that wanted to save their bottom line. People across all party lines are guilty of it, but unions actually want to improve working condition and wages. With that being said I have not worked under a union contract for several years, but they are not a bad thing to have. People under a union contract have guaranteed health care and a salary, and I do not. Oh well, I have more flexibility, and since I do not have kids I do not need to worry about the benefits part as much.
  
  Seriously, you sound like some of the hubbers that say we should not have health care reform and send that anyone without insurance to an ER. My friend is a PA, and tells me how too many people come to the ER for things a regular physician could do, such as filling basic prescriptions. I stand behind the candidates who actually want to improve the health care system, and not pander to the status quo.
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  Harvey Stelmanposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  sweetie,
  
  As a former CEO that negotiated with unions, I must differ. I have a few friend's that are CEO's. I guess we didn't understand our own figures.
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  SweetiePieposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Seriously I would say too many CEO's are over salaried, especially in today's economy. Unions are in place because there are people who deserve a living wage, and without unions these never would have been put into place. We know first hand there are several local employers that would only pay their employees the state minimum wage and offer no benefits if they had their way. This may not seem like a bad deal to you, but how can families support themselves on this?
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  Harvey Stelmanposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  sweetie,
  
  I didn't take a salary if there was no profit, I'm a bad man! Do you complain about a surgeon charging too much to save a life, and then go to a concert or ballgame. Americans complin about fee's, but not when it is for entertainment.
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  Harvey Stelmanposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  sweetie,
  
  You have no idea what most CCEO's make, most work for private companies. Have you ever been in a room negotiating with a union?
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  Harvey Stelmanposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  sweetie,
  
  What's going on behind closed doors, without the other Party; TRANSPARENCY? Leftist Democrat's don't like this; do you?
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ralwusposted 14 years ago
I did once, but sex ain't all one needs in marriage. that was my second mistake.
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  Harvey Stelmanposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  ral,
  
  And the third?
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sneakorocksolidposted 14 years ago
It's relative.
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  tantrumposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Hi sneako !
  I'm sure you're relative !
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  sneakorocksolidposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Hey Tantrum! Happy New Year!
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  tantrumposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Happy New Year for you too. !
  I'm sure you're a great lover !
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  sneakorocksolidposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Well I've tried to keep her happy. I think my secret is to give lots of hugs and back rubs!
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  tantrumposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  it has to be more than that, I'm sure !
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  sneakorocksolidposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Oh Yeah! I forgot lots of neck kiss'in!
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  tantrumposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  I think you're forgetting a lot more ! don't want to share your love making secrets with the fellow hubbers ?
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  sneakorocksolidposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Well I used to me a machine! Now I'm more playful!
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  tantrumposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  good to know ! Maybe I'll pay you a visit !
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  sneakorocksolidposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Please don't hurt me!
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  tantrumposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  
  I will not take the whip with me !
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  Harvey Stelmanposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  sneak & tan,
  
  I have a room for rent!
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  tantrumposted 14 years agoin reply to this
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  Harvey Stelmanposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  tan,
  
  Forgot to tell you to bring your own bed.
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  Harvey Stelmanposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  tan,
  
  He lives in the South Pole!
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  Harvey Stelmanposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  sneak,
  
  I truly understand. Here is my best line at this time. "All I came promise you is two of the biggest inches you've ever seen, and five of the most exciting seconds of your life." Being married 31 years, it's always a joke.
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  Harvey Stelmanposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  tan,
  
  I think it means brother and sister, sure!
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  Harvey Stelmanposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  tan,
  
  I'm not your relative!
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  Harvey Stelmanposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  sneak,
  
  Never with a relative, we have laws.
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Will Apseposted 14 years ago
A woman who is willing to meet a man's sexual needs is always going to score high with a man. If the man is willing to do the same in return that can mean quite a bond.

p.s. there is no need to fight. And it is a legit topic. Too many marriages fail for sexual reasons.
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  Harvey Stelmanposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Will,
  
  The biggest reason for divorce is money. When it comes to sex it should be 50/50, just like a relationship.
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  Harvey Stelmanposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Will,
  
  I'm married 31 years, it will only end when one of us dies. So everyone that thinks I'm here to brag;try to match me on that. I do have a past and I'm not affraid to talk about it. Some of you folks take me back to the 1950's.
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tantrumposted 14 years ago
I think this thread is very entertaining !
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  Harvey Stelmanposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  tan,
  
  I am truly glad you are having fun, that was my intention.
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tantrumposted 14 years ago

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Colebabieposted 14 years ago
The sex doesn't dwindle for all couples. Some yes, most maybe... but definitely not all. I shadow in a geriatric office, they don't call for refills of their cholesterol meds but definitely their Cialis.
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  Harvey Stelmanposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  cole,
  If healthy enough people will not stop.
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  Colebabieposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  See. And you said that you disagreed with me. Even though all I said was that not ALL men experience a decrease in sexual desire or function.
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  sneakorocksolidposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  You know old men better than I do!
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  Colebabieposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Or maybe just people in general?
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  sneakorocksolidposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  54 yrs and I missed it all, I knew I was stupid.
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  Colebabieposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  I don't think you are stupid at all Sneako.
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  Harvey Stelmanposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Cole,
  
  Don't argue with the mans self analysis.
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  Harvey Stelmanposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Cole,
  
  I learned years ago not to compare myself to a book. Statistics in the book are based on a question; how is it worded, is it slanted and so much more.
  
  I have proven a few times that teachers had NO idea what was going on. That's one reason I didn't get good grades. They didn't like being shown up.
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  Harvey Stelmanposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  sneak,
  
  Don't be so hard (ha) on yourself. Ignorant may have been fine.
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  Harvey Stelmanposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Cole,
  
  I am the wisest mn to ever live in this body!
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  Harvey Stelmanposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  sneak,
  
  I consider you a kid.
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  Harvey Stelmanposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Cole,
  
  Is there a good ballgame on?
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SweetiePieposted 14 years ago
Just a thought, but I think Cole actually knows what she is talking about because she teaches this subject.
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  sneakorocksolidposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  I'm in my fifties and what Harvey said is a reality but it takes on a more appropriate frequency considering our age and responsibilities. I got married when I was nineteen to my current wife and that part of our relationship is much, much tamer now! I don't even have the strength to think about what it was like!
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  Harvey Stelmanposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  sneak,
  
  I like an honest man.
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  Harvey Stelmanposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  sweetie,
  
  I lived in a retirement center for 5 months. Sold my house and my condo wasn't built yet. I know what happens. As a "young" resident I received offers from women in their 80's, they knew I was married! I heard stories from many of them. I think I know.
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  SweetiePieposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Maybe in your eighties, but Cole was referring to people in their thirties.
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  Harvey Stelmanposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  sweetie,
  
  I wrote her.
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  SweetiePieposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  My friend is not on Hubpages, what do you mean?
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  Harvey Stelmanposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  sweetie,
  
  You said Cole.
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  Colebabieposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  No she said she has a friend who is a PA.
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  Harvey Stelmanposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Cole,
  
  My mistake. I'm sooo old my eyes...I mean my eyes.
  
  NITE-NITE!
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  Colebabieposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  No worries!
  Good night
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  Harvey Stelmanposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  sweetie,
  
  We live it and talk with friend's.
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lyricsingrayposted 14 years ago
ha

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  Harvey Stelmanposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  lyric,
  
  Always keep them laughing. As you know I was a inger I would stop in the middle of a song and tell a joke or a story.
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habeeposted 14 years ago
I definitely did not! And now that I'm older, I'm glad. I have definitely found that there are more important things in a relationship. If you had told me that 20 years ago, I would have called you a liar, however.
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  Harvey Stelmanposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  hab,
  
  Both sides now.
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ralwusposted 14 years ago
Harvey my man, you sure know how to get something rolling.
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  Harvey Stelmanposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  ral,
  
  You should have seen me on stage, years ago.
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Colebabieposted 14 years ago
Obviously I'm not trying to say how someone should feel about sex. Not at all. But rather your feelings are not shared by all.
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  sneakorocksolidposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  When you do your census do you base it on the majority or the exception?
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  Colebabieposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  The exception. Which I stated.
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shinujohn2008posted 14 years ago
Good Sexual partners will be ahieved if both of them open their minds and talk and decide how they want it to spice.
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  Harvey Stelmanposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  shin,
  
  Isn't that how it's always done?
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cindyvineposted 14 years ago
Colebabie sometimes the brain is willing but their body lets them down
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  Colebabieposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Definitely.
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  Harvey Stelmanposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  cindy,
  
  A giraffe can see it all.
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Denno66posted 14 years ago
So, then we're still talking about sex here?
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  Harvey Stelmanposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Deanno,
  
  Woof, and leave my leg alone!
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  Harvey Stelmanposted 14 years agoin reply to this
  Denno,
  
  I didn't recognize you.
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Denno66posted 14 years ago
Dang! Sorry, thought I was following that damned Sheep!
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Denno66posted 14 years ago
Hi Harvey! I'll check in from day to day for the response.
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John Wiggensposted 13 years ago
Been there done that, been without sex for 25 years, married 43 years. Don't want to be bothered by intimacy and sex.
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Greek Oneposted 13 years ago
In my country, one can't wed oneself
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  CMHypnoposted 13 years agoin reply to this
  But you could have a great courtship with yourself?
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  SomewayOuttaHereposted 13 years agoin reply to this
  ...don't worry GO...soon you'll be able to marry yerself and live happily ever after....we'll eventually catch up to that woman in the Philippines (or where ever it was) that married herself....it's the divorcing yourself that will be kinda hard!
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