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   Naeh816posted 14 years ago

   Why do women want to save a relationship that was interrupted by infidelity?

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      Greek Oneposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      Because they chose to forgive themselves for not being more attentive to their man?? 

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         donotfearposted 14 years agoin reply to this

         
         Greek One!!!!  I'm surprised by your statement!  You're insinuating it's the woman's fault her man cheated!!  Bad boy.
         

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            Greek Oneposted 14 years agoin reply to this

            shhhhh.. i am trying to provoke outrage

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               Originposted 14 years agoin reply to this

               You? Provoke outrage? Naw... your too tender and soft-hearted.

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                  Greek Oneposted 14 years agoin reply to this

                  I was soft and tender... but thanks to modern medicine..
                  
                  

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                     Originposted 14 years agoin reply to this

                     I should have seen that one coming.

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                        Greek Oneposted 14 years agoin reply to this

                        I'm not going to make a comment re "seen that one coming" because this is a family website....
                        
                        and because, like my ex, it would just be too easy

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                           donotfearposted 14 years agoin reply to this

                           
                           You're too much, Greeky!  Now don't take that outta context, you bad boy!

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                              Greek Oneposted 14 years agoin reply to this

                              

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                                 donotfearposted 14 years agoin reply to this

                                 AWWWW, really?    My Sunday School teacher told me "It aint the size of the bucket it's the way you dip the water!"

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                                    Greek Oneposted 14 years agoin reply to this

                                    you went to a Satanic Sunday school?

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                           Originposted 14 years agoin reply to this

                           Haha, and then I was about to say.. "I walked into that one".. but then again you could have turned that around.. awww...

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      Poppa Bluesposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      I don't know, but I'd like to give all you women a chance to even the score! Email me for no strings attached sex.

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         Wendi Mposted 14 years agoin reply to this

         LOL!

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         myownworldposted 14 years agoin reply to this

         you're right... this IS a dating site afterall....

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            Originposted 14 years agoin reply to this

            It is? Yay!

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            Poppa Bluesposted 14 years agoin reply to this

            And bring your machete, the element of danger always adds excitement!

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         mega1posted 14 years agoin reply to this

         email sex,   that's a new one on me!  how does that work?  is it good for you?

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   myownworldposted 14 years ago

   lol.. I like the word 'interrupted'!
   
   On a serious note, lots of reasons:
   - children!
   - love, despite all.
   - habit...
   - too many 'memories'...
   - lack of courage to break free or live on one's own/ low self esteem at times...
   - societal pressure
   - lack of other options/ financial dependence
   
   I'm sure there are many others too...since every individual and relationship is different...

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      Greek Oneposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      Plus.. just by sleeping with his brother a woman can 'even the score'

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   myownworldposted 14 years ago

   oh...the 'solution' requires a whole different list altogether!

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      Greek Oneposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      there you go again with your 'chop off his penis' idea again

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         myownworldposted 14 years agoin reply to this

         there you go jumping to conclusions again!
         And was that my idea...or yours? um... slip of the tongue...?

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            Greek Oneposted 14 years agoin reply to this

            slip of the tongue is what can get a guy in trouble in the first place!

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            Obscure Divineposted 14 years agoin reply to this

            Aren't you the girl who once used a dull machete on a poor guy's ... oh, never mind. 

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               myownworldposted 14 years agoin reply to this

               yep, they taught me that at a Taliban camp once: in our culture the man is of course forgiven the affairs... just beheaded for his beliefs! Some crazy people where I come from....

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         donotfearposted 14 years agoin reply to this

         
         

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   AdeleCosgroveBrayposted 14 years ago

   Maybe, sometimes, a person (husband, wife or long-term partner) simply feels there are more important things to their relationship than an occasional fling?

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      myownworldposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      yes, it's a lot more complicated than we imagine, isn't it?  I know so many women and men in similar situations.... strangely enough,  more people are 'desperate' to make things work once they've had an affair on the side....

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   Greek Oneposted 14 years ago

   I know if the show was on the other foot, i couldn't continue in the relationship...
   
   Not just because of the cheating, but because of the long distance relationship aspect (since I will be in jail some place after having killed her lover)

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   Wendi Mposted 14 years ago

   Insecurity!

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   Hokeyposted 14 years ago

   Ladies just come to Hokey and never worry about cheating again!

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      donotfearposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      
      There you have it!!

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   Originposted 14 years ago

   Love, and for the hope that the person realizes his/her mistakes and doesn't do it again.

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   myownworldposted 14 years ago

   this thread is getting CRAZIER by the moment!!!
   
   
   
              
   
                                
   
                                          
   
   (u know that when there are more smileys than words!!)

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