can you help heal my husband from an ungodly soultie and save our marriage.

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   breidposted 14 years ago

   can you help heal my husband from an ungodly soultie and save our marriage.

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   RevCRSanchezposted 14 years ago

   The Question and challenge is this. Does He want to be your soul mate and not that of another?    If He does not want to be your soul mate exclusively and desires to tie himself to another then, you do not have a marriage.  You have relationship of convience.  If he does want you to be his exclusive soul mate, he must sever whatsoever ties he has with another.  My wife has a female friend who is in an ungodly social relationship.  She is living off of a man that is married to another.  He uses her for sex and she wishes to be free of him, but she needs his money because she can not find work.  I am sure his wife knows about this situation and wishes that this other woman stop draining him of his funds.  It is up to him.   If he persists in a ungodly relationship then he has made his decision.  You choice is simple.  Either you pray for him and leave him or Pray for him and stay with Him.   A person can not be delivered if He does not want to be delivered.

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   DeBorrah K. Ogansposted 14 years ago

   Bried, I  can not  heal  Him but God can!  God has ordained marriage.  It is within the context  of  marriage that a man and a woman can learn how to properly relate intimately, emotionally and physically! There is a  healthy  bond that  can develop and grow…   This is why it is important to pray for your spouse,  meditate on the Word,  consult  the Lord and seek His direction.   
   Anger, fear, anxiety, hatred all attribute to developing  and  reinforcing strongholds.  A soul tie is a form of a stronghold.  “God is Love!”  There is no power stronger than God!  Begin to pray and intercede on your husband’s behalf.     
   An unhealthy soul tie is when a person is manipulated and controlled in some unhealthy way!   Previous  or current improper sexual  relationships, abuse, low self esteem,  broken promises, immaturity   are only a few of the many unhealthy behaviors to  reinforce the improper relationship…
   
   Marriage is important to God!    How we relate to one another is important to God… Trust God and ask  Him to open your understanding.  You cannot change what has happened but you can go forward allowing God to guide you….This takes strength and patience allow the Light of the Lord to shine through you....  The Word of God is powerful it is  “ALIVE” this is why it is so important that we use it constructively  in all situations.  The Lord has given you His Holy Spirit as a Guide which is also His Comforter.   
   I suggest reading  Psalms 1, it contains the prescription to be Blessed,  Galatians  5,  contrasts the works of the flesh and the Fruit of the Spirit, Galatians 6 Restoration  and Ephesians 6  Spiritual warfare! and more.  Be encouraged!   God truly is able!
   I hope this is helpful!   In HIS service,  Peace & Blessings!

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   vinividiviciposted 14 years ago

   1. Inspire him for Meditation.
   2. Attach him with hubpage ( I did not make joke!)
   3. Increase personal sharing

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   dabeanerposted 14 years ago

   Is this a real question?  What sane person would believe in that voodoo, much less seek advice about it?  If I were so foolish as to have married you in the first place, I would now be running if I had just now become aware of your delusional thinking.

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